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Shara_Shikon

PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 3:34 pm


I go to this extremely rich school. (I'm one of the poorer kids, though) But a same-sex relationship is very frowned upon here. From what I can tell, I think theres a possibility I might be the only bi at my school. I know there was a gay couple that got married or something. People in some of my classes have sat there and made fun of people like that. The teacher joined in as well. I really don't like any of them. It's not fair.
PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 3:43 pm


well, the ones are my school, are either in the closet or no body know sthe ones who arent...I dont know if my school, is discriminating, but the people in my school are (my fellow pupils, and some teachers). well this is what happned last year's Day of Silence. We're in a group, and this graphic arts teacher came out, and preach the the bible to us! Im thinking he cant do this! i was pissed, but we COULDNT SAY ANYTHING because of DOS. since we couldnt talk, we threw paper, i couldnt find rocks razz .

GoGoillusionz


bunnymew

PostPosted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 11:05 am


oh wow, i remember something close to that happening to be, but the principle wasn't envoled it was other students. I was sitting and my ex came up behind me and hugged me from behind. Me and her were still cool so cuddling was okay with me. But then a group of girls [around maybe...8 girls] looked at us and started to ask questions, 'She is your girlfriend?' "Are you a lesbian?' 'Do you know thats wrong?' 'Why do you do that?' 'Thats disgusting'. They just started with religion stuff, then lesctured me about being bi or lesbian is wrong. then they left. Whats strange is that i hang out in front of the teacher's lounge. And they always sees us. If they say thats disgusting that a girl was hugging me from behind, i see the hallways,quad,everywhere. Where striaght couples are making out and other whatnot. I do see teacher just tell him to stop. Thats it. I'm happy I graduated from high school and went to a college where they're open gay people there.
PostPosted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 2:01 pm


Something similar happened at my school in Arizona. The principle, Ms. Carlson, saw two girls kissing at the M.O.R.P. Dance in february and forces them to go to her office and call their parents and tell them that they were gay/bi then write down the names of at least 5 other people that they knew were gay/bi for a fact then had those people do the same thing. Lucky for me and my gf we found each other on accident (long story) and only ourselves and maybe 2 or 3 other people all of whom are strait (as far as we know) and havent told anybody else, so were safe from Ms. Carleson's homophobia. I cant tell my mom anyways because her exact words were "if you or any of you sisters or brother came home and told me some s**t like that you would be out of my house in the next five minutes" and she did it to my older sister and forbade me and my other sibling from talking to her, so i call her on my celly since im the one who gets the bill... but still, we know shes serious and being only 15, i cant live on my own and my sis can hardly take care of herself so i would have nowhere to go. Well, the kids at my school always stick together so every friday everybody wears their rainbows and so far Ms. Carlson has backed off, but not much, hopefully she will get over herself before anything too bad happens, expecially since were going to eventually run out of gay and bi people.

Kikonami


~Angel of the Wind~

PostPosted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 6:32 pm


[.c**t Commander.]

I think telling your parents can be the hardest.
I know people who are grown and parents still don't know.
I plan to wait til I move out so I they don't put me in counseling.
Anyways...
Okay so one day at lunch my friends and I were in the quad.
My friend ,Jasmine, wasn't feeling to good so she was laying down on her girlfriend ,Melanie, lap. They weren't doing anything. But the counselor tells the dean and principle then sent to the office are sent to the office. Yes, it's against our schools rules to show PDA(public displays of affection) but c'mon. Anyways, they have my friend write a statement, and talk to the dean and principle. A few days later they ended up calling their parents. Neither of their parents lnew of their sexual preference. The teacher that sponsors our GSA at our school said he'd do all he could. Mel's parent's threatened to take her out of the school. We're still not sure if they will. The thing that unfair. Is that just moments after they sent my friends to the office. A girl is sitting on a guys lap, and the counselor just says to get up, nothing more. Later we read in the newspaper about something similar happening in another school. My school is kind of over protective and all. But the could have just said they did PDA but didn't have to say with who. And all this for laying her head down.
Is this just my highschool?
Have you heard of anything happening at yours?
Should your school have the right to tell your parents of your sexuality?
It's suppose to be our choice,...right? I haven't told my parents for a reason.
What are your thoughts?


That must be the stupidest thing Ive ever heard.
How is sitting on someones lap even a public affection.
Everyone, especially the girls sit on each others lap all the time
and I mean friends and firends not even people going out.
The only people who sometimes get told off at our school
Are people who are hard core macking out and it doesnt matter who it is.

How can they make a rule about not showing public affection
That is the most retarted thing I ever heard of personally.
I mean I understand not whant the sucking each other faces off
and the groping etc. thats just common sense and not appropriate.

I cant beleive her parents threatened to take her out of school that is
Just not right.

I dont think they have any right to tell anyone your personnal preferances
I mean what buisness is it off theirs if you choose to be with a girl or boy
If you can get the people who were boy and girl on each other to say
The punishment they got in court compared to your friends punishment
you can sue them for discrimination(In Canada for sure, in the US mostly likely)

This kinda stuff happens to often even if she cant sue the school for any reason
(no money, no support from an of age person)
I would do something about it raise awareness about it. Anything.
thats ridiculus.
PostPosted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 7:06 pm


THEY SHOULDNT BE ABLE TOO

ideaguy09


Dark Lady Kaida

PostPosted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 2:59 pm


Luckily, the school I'm going to now is really open about this kind of stuff. Most people who are GLBT are very open about it. I even just discovered that one of my newly met friends wants to be a guy, and I'm very pround of her for coming out to me. <3 Plus, I've been coming out to a lot of my friends about being bi, and I'm even thinking about joining our GSA, since I know some people who are members and it might be a nice place to talk to people.
Sadly, though, I've heard news of things getting bad at the school I went to last year. I know people who still go there, and one of them is a lesbian. There has actually been horrible discrimination against her and her girlfriend, and they were given an hour-long lecture by a Dean for just walking down the hall holding hands, while I know for a fact that there are constantly straight kids shoving their tongues down each other's throats there with no consequences. It really sickens me that people would be so prejudiced, and I'm glad that I'm finally out of that place.
PostPosted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 7:28 pm


Thats dumb but nothing like that has ever happened where I am. Because of one reason.

Gays/bis are rare where I live.

Seriously like 90% or more of them is straight (myself included).

I have nothing against gays. I also think that getting dention or such for that reason is ridiculous.

Walamanchee


Icarus Bonekind

Dapper Entrepreneur

PostPosted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 11:31 pm


Funnily enough, I got in more trouble for being cuddly with my boyfriend (now ex) in an empty classroom than I did for frenching my female friend in the hallway. Apparently at my school, PDA is only bad if you're doing it in private and you get caught. Which would make it not PDA. rolleyes
PostPosted: Fri Mar 31, 2006 1:40 am


Meh my school can't do that it would be against the Gay Protection Policy we have.

AnnouncerGuy

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