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Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 4:33 pm
I'm abhorred by the amount of youths having sex these days, I dislike the idea of sex in all ways but if I have to validate an appropriate age I think even 16 is pushing the boundary, the fact that everything in the world todays seems to shove it in your face at ever opportunity is the main problem. I don't see what was so wrong with the old days where people courted for a long time before finally consenting and waiting till they were 18, 19 even 30. The fact its every where you turn these days is one of the reasons I think the world is turning into a big vat of sex mad, stupid monkeys that rather than having in intelligent discussion and other such things would rather throw feces at one another in an attempt at fun.
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Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 5:36 pm
*cough* Orchestra's cooler. *cough*
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Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 5:58 pm
Konata: While you are allowed your own opinions, this was placed here to have an intelligent discussion, and you so insinuated otherwise towards the end of your statement.
Back in the day, forty-year-olds married and ******** sixteen-year-olds.
Shall we revert to that, too?
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Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 7:43 pm
Sexuality views change drastically through age and time, as Pink so clearly (and cleverly) remarks, I like to quote the opening lines from interview with a vampire, just because almost everyone has seen the movie, in general as life expectancy has grown, we have more time to look for a partner, but when people was expected to die at 30-35 you had to be a man and have a family by your early twenties, aside from that the beggining of last century had a very distinctive "freedom" aura, the 20's and 30's were heavily sex years, and we had a counter movement to a more "decent" aproach (I dislike using the word decent, but I believe you all understand what i was going after) then we have the sixties, with all the free love of the hippies, etc etc, the point is that we go from top to bottom on the views periodically, its part of human history it seems, so it is kind of arbitrary to determine that all the past had better and more proper behaviour.
But what I do like about this kind of topics is how everyone feels so strongly about their position, even Jack, feels strongly about not knowing where he stands :p but it makes for solid points and passionate posts.
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Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 9:09 pm
I've been in both Orchestra and Band. Orchestra first, I played violin (better than Ives!!), and I now am in band playing clarinet. Suckily. 'Cause, y'know, I just started. And there's no beginner class, dammit. sad
And y'know, just to provide another viewpoint as of yet unspoken, here I go. Konata says she dislikes even 16 as an age of consent. And a lot of people have said things similar to that. So! First, we'll say nature. Basically, nature intended for us to ******** as soon as we were physically capable. Ever wonder why every single fourteen-year-old you've ever met was perverted? Yeah.... never know when some random animal would come along and rip our intestines out through our chest, so in order to be sure the human race wouldn't die, we went and got each other pregnant as soon as possible. Same with the human's natural self-conflict: loyalty vs. promiscuity. Humans, like penguins, have an instinct which makes us loyal to our..... 'mate'..... although I hate using that term, as it reduces the entire relationship to that alone..... but hey, I'm supposed to be an uninvolved thrid party for the purposes of this. Now. That instinct..... to be honest, I'm really tired, so I can't remember why exactly we have it, but yeah. That's the reason behind the boyfriend-girlfriend structure: loyalty. You only have one. Now, humans also have another instinct which contradicts this, which penguins don't have: promiscuity. We, as a species, want to ******** different people as opposed to only one. I can remember why this is. In males, it was intended to basically increase the human population by allowing and encouraging the male to father many children. In females, it was intended to allow for genetic 'mixing', since I'm too tired to come up with a better term: it was intended to have the female have sex with several different males, in order to increase the genetic variation within the population, thus providing higher chances of rending a 'superior human', that is, one who can actually live more than fifteen years. Obviously, this was successful. But in the end, now that the promiscuity instinct is no longer needed, we're stuck with two contradictory instincts, promiscuity and loyalty to one 'mate', which put us in internal conflict pretty often. For me personally, I'm a pretty big fan o' loyalty, but there are those who almost completely ignore that instinct, so I guess it somehow evens out in a very odd way that doesn't really even out but kinda looks like it might..... Aaaand the middle ages. Like Ives already said, people died pretty early, so they obviously had to have children by the time they did, otherwise we wouldn't be having this conversation. Twenty-something was the age at which you were expected to have a family and children, or at least children on the way, and by thirty, you were either dead or old. All those movies in the middle ages with guys with gray hair? In their fifties or so? Yeah, they'd be ancient to the people then. Prolly be worshipped or something. Anyway, that was another reason for breeding early. Basically, it all goes back to times in which we had to breed early to insure that the human race would survive. Of course, those times are gone, but we still have those basic instincts, so....... yeah.
Also, back to the middle ages thing, I think that's wierd. Take knights. If you were lucky enough to be able to pay to train as a knight, you became a page at age seven, which was a servant to the knight under whom you train, then a squire at age fourteen, which was when you began actually training. When and if you turned twenty-one, you became a knight. Notice the pattern there? Seven, seven years, seven years, seven years, knight. 7-7-7-7-K. Or, to say the steps alone, 7-7-7. Notice something familiar about that?
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Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 10:25 pm
[† Where do the vampyres go when this gets too hard? †] Holy ******** crap, Christian. That's right, I went there.
Install some paragraphs in your mindset and lay off the drugs. xD I skimmed what you had to say and liked it but am overwhelmed. [† Under the dreams in your eyes. †]
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Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 10:32 pm
Playing Violin better than Ives is hardly an accomplishment crying But you know something? I also enjoy abusing emotes mrgreen
Your elaborate explanation was dead on, I would just say that most of the people that heavily disregard the loyalty part are instinct driven, and more times than not have suffered a broken heart (but then again, who hasnt?)
I just think that experimenting a little before settling down is a great way to get that out of your system, otherwise you might end up wondering how some stuff actually is rofl
Yes, that includes a menage a trois, hope I am still chill enough to not bring upon myself Nyzz anger, otherwise I will have to take another of those awfull tasting chill pills
ninja
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Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 12:18 am
- N y z z - Do I sense a band geek among us? =] Several. I'm a flag girl, and I used to play clarinet (I'm not good enough to play in marching band or even concert band... I've forgotten how to read almost half of the notes now.)
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Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 1:14 am
This be my cue? w00t!
When my fiancee and I started dating we started having sex about 3 months into the relationship, at that time I had turned 18. And I must say he was my first, I was his first and it was the best thing ever. Of course the first time was rather funny because we were both nervous and for a long time I couldn't take the entire extent of his manhood. After a while I suppose you could say I got used to it (or all into it.) After a while we found out that sex was something we would do at least 33-40% of the time, mostly because we are bored. But I must confess most of the time I would be the one to seduce him. But each time we did its was just amazing, we don't do it just to ********, we do it to make love and every time its magical.
As for sexual preferences I'm very open minded, I love to experiment I pretty much allow him to do whatever he wants as long as it does not include beating me during coitus. I do not like the idea of being slapped, hit or abused though he may spank me as much as he'd like =D As far as I would go on bondage would be blindfolds and handcuffs, thought I'm not a particular fan of being gagged, and of course I'm the submissive one I enjoy being handcuffed, but even more so blindfolded makes things so much more interesting.
Oh, and has anyone ever tried those strawberry or cherry liquid filled tubes at Spencers? They make blowjobs so much more easier, and tasty! 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 1:36 am
I found your story to be quite interesting Plethora, you were direct and honest, I for one enjoyed the post.
They (spencers) carry a rather curious line of stuff, I particularly like the chocolate paint, the brush included is worth the price alone, the flavor tubes are good, but the dildos are nothing spectacular, live and learn they say, and i (as most any other male without experience) thought that aquiring some toys would spice a lot my sex life, long story short, the dildos are the toys I have used the least, cuffs are so-so, the velcro on the ones they sell on spencers is not particularly sturdy, so they are not that good, what i would recommend though is the thing to tie you to your bed, and the version to strap you to a door, those are great, as for blindfolds... dont buy those... they dont stay in place if you are really into it.
Lucky me I didnt had to have luggage inspection when I arrived from that trip, would have been quite embarrasing to see a customs officer going through a plethora of newly bought toys... especially the dildos.
I know Nyzz is going to yell at me later today...
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Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 1:53 am
IvesRountree I found your story to be quite interesting Plethora, you were direct and honest, I for one enjoyed the post. They (spencers) carry a rather curious line of stuff, I particularly like the chocolate paint, the brush included is worth the price alone, the flavor tubes are good, but the dildos are nothing spectacular, live and learn they say, and i (as most any other male without experience) thought that aquiring some toys would spice a lot my sex life, long story short, the dildos are the toys I have used the least, cuffs are so-so, the velcro on the ones they sell on spencers is not particularly sturdy, so they are not that good, what i would recommend though is the thing to tie you to your bed, and the version to strap you to a door, those are great, as for blindfolds... dont buy those... they dont stay in place if you are really into it. Lucky me I didnt had to have luggage inspection when I arrived from that trip, would have been quite embarrasing to see a customs officer going through a plethora of newly bought toys... especially the dildos. I know Nyzz is going to yell at me later today... I never bought the toys from spencers, except for the flavor packs and intriguing candies. As for the handcuffs I happen to own a very good sturdy pair of my own the ones that accualy 'snap' and hold in place, I never liked the velcro those are so cheap and they tear easily especially when things start to get really rough and wild. The blindfold we simply use a long strip of black satin that we found in my closet one day and we got a little excited, needless to say it works very well as long as its tied in a double knot.
Dude! I went through this customs inspection once, and I had just bought my pair of handcuffs and this guy whose going through my luggage gives me this look and hes like "So what exactly do you carry this around for young lady!" My response "Oh C'mon a girl can't get a little freaky once in a while?" and the officers face quite literally turned bright red, even though he was black xd
But I must look up this 'thing' you say that ties you to the door This intrigues me Thankyou!
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Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 2:00 am
That is one of the best customs stories I have ever heard :p
I was feeling daring, but needless to say 90% of what they sell at spencers is pretty bad, or lame, but I had to try at least once :p the thinghie is quite funny, it goes on the upper part of a door, you close the door and one side is left hanging so you can strap someone to the door, and its sturdy enough so you can pretty much lift a girl and have her support herself and her weight on it and it will not budge, the girl this was tried on is a little light, weighing around 100 pounds, but the item gave no suspect of giving in, so I think that it can pretty much support at least 160 pounds with no effort, and it makes up for an excellent adition.
The problem with blindfolds and double knots is that i have such a hard time undoing knots... thats why I tried those ones, but i guess theres no substituting the classic versions.
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Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 2:08 am
IvesRountree That is one of the best customs stories I have ever heard :p I was feeling daring, but needless to say 90% of what they sell at spencers is pretty bad, or lame, but I had to try at least once :p the thinghie is quite funny, it goes on the upper part of a door, you close the door and one side is left hanging so you can strap someone to the door, and its sturdy enough so you can pretty much lift a girl and have her support herself and her weight on it and it will not budge, the girl this was tried on is a little light, weighing around 100 pounds, but the item gave no suspect of giving in, so I think that it can pretty much support at least 160 pounds with no effort, and it makes up for an excellent adition. The problem with blindfolds and double knots is that i have such a hard time undoing knots... thats why I tried those ones, but i guess theres no substituting the classic versions. I have another one including a ride on a Ferris Wheel at a fair rofl
I miss Europe, next time I go I must visite a few shops. they make Spencers look like a children's day care center. And at least their s**t is top notch.
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Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 2:25 am
Any decent sex shop makes spencers look bad, but call it a guy thing but I felt ashamed of buying some stuff on a store on my city, I know its silly, but being on a different country kind of gave me that little push.
Nowadays it is a lot easier for me going into a sex shop in mexico and getting stuff, but not on the past, and theres a lot of stuff I have not tried yet anyway.
I guess in the end its not the toy, but being playful that spices up things.
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Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 2:36 am
IvesRountree Any decent sex shop makes spencers look bad, but call it a guy thing but I felt ashamed of buying some stuff on a store on my city, I know its silly, but being on a different country kind of gave me that little push. Nowadays it is a lot easier for me going into a sex shop in mexico and getting stuff, but not on the past, and theres a lot of stuff I have not tried yet anyway. I guess in the end its not the toy, but being playful that spices up things. Its curiosity and theres nothing wrong with experimentation. I think it takes a true man to buy stuff at a sex shop, most guys would go 'oh s**t I'll look gay!" or wimp out. It takes BAWLS.
I don't really like the dildos or vibrators either, perhaps if your really, REALLY, lonely then sure go for it! but other than that I prefer the actual thing.
Although I think it would be rather funny if I took a few, walked into a very tall building and just randomly threw them out the window at the people walking below on the sidewalks and just watch everyones reactions to the dildos falling from the sky.
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