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 Posted: Mon Oct 03, 2005 7:00 pm
Another good idea for this thread would be some ideas for people who are dating and low on cash. You know things that don't make the guy look like a big dork when he's out of money.
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Posted: Mon Oct 03, 2005 10:55 pm
Isthene Another good idea for this thread would be some ideas for people who are dating and low on cash. You know things that don't make the guy look like a big dork when he's out of money. I'll edit that into the first post, thanks! 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 1:59 pm
I started a new school this year, and it was somewhat difficult leaving, but I quickly started crushing on this guy named Derrek. He's really nice, he plays the guitar and the drums, he's funny, and he has the most beautiful blue eyes I have ever seen. sweatdrop I sorta thought that he might like me because we flirt a lot and stuff. So, I got my friend to ask him if he liked me. For a couple of days she kept asking him and he kept saying no. Well, finally he said that he liked me. He kept giving her excuses about why he wouldn't ask me out. He finally told her that he was scared to ask me out, and that he didn't think that I liked him as much as he liked me. So, I told my friend to stop bugging him about it, and if he really liked me he would ask me out. Apparently, she brought it up again yesterday, and he told her that he was going to ask me out today. I was kinda nervous all day because I didn't know when he was going to do it. In science class I wrote a note to him saying hi. He wrote back and said, "So, do you wanna go out?" It seemed kinda funny that he would do it while writing notes in class, but of course I said yes. Anyway, when the bell rang he just left. He didn't wait for me, say bye, he didn't even look at me. I was sorta dissapointed, but I'm not sure if he's ever had a girlfriend before. (he's kinda shy, and not that sociable sp?) I feel like this relationship might get boring or that he's embarrased to be seen with me.
What do you think?
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Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 5:51 pm
He just sounds really shy. Talk to him about it the next time you have class together, or after class, and see what he says. 3nodding
And for future reference, guys like it when girls have confidence. wink So next time you want to ask him if he likes you, or if you want to ask him something else, you can try it yourself. He'll probably enjoy it. smile It shows a guy that a girl is interested in him, and has enough confidence to approach him herself.
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Posted: Fri Oct 07, 2005 12:10 am
You... should do something were you are able to tell if they're in it for sexual pleasure or not.. Tips on how you can tell. sweatdrop Just an Idea.. Yeah..
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Posted: Fri Oct 07, 2005 7:58 am
Hitoma You... should do something were you are able to tell if they're in it for sexual pleasure or not.. Tips on how you can tell. sweatdrop Just an Idea.. Yeah.. Thank you! heart *adds it to the to-do list*
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Posted: Fri Oct 07, 2005 5:26 pm
Today after school he came up to me, tapped my shoulder, and said, "I'll see you on Monday." It was kinda strange. No hug, no nothing. I think he just doesn't know how to be in a relationship. I don't think he's ever had a girlfriend.
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Posted: Fri Oct 07, 2005 7:09 pm
trippy hippy Today after school he came up to me, tapped my shoulder, and said, "I'll see you on Monday." It was kinda strange. No hug, no nothing. I think he just doesn't know how to be in a relationship. I don't think he's ever had a girlfriend. It does sound like he's trying though. And as for the no hug thing... I've been dating my boy-friend 3 months (friends for a year before that) now and I still have issues giving him a "real" hug. I've just never been a physical contact person. sweatdrop Thank goodness he's understanding and is willing to be patient with me. Since he seems so shy and unsure why don't you try making some of the moves him and intiating the conversations you want to have? From your descriptions I think he'll probably respond.. he just doesn't know how to go about getting there himself.
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Posted: Fri Oct 07, 2005 9:23 pm
trippy hippy Today after school he came up to me, tapped my shoulder, and said, "I'll see you on Monday." It was kinda strange. No hug, no nothing. I think he just doesn't know how to be in a relationship. I don't think he's ever had a girlfriend. He sounds like my ex, back when we first started dating (I was his first girlfriend, and he was my first boyfriend). xd You try making the first move and see what happens. 4laugh
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 5:12 pm
Nikolita trippy hippy Today after school he came up to me, tapped my shoulder, and said, "I'll see you on Monday." It was kinda strange. No hug, no nothing. I think he just doesn't know how to be in a relationship. I don't think he's ever had a girlfriend. He sounds like my ex, back when we first started dating (I was his first girlfriend, and he was my first boyfriend). xd You try making the first move and see what happens. 4laugh Ok. I don't like making the first move though. I'm sorta shy at first.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 5:18 pm
Verene trippy hippy Today after school he came up to me, tapped my shoulder, and said, "I'll see you on Monday." It was kinda strange. No hug, no nothing. I think he just doesn't know how to be in a relationship. I don't think he's ever had a girlfriend. It does sound like he's trying though. And as for the no hug thing... I've been dating my boy-friend 3 months (friends for a year before that) now and I still have issues giving him a "real" hug. I've just never been a physical contact person. sweatdrop Thank goodness he's understanding and is willing to be patient with me. Since he seems so shy and unsure why don't you try making some of the moves him and intiating the conversations you want to have? From your descriptions I think he'll probably respond.. he just doesn't know how to go about getting there himself. Wow. That's a long time. That's awesome that you have such a great boyfriend. I guess I'm sorta old fashioned. I like the guy to make the first move. Otherwise, it gets in my head, and I start to feel ugly, and I feel like he doesn't like me. I feel like he just hasn't broken up with me yet because he doesn't want to hurt my feelings. In other words, I get self esteem issues.
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Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 8:34 pm
trippy hippy Nikolita trippy hippy Today after school he came up to me, tapped my shoulder, and said, "I'll see you on Monday." It was kinda strange. No hug, no nothing. I think he just doesn't know how to be in a relationship. I don't think he's ever had a girlfriend. He sounds like my ex, back when we first started dating (I was his first girlfriend, and he was my first boyfriend). xd You try making the first move and see what happens. 4laugh Ok. I don't like making the first move though. I'm sorta shy at first. I don't either, usually, but it was just a suggestion, since he seems to be as shy as you are. I was the first person to kiss my boyfriend (I mean I kissed him first, not the traditional other way around), and he liked me being so forward. So as long as you're careful, he might like it. Maybe he's feeling pressured to make the first move, which is something else to consider. Just do what feels comfortable.
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 2:25 pm
Ok. I have a question. I want to move slow so I don't overwhelm him so, what do I start with? Holding hands, kissing?
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 6:47 pm
trippy hippy Ok. I have a question. I want to move slow so I don't overwhelm him so, what do I start with? Holding hands, kissing? Probably start with smaller stuff. Holding hands, giving him a quick hug when you first see him or when you say good-bye. It will show that you are open to physical contact with out being overtly so. Unless he is either really dense, or really shy, he'll pick up on it.
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Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 11:45 pm
trippy hippy Ok. I have a question. I want to move slow so I don't overwhelm him so, what do I start with? Holding hands, kissing? It doesn't even have to be that. Smile a lot, to show him you're interested and that you like being with him. You can compliment him if you'd like, again to show you're interested, and it'll probably make him feel good to hear such nice things from you. Just be careful not to overdo it. Ummm... hugging is a good start. You can hug him when you say hello or good-bye, if you'd like.
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