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 Posted: Thu Jun 13, 2013 7:32 pm
I suddenly hate everything.. Idle conversation, Middle-Schoolers, Osiris Shoes..
EVERYTHING.
~That Girl in the BowTie~
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Posted: Sun Jun 30, 2013 9:27 am
Today I've got a date with a lovely lady. heart Hehe. I hope it goes well. And that I'm not overdressed.
I went to Pride yesterday and I was the only person there wearing a dress (other than one of the drag queens). I felt so out of place. Like... am I the only femme in my area? Or wait... does the fact that I always wear dresses and pretty things make me a lipstick lesbian? eek What distinguishes a lipstick lesbian from a normal femme?
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Posted: Sun Jun 30, 2013 12:21 pm
Congratulations!!!!!!! emotion_hug I'm so glad you got a date!!! You need to tell us about what happened later! emotion_bigheart At first, I thought there is no difference between a lipstick lesbian and a femme. But the more I think about it, I think a lipstick lesbian are more likely to wear dresses and make-up than femmes. Femmes would probably still wear dresses, but not nearly as much as a lipstick lesbian. I don't know, that's what I think. res novae Today I've got a date with a lovely lady. heart Hehe. I hope it goes well. And that I'm not overdressed. I went to Pride yesterday and I was the only person there wearing a dress (other than one of the drag queens). I felt so out of place. Like... am I the only femme in my area? Or wait... does the fact that I always wear dresses and pretty things make me a lipstick lesbian? eek What distinguishes a lipstick lesbian from a normal femme?
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Posted: Sun Jun 30, 2013 4:34 pm
Well, it was sort of a date. With that couple I was telling you about. Really, a date with the lady, with her man accompanying her. And it turned out really well! They are extremely nice people. And the dude was completely not a creep at all. I was so worried about how things would go with him there, and it went much better than expected. I had a real connection with the girl, and we did *cough* stuff *cough* for hours. Really... they are people that I feel like I can be great friends with, while also maintaining a more intimate relationship with the woman. God. After today, I feel like I don't know how I could ever be in a completely monogamous relationship again. Because this was just too fun. Crafty Sketch Congratulations!!!!!!! emotion_hug I'm so glad you got a date!!! You need to tell us about what happened later! emotion_bigheart At first, I thought there is no difference between a lipstick lesbian and a femme. But the more I think about it, I think a lipstick lesbian are more likely to wear dresses and make-up than femmes. Femmes would probably still wear dresses, but not nearly as much as a lipstick lesbian. I don't know, that's what I think. res novae Today I've got a date with a lovely lady. heart Hehe. I hope it goes well. And that I'm not overdressed. I went to Pride yesterday and I was the only person there wearing a dress (other than one of the drag queens). I felt so out of place. Like... am I the only femme in my area? Or wait... does the fact that I always wear dresses and pretty things make me a lipstick lesbian? eek What distinguishes a lipstick lesbian from a normal femme?
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Posted: Sun Jun 30, 2013 5:19 pm
OOOOHHHH!! Okay... I thought it was something else. sweatdrop But anyway, at least you had a lot of fun!!! biggrin Too bad that the guy isn't another women. res novae Well, it was sort of a date. With that couple I was telling you about. Really, a date with the lady, with her man accompanying her. And it turned out really well! They are extremely nice people. And the dude was completely not a creep at all. I was so worried about how things would go with him there, and it went much better than expected. I had a real connection with the girl, and we did *cough* stuff *cough* for hours. Really... they are people that I feel like I can be great friends with, while also maintaining a more intimate relationship with the woman. God. After today, I feel like I don't know how I could ever be in a completely monogamous relationship again. Because this was just too fun. Crafty Sketch Congratulations!!!!!!! emotion_hug I'm so glad you got a date!!! You need to tell us about what happened later! emotion_bigheart At first, I thought there is no difference between a lipstick lesbian and a femme. But the more I think about it, I think a lipstick lesbian are more likely to wear dresses and make-up than femmes. Femmes would probably still wear dresses, but not nearly as much as a lipstick lesbian. I don't know, that's what I think. res novae Today I've got a date with a lovely lady. heart Hehe. I hope it goes well. And that I'm not overdressed. I went to Pride yesterday and I was the only person there wearing a dress (other than one of the drag queens). I felt so out of place. Like... am I the only femme in my area? Or wait... does the fact that I always wear dresses and pretty things make me a lipstick lesbian? eek What distinguishes a lipstick lesbian from a normal femme?
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Posted: Sun Jun 30, 2013 5:30 pm
Yeah. I wish he was. xD But then I would really feel like a third wheel. Buttt, the lady that I saw really wants an all girl orgy too (a fantasy of mine) so I think that we're going to work together to gather some other willing ladies to do just that. Hahaha. Would be so fun. heart Crafty Sketch OOOOHHHH!! Okay... I thought it was something else. sweatdrop But anyway, at least you had a lot of fun!!! biggrin Too bad that the guy isn't another women. res novae Well, it was sort of a date. With that couple I was telling you about. Really, a date with the lady, with her man accompanying her. And it turned out really well! They are extremely nice people. And the dude was completely not a creep at all. I was so worried about how things would go with him there, and it went much better than expected. I had a real connection with the girl, and we did *cough* stuff *cough* for hours. Really... they are people that I feel like I can be great friends with, while also maintaining a more intimate relationship with the woman. God. After today, I feel like I don't know how I could ever be in a completely monogamous relationship again. Because this was just too fun. Crafty Sketch Congratulations!!!!!!! emotion_hug I'm so glad you got a date!!! You need to tell us about what happened later! emotion_bigheart At first, I thought there is no difference between a lipstick lesbian and a femme. But the more I think about it, I think a lipstick lesbian are more likely to wear dresses and make-up than femmes. Femmes would probably still wear dresses, but not nearly as much as a lipstick lesbian. I don't know, that's what I think. res novae Today I've got a date with a lovely lady. heart Hehe. I hope it goes well. And that I'm not overdressed. I went to Pride yesterday and I was the only person there wearing a dress (other than one of the drag queens). I felt so out of place. Like... am I the only femme in my area? Or wait... does the fact that I always wear dresses and pretty things make me a lipstick lesbian? eek What distinguishes a lipstick lesbian from a normal femme?
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 10:34 am
Oh yeah, the experience yesterday also sort of reenforced what I already knew (but still sort of doubted) about myself, that I really am gay. I still had my secret doubts about it, and thought that maybe I was actually just angry at my ex and that's why I didn't find him attractive. But that I would find other men that way now. And that being with this woman, I wouldn't actually enjoy sex with her. I knew that these feelings weren't completely rational, because my heart has been telling me that I'm gay for years now. But yesterday really confirmed everything for me. I essentially had a threesome of sorts, only didn't have to do anything with the man. I didn't mind that he was there. I wasn't forced or encouraged to do anything to him. I did kiss him though of my own free will, to try and make him feel more included. But it did nothing for me. And looking at him actually turned me off quite a bit. I really do find men's privates gross. I wanted nothing to do with it. But her... she was wonderful. I couldn't get enough of her. It was just... amazing. I enjoyed it so much. I wasn't grossed out by her body like how I was with his. And I just wanted to do all sorts of things to her... heart So yeah. The whole experience confirmed by suspicions. Hehe. I think that is what I really needed, at least in the sexual aspect. I already knew emotionally that I preferred women. But I'd only had one other sexual experience with a girl, and so I wasn't completely sure. Also made some new friends out of the experience. Which is always awesome.
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Posted: Sat Jul 06, 2013 12:17 pm
Have you ever talked to anybody, mentioned lesbians, and then got a reaction like, "Ewwwwww!"?
I did, the other day. It was a WTF moment. emotion_facepalm
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Posted: Sat Jul 06, 2013 1:07 pm
res novae Have you ever talked to anybody, mentioned lesbians, and then got a reaction like, "Ewwwwww!"? I did, the other day. It was a WTF moment. emotion_facepalm I've never had that happen to me, mostly because I don't talk about it often. I don't understand why some people find it repulsive. How would they feel if I reacted that way when they mentioned heterosexuals. stare
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Posted: Sat Jul 06, 2013 1:37 pm
ShiningStar KiraKira res novae Have you ever talked to anybody, mentioned lesbians, and then got a reaction like, "Ewwwwww!"? I did, the other day. It was a WTF moment. emotion_facepalm I've never had that happen to me, mostly because I don't talk about it often. I don't understand why some people find it repulsive. How would they feel if I reacted that way when they mentioned heterosexuals. stare Seriously. I think it is mainly gay men or straight women who would find it gross. Because, of course they themselves don't find women attractive. And I sort of imagine they must feel thinking about it, how I feel thinking about men. I mean, I'm not afraid to admit that I find men's privates just... ick. But I'm not about to say that outright unless someone challenges my sexuality. And I'm definitely not going to say, "Ewwwww!" when its mentioned. I don't think that people having sex is gross really, no matter who does it. It's their right. Just, not all of it is my cup of tea. And some straight people just don't seem to get this.
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Posted: Sat Jul 06, 2013 3:16 pm
res novae ShiningStar KiraKira res novae Have you ever talked to anybody, mentioned lesbians, and then got a reaction like, "Ewwwwww!"? I did, the other day. It was a WTF moment. emotion_facepalm I've never had that happen to me, mostly because I don't talk about it often. I don't understand why some people find it repulsive. How would they feel if I reacted that way when they mentioned heterosexuals. stare Seriously. I think it is mainly gay men or straight women who would find it gross. Because, of course they themselves don't find women attractive. And I sort of imagine they must feel thinking about it, how I feel thinking about men. I mean, I'm not afraid to admit that I find men's privates just... ick. But I'm not about to say that outright unless someone challenges my sexuality. And I'm definitely not going to say, "Ewwwww!" when its mentioned. I don't think that people having sex is gross really, no matter who does it. It's their right. Just, not all of it is my cup of tea. And some straight people just don't seem to get this. That's because they're ignorant. Some people just don't know when to keep their mouth shut, is all. No one has the right to hate on other people because of their sexuality. If a person is straight, I'm fine with that. If they're gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, transsexual, or anything I didn't list- that's fine too. Actually no thati think about it, I had a moment when someone said it was evil. I guess I should've seen it coming. I was visiting my family in a small town where everyone hated those who were different from them. I also agreed to to go to church with my grandma to keep her company. (Which is stupid, because I'm agnostic. But people don't really know that.) I was speechless.
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Posted: Sat Jul 06, 2013 3:27 pm
ShiningStar KiraKira res novae ShiningStar KiraKira res novae Have you ever talked to anybody, mentioned lesbians, and then got a reaction like, "Ewwwwww!"? I did, the other day. It was a WTF moment. emotion_facepalm I've never had that happen to me, mostly because I don't talk about it often. I don't understand why some people find it repulsive. How would they feel if I reacted that way when they mentioned heterosexuals. stare Seriously. I think it is mainly gay men or straight women who would find it gross. Because, of course they themselves don't find women attractive. And I sort of imagine they must feel thinking about it, how I feel thinking about men. I mean, I'm not afraid to admit that I find men's privates just... ick. But I'm not about to say that outright unless someone challenges my sexuality. And I'm definitely not going to say, "Ewwwww!" when its mentioned. I don't think that people having sex is gross really, no matter who does it. It's their right. Just, not all of it is my cup of tea. And some straight people just don't seem to get this. That's because they're ignorant. Some people just don't know when to keep their mouth shut, is all. No one has the right to hate on other people because of their sexuality. If a person is straight, I'm fine with that. If they're gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, transsexual, or anything I didn't list- that's fine too. Actually no thati think about it, I had a moment when someone said it was evil. I guess I should've seen it coming. I was visiting my family in a small town where everyone hated those who were different from them. I also agreed to to go to church with my grandma to keep her company. (Which is stupid, because I'm agnostic. But people don't really know that.) I was speechless. Oh gosh. That reminds me of a time when I went out with my first "boyfriend" (we lasted not even 48 hours), to his youth group. And the topic of it was homosexuality. And they all basically all said that it was evil. I was literally the ONLY person in the group that argued that there was nothing wrong with it. And they attacked me, but I was there with my "boyfriend" so they were like, "At least you're not gay." gonk No wonder I was so confused and ashamed about my feelings for so long. >_< I broke up with him the next day, cause I never really liked him. Not even as a person, especially after that youth group session.
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Posted: Sat Jul 06, 2013 3:35 pm
res novae ShiningStar KiraKira res novae ShiningStar KiraKira res novae Have you ever talked to anybody, mentioned lesbians, and then got a reaction like, "Ewwwwww!"? I did, the other day. It was a WTF moment. emotion_facepalm I've never had that happen to me, mostly because I don't talk about it often. I don't understand why some people find it repulsive. How would they feel if I reacted that way when they mentioned heterosexuals. stare Seriously. I think it is mainly gay men or straight women who would find it gross. Because, of course they themselves don't find women attractive. And I sort of imagine they must feel thinking about it, how I feel thinking about men. I mean, I'm not afraid to admit that I find men's privates just... ick. But I'm not about to say that outright unless someone challenges my sexuality. And I'm definitely not going to say, "Ewwwww!" when its mentioned. I don't think that people having sex is gross really, no matter who does it. It's their right. Just, not all of it is my cup of tea. And some straight people just don't seem to get this. That's because they're ignorant. Some people just don't know when to keep their mouth shut, is all. No one has the right to hate on other people because of their sexuality. If a person is straight, I'm fine with that. If they're gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, transsexual, or anything I didn't list- that's fine too. Actually no thati think about it, I had a moment when someone said it was evil. I guess I should've seen it coming. I was visiting my family in a small town where everyone hated those who were different from them. I also agreed to to go to church with my grandma to keep her company. (Which is stupid, because I'm agnostic. But people don't really know that.) I was speechless. Oh gosh. That reminds me of a time when I went out with my first "boyfriend" (we lasted not even 48 hours), to his youth group. And the topic of it was homosexuality. And they all basically all said that it was evil. I was literally the ONLY person in the group that argued that there was nothing wrong with it. And they attacked me, but I was there with my "boyfriend" so they were like, "At least you're not gay." gonk No wonder I was so confused and ashamed about my feelings for so long. >_< I had a "boyfriend" once. We went on a few... Uh... Dates. But to me, it never counted. Then again, I was already pretty sure I was gay before then. I just thought I might be bi... (This was a few months ago) But that convinced me. He's nice, funny, seems to have good person hygiene, and altogether a good guy. But I didn't like him. Well, that's means I'm obviously gay-right? (We're still friends, thank goodness! He actually figured it out during the week that i was trying to tell him. He didn't care!) All if my crushes were girls and I find guys to be highly unattractive.
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Posted: Sun Jul 07, 2013 11:41 am
Does anyone else think lettuce, bacon, tomato sandwich when they see LBT? cat_redface
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Posted: Sun Jul 07, 2013 6:42 pm
ShiningStar KiraKira Does anyone else think lettuce, bacon, tomato sandwich when they see LBT? cat_redface
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