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Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2012 4:59 am

Single

Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2012 6:48 am

Taken, as of a few days ago.

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Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2012 2:09 pm

Taken, by one of the members on here by the name of Lee the Nogistune. We're together in the cold bitterness of Alaska, but I don't even care that it's cold ~<3 Lol, I can just snuggle up against Lee. xD

Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2012 3:49 pm

SilentVex

I'd take offence at the melodrama part (Common insult thrown at me) but what I DO take offence at you telling me to stay single when I say I'm going ot be single for a long time to come.

Why? Because I hate being told to do what I'm already doing.

If you choose to take offense, that's your prerogative. None was intended on my part. All I meant is that your posts don't exactly indicate that you're in a good place emotionally right now, and that since you just came out of some sort of relationship, it wouldn't be a good idea to jump back into one until you've sorted yourself out.

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Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2012 3:50 pm

Taeryyn

SilentVex

I'd take offence at the melodrama part (Common insult thrown at me) but what I DO take offence at you telling me to stay single when I say I'm going ot be single for a long time to come.

Why? Because I hate being told to do what I'm already doing.

If you choose to take offense, that's your prerogative. None was intended on my part. All I meant is that your posts don't exactly indicate that you're in a good place emotionally right now, and that since you just came out of some sort of relationship, it wouldn't be a good idea to jump back into one until you've sorted yourself out.

I know just, watch what you say around me. Like you said, enotionally I'm not well.Worse off now than yesterday even. But, whatever. I've got regular counciling again, so maybe something miraculous will happen and I can turn that around.

Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2012 4:01 pm

SilentVex

Taeryyn

SilentVex

I'd take offence at the melodrama part (Common insult thrown at me) but what I DO take offence at you telling me to stay single when I say I'm going ot be single for a long time to come.

Why? Because I hate being told to do what I'm already doing.

If you choose to take offense, that's your prerogative. None was intended on my part. All I meant is that your posts don't exactly indicate that you're in a good place emotionally right now, and that since you just came out of some sort of relationship, it wouldn't be a good idea to jump back into one until you've sorted yourself out.

I know just, watch what you say around me. Like you said, enotionally I'm not well.Worse off now than yesterday even. But, whatever. I've got regular counciling again, so maybe something miraculous will happen and I can turn that around.

I'm glad that you're in counselling; I see a psychologist regularly, and my doctor has been a great help to me these past two years. I hope that you feel better soon, and find ways to cope with whatever may be bothering you.

That said, don't tell me to "watch what I say". For one thing, you're posting in a public guild. If you don't want anyone to comment on your posts, perhaps a journal or private messages with your friends would be a better idea.
Secondly, being depressed or upset does not mean that people need to walk on eggshells and avoid saying anything that you might not want to hear. You're doing a huge disservice to yourself, as well as to others who have mental health issues.

Please don't mistake my lack of sugar-coating as some sort of lack of empathy.

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Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2012 4:05 pm

Taeryyn

SilentVex

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SilentVex

I'd take offence at the melodrama part (Common insult thrown at me) but what I DO take offence at you telling me to stay single when I say I'm going ot be single for a long time to come.

Why? Because I hate being told to do what I'm already doing.

If you choose to take offense, that's your prerogative. None was intended on my part. All I meant is that your posts don't exactly indicate that you're in a good place emotionally right now, and that since you just came out of some sort of relationship, it wouldn't be a good idea to jump back into one until you've sorted yourself out.

I know just, watch what you say around me. Like you said, enotionally I'm not well.Worse off now than yesterday even. But, whatever. I've got regular counciling again, so maybe something miraculous will happen and I can turn that around.

I'm glad that you're in counselling; I see a psychologist regularly, and my doctor has been a great help to me these past two years. I hope that you feel better soon, and find ways to cope with whatever may be bothering you.

That said, don't tell me to "watch what I say". For one thing, you're posting in a public guild. If you don't want anyone to comment on your posts, perhaps a journal or private messages with your friends would be a better idea.
Secondly, being depressed or upset does not mean that people need to walk on eggshells and avoid saying anything that you might not want to hear. You're doing a huge disservice to yourself, as well as to others who have mental health issues.

Please don't mistake my lack of sugar-coating as some sort of lack of empathy.

I understand that. Just, at the moment after hearing the words "I never loved you the same" from her.... I need that bit of empathy and sugar at the moment until I can cool down.