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@Dazed: it's normal to feel that way!
When you're young (and you are) all these new hormones are super overwhelming.
It's understandable that they might seem too much to handle
but no worries, you can do it. =]
Just remind yourself that you still have tons of life ahead of you
and don't need to be distracted so much by sex.

@bubbles: Most girls are more sexually aroused during their periods.
While sex can be gross if not in the shower, it can be more pleasurable.
For others, and this very common as well, sex can be too painful because of how sensitive we get.

The hymen is a small layer of tissue in the external v****a.
Sexual intercourse (penetration) will break the hymen.
However, vigorous exercise can stretch and sometimes break it.
The amount of pain and bleeding depends completely on the woman.
For some, especially non-athletes, it can be horrid
while others may not experience any at all.
Masturbation and tampon use supposedly stretches the hymen.

@Lily: A blow job is oral sex on a man.
It involves sucking, licking, and biting -- but rarely actual blowing.

Question regarding blowjobs...
Is it normal for a girl to get pleasure out of them?

*** Might I add that masturbation isn't working. I've been trying to satisfy my sexual carvings with it, but it's not helping***

How can man bits be scary! They're so beautiful! It's the lady bits that scare me. If a girl doesn't wash properly, who knows what they got growing in there! (My fear is really stemming from a *non-blood* phobia of bodily fluids gonk I hated working in a retirement home!)

Anyways! Too young to buy toys or too young to use them? Personally I think no gal is too young for a good vibrator! 3nodding You don't need to buy anything big or insert-able, outside stim works too.

~Toy Ideas~

1) The Shower Head - Do you have one of those showers with a "massaging" pulsing shower head on an expendable attachment? If so, go wild!

2) Personal Massager - You can find these in a dollar store, pharmacy, wal-mart, bath&body store, anywhere they sell stuff for natural beauty! They are small, round, some battery run or plug in, and they vibrate. If used right they can pack a satisfying punch!

3) Vibrating d***o - They sell tiny ones and even "virgin" sizes for young women who don't want anything too "rough" or just begining. Most malls have a store called Spencer's which actually sell such stuff at good prices. Most of the time the staff won't ask for ID as long as you look old enough.

4) O.k., I'm out of ideas. Hmmm, I did see Eliot using a washing machine on Scrubs but good luck explaining that one to the folks when they ask you why you're sitting there.

What do you expect to do with it? I doubt it would do much good on your arm rofl

okay....welll...... Me and my boyfriend are realy been together alot lately. We make out sit and talk and ect. lately he's been sliping his hands in my pants. and in return i play with his d**k.... He asked me if he could have some sexy pictures of me.... and was wondering if you have any ideal poses...

Hope this answer isn't too late! (it's been a month, after all)
It really depends on what he likes, you should ask for tips and suggestions. My boyfriend asked for similar pictures when we were in a long-distance relationship, and I was totally clueless about what kind of poses I should do, so I asked him. Turns out he did have some poses in mind already, or at least some details about sexy pictures that he really likes. : P
Is this the same boyfriend you're talking about in your signature, though? If he's not treating you right, you certainly don't need to take any pictures for him. o:


As for Aularen's question, I'd like to know the answer to that one as well. :3