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 Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 2:55 pm
What do you want your future husband/wife to be like?
Like a good friend of mine that I know. There aren't many good guys out there anymore, or if they are, they are extremely difficult to find. All they seem to care about is looks and how willing a girl is to give them what they want. I'd like someone who truly loves me. who knows me and will always be there for me. I just got out of a relationship that I used to think it was great, but it turned out it was all fake. I just hope for one of the good guys.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Yes and no. I think that you can be attracted to someone and really want to get to know them, but I don't think you know whether you truly love them without seeing past their looks.
How old do you wanna be before you get married?
Whenever I fall in love and whenever my guy decides to ask me. I don't really have a time when I want to get married, Just depends on if I have someone of my own that decides he loves me that much to dedicate thier life to me.
Answer these questions, or just say anything about marriage/love...
Love is complicated, and I am only 16, therefore I don't really have any knowledge on marriage lol. But I have seen my parents through the good and bad, and know what I will do, and what I won't. =/
Love is sometimes difficult to obtain, but once you have it, It is worth th wait.
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Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 11:53 pm
I am at the end of getting a devorce to a guy i thought was the guy I wanted to be my husband. At first he seemed like a wonderful christian guy when we were dateing then as soon as he got me away from my family and in a diffrent state it all changed and he started being abuseive towards me. I didnt choose to leave until my unborn childs' life was at risk. I was 4 months pregnant with my son and now he is 19 months old.
What I'm trying to say is to make SURE SURE that the person (guy or girl) is the right person for you. Make sure you know everything you can about them, and have seen them at their best AND worse. This takes a while to learn everything about them.
And be sure you pray hard and make sure that its the one GOD wants you to be with.
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:09 pm
i do not belive in love at first sight
i fall in love with someone, not their looks
you also cant say i want this to happen, and he looks like this, and this time.
what happens happens. you cant plan it, only God can
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Posted: Wed Apr 09, 2008 2:13 pm
well I have been with my girl friend since we both were fourteen (we are now sixteen) and are really thinking of going for the life long thing. though we are probably going to wait until nineteen.
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Posted: Wed Apr 09, 2008 5:06 pm
Call me the cynic of the guild, but personally this is now the last thing on my mind. I've had a few girlfriends, and I fell in love once, which ended terribly, and still has me pretty messed up. I don't think it'd be a good idea for me to get involved with anyone in that way for a long time, since I'm going to be moving around a lot, and I don't trust anyone enough to leave them for months on end and think that when I come back, there's not going to be someone to have taken my place.
That said... good for you. I hope everything works out well. I will say this though - I don't advise changing your plans for anyone. If you get accepted to a great school, don't turn it down just because someone doesn't want you to leave, or because they're going somewhere else. I guarantee that would be a mistake. If you make it through university (if that's the route you go), then you know there's definitely something there.
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Posted: Wed Apr 09, 2008 5:24 pm
Starflyer 71
Call me the cynic of the guild, but personally this is now the last thing on my mind. I've had a few girlfriends, and I fell in love once, which ended terribly, and still has me pretty messed up. I don't think it'd be a good idea for me to get involved with anyone in that way for a long time, since I'm going to be moving around a lot, and I don't trust anyone enough to leave them for months on end and think that when I come back, there's not going to be someone to have taken my place.
That said... good for you. I hope everything works out well. I will say this though - I don't advise changing your plans for anyone. If you get accepted to a great school, don't turn it down just because someone doesn't want you to leave, or because they're going somewhere else. I guarantee that would be a mistake. If you make it through university (if that's the route you go), then you know there's definitely something there.If you're the cynic of the guild, I'm next in line. I just had a huge problem with one of my friends(he had a crush on me), and I really realized that falling in love is totally not something for me. I could even say that love is a little...superficial, but I'm not sure if I'd go that far yet. For everyone who has fallen in love, congrats. I hope you will be happy.
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Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 9:12 pm
well the first thing i look at is thier eyes
then thier hair
but the personality is key
my husband has to be wierd like me haha
and very loving cus i like to be held and loved all day long
he has to say i love you and mean it
(not make it a routine before bed like my family now)
and Of course he has to be a child of god
haha
so yeah
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Posted: Mon May 12, 2008 1:49 pm
Barlow girl has a great song about this, called Average Girl (one of my faves!)
it goes like this:
So what I'm not your average girl
I don't meet the standards of this world
Chasing after boys is not my thing
See I'm waiting for a wedding ring
No more dating
I'm just waiting
Like sleeping beauty
My prince will come for me
No more dating I'm just waiting
'Cause God is writing my love story
Boys are bad that's certainly not true
'Cause God's preparing one for you
If you get tired waiting till he comes
Gods arms are the perfect place to run
Sleep that's the only thing
For me 'cause when I sleep
Gods preparing one for me
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 7:07 pm
I'm not going to be too picky about my future husband [if indeed that's what God has in store for me...because for the past couple of years, I've felt like staying single is my calling]. My criteria would be: 1)He has to be Christian. Not just a professing one. One that lives it out. 2)Adopt instead of having kids. 3)Not mind the fact that I mainly listen to Christian music. 4)Have a loving heart towards others and himself.
Anything else would fall into place, I'm sure. Can't be too specific- because life's full of little surprises.
I am not a believer in love at first sight. Love at first sight=lust. I'm a believer in getting to know someone and discovering love through that.
I'm definitely not ready to get married now. I think I'll know when the time is right to get married.
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Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 9:08 am
futureworldconquerer What do you want your future husband/wife to be like? Do you believe in love at first sight? How old do you wanna be before you get married? Answer these questions, or just say anything about marriage/love... Well, I honestly want my future husband to have the qualities of my own father. I think my dad has qualities which are the perfect ones for a husband and a father: Child-like in some ways (my Dad always tries to be interested in the same stuff me and my brother enjoy) Enjoys being around his family If someone poses an eminent threat to his family he makes sure they leave his family alone A Christian who is actively involved at church. Also, some other qualities that I would like to add is that he's a bit of a joker. (I seem to really enjoy being around guys like that). Someone who won't cave in to my every selfish whim. Also respect for the armed services and the military (I'm going in the Air Force). I don't believe in love at first site. As for how old I want to be when I get married, it really depends on when I meet the guy. If it's while I'm still in college (I'm going to be a psychologist) I'm going to wait until I'm done with the major work. If I do end up enlisting after high school however, it again still depends on when I meet they guy and what the circumstances are.
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Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 9:30 pm
I want my husband to be a christian, funny, handsome (but apperance doesn't matter all that much)
I sorta' belive in love at first sight 'cause out three of my crushes this year have been like that. Accually two.
I just want to be in love enough that I won't get divorced like my parents
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Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 1:14 am
I am married and my husband is nothing I even thought I wanted in a guy, but God gave me the perfect man that HE knew could take care of me. biggrin
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 2:07 pm
What do you want your future husband/wife to be like? He would a Christian and a sence of humour.
Do you believe in love at first sight? I think it happens.
How old do you wanna be before you get married? I don't care.
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 1:06 pm
futureworldconquerer What do you want your future husband/wife to be like? Do you believe in love at first sight? How old do you wanna be before you get married? Answer these questions, or just say anything about marriage/love...
Do you believe in love at first sight?: I dont know I guess it really depends, but I think I would vote yes.^^
How old do you wanna be before you get married?: I never set a limit of how old I had to be, my parents probably wouldnt be to happy if I got married at a really young age though. But nothing would stop me from marrying my true love so I guess we will just have to see what happens.^^
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Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 1:27 am
Love at first sight? Uhhh... I dunno. I think love would have to hit me in the face with a frying pan to get my attention.
As for marriage, I think that planning an age for it isn't wise. Love will come when God has it planned, not before. He's pretty good at that sort of stuff.
Well... that's my two cents. Take it as you will, or throw it in a wishing well. smile
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