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 Posted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 7:02 pm
xX I Miss You Xx Nikolita xX I Miss You Xx crying I have done all of this but me and my boyfriend are getting bored.. Any other suggestions? (Besides sex) Experiment and try new things. You could try teasing each other with food, like whipped cream or chocoalte dipped fruits, etc. There's feathers, and light bondage. Massages, etc. Just try things that one or both of you like. We experiment alot... But I cant do much with him since there is nowhere but the movies for us to be alone.. I have done everything I can think of( within reason) and everything is getting old.. Well, I'm going to pass some of my bad habits on to you but I can't help it because I know how absolutely frustrating it is to not be able to have any privacy. So if you have nowhere else to be alone, these are my words of advice: Try the woods. I know it seems kinda risky but my boyfriend and I went "on a walk" into the woods near us. We went off the path and were there for hours and nobody came even close once. But make sure it really is a place off the path where people are very unlikely to come by. Also (this is really bad but I've finally put up with it because desperate situations call for desperate measures), if you're looking after other people's pets while they're away, you can use their house. While my parents have put a restriction on my boyfriend being in my room, I don't think they've once even thought about anything happening when we've gone up to feed the cats I was watching over (and yes, they knew my boyfriend was with me). *Sheepish look* So yes, I don't suggest either if you have high morals but on the other hand, I would go absolutely insane if we didn't have any privacy ever so that's what it's come to. You will probably start to find even more private places as you go. You'd be surprized at the measures people go to: (And no, kids, don't try this at home) My friend once walked in on a guy and a girl having sex in the school guys bathroom during a choral concert. eek That was probably a disturbing experience...
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Posted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 11:57 pm
Then again, there are several people I know (including myself), who say that if you can't get enough privacy to have sex or be intimate, then you shouldn't be intimate at all. Or at least wait until you can get privacy, without going way out of your way to get it. Especially at 15.
But that's just my 2 cents.
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Posted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 7:27 pm
We're not having sex. Actually, since I don't really know exactly where my parents stand, I don't even really feel comfortable even making out unless we're someone pretty private. I'm just someone who likes lots of privacy... So yeah.... I don't believe in sex at 15. But I still want to have some fun with my bf.
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Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 9:55 am
Just so we're all clear, anything involving the words 'sex' (such as oral or manual) or 'job' (such as hand or blow) is still sex. Here's some valuable reading which is also extremely entertaining and hilarious. Read it for the entertainment value alone, but remember what it says: http://www.tomatonation.com/downboy.shtml(Cross-posted to "Having Sex for the First Time" Sticky, and I'll probably also put this link in the other thread where I saw the need for it, if I can find it again. So sue me. It's worth the warning I'll get from Nikolita, if it means more people read this and take it to heart.)
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Eloquent Conversationalist
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 5:33 pm
OhtarwenElenya I have a question about dry humping. Or really, it wasn't all that dry in my case because he had his p***s out but I kept my panties on. I mean, the semen didn't get close enough for me to worry about that particular time but for future reference, if semen got on my panties, could it go through? Is there any pregnancy risk involved there? Yes, it's possible--unless your panties are made of tight latex. Not very likely, but possible. Plus, there's a lot of rubbing and movement, who knows if your panties are going to be providing adequate coverage the whole time. You could ask him to just keep his own underwear on too. That might help keeps the tempation to try a little more to a minimum, too.
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Posted: Mon Dec 26, 2005 10:33 am
A) Outercourse made me laugh really hard.
B) I just completely forgot the B. Oops...
EDIT: I remembered. Cuddling/Just rubbing and such like that. Not like your outercourse/dry humping stuff. Just rubbing your partner. You can basically go wherever you want but yea. Those usually make me feel good.
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Posted: Mon Dec 26, 2005 11:16 pm
isn't a hand job just helping someone masterbate... not having sex?
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Posted: Wed Dec 28, 2005 10:23 am
Oni-Angel I can't get off from finger stimulation of any sort. I masturbate in prone position, so most sex positions don't work. Oh, and did I mention that oral sex doesn't work on ********, I am such a horny person with next to nothing to do about it. I'm like that some times too..its bothers me that nothing can give me what I want. SO I try to do it for hours and hours..but it just doeasn't pleasure me!
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Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 1:45 am
frosty_glitch isn't a hand job just helping someone masterbate... not having sex? Masturbation is basically solo sex though - so even if you're giving someone a handjob, you're still putting your hand on their p***s (genitals), and still stimulating them to orgasm. So yes, it's still a form of sex, just as oral sex and a**l sex are types of sex too.
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Posted: Sun Jan 01, 2006 10:50 am
Even if doing Oral, shouldn't he put a condom on? My cousin never makes her boyfriend put one on and I'm afraid she's already got an STD.
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Posted: Sun Jan 01, 2006 2:18 pm
CaptainGirl Even if doing Oral, shouldn't he put a condom on? My cousin never makes her boyfriend put one on and I'm afraid she's already got an STD. Tell her to go get tested, and suggest that she ask her boyfriend to get tested too. He CAN wear a condom if she gives him oral sex, but if he's been tested and comes back clean (your cousin too), then it would be ok to give him oral sex without a condom.
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Posted: Fri Jan 06, 2006 10:21 pm
I prefer dry humping & cuddles and kisses more than oral sex xD
I always think of oral sex as being a one way thing? I never felt great while giving my boyfriend head... accomplished at the most if he ejaculates but that's just my opinion.
This is gonna get a bit graphic but my boyfriend likes to suck and nibble on my nipples and it feels really good xD I think it was mentions on the first page but its something guys should definately try out with their girlfriends =3 Whispering in my ear and rub our bodies against eachother is a turn on for me x3 some nice sexual but nosex fun <3
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Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 12:15 am
I love the whole "kissing and nibbling of the nipples" thing. ninja
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Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 1:39 am
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