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Sachiko13

PostPosted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 1:46 pm


xXRussian_RouletteXx
i fell in love with a girl, and we were together for awhile, then we fell apart. and i thought i would die. but i woke up every morning to make it through another day. seriously suicidal over this, i was.
but i lived.
then mom went through my s**t, and pulled out an envelope that was hidden in my room full of over 100 hundreds between or from me and her.
i got GROUNDED the whole summer break for it, and im still forbidden to talk to her (******** that, i call her on the phone all the time), and had all my music taken away, since that was somehow "inspiring" it.
then i got in more trouble when i said my parents were homophobic.
and got put in therapy and counseling to "talk me out of it".
which was a waste of time.
so now i just lie about being bi and hope they dont find out.
i have to be AFRAID of who i am for their sake.
and im not ok with that.
but its something i have to do.
Pardon my language, but that's bullshit. You can't talk someone out of a sexuality, just like you can't turn someone gay. I have a friend who's dating a girl who recently realized she's gay, not bi, and the girl's parents are convinced that my friend "turned her gay," which is untrue - she merely helped her to realize her true sexuality. There is a huge difference. People who send their kids to therapy to "de-gay" them need to be kicked in the head.
PostPosted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 8:14 pm


Flaming_Shadow_Angel
See... I've always thought everyone was just a little bit bisexual.

I think a person might not have a physical or emotional attraction to the same sex, so they don't think they are bisexual. BUT, there might be one person, if not more that they would feel that way for. Maybe even an emotional attraction.

They just haven't found that person yet.

I'm horrible at explaining myself... sorry.
I definitely agree with you there- to use the Kinsey scale, I don't think anybody is ever really a 1 or a 6- they might just be the slightest bit one way or the other- a 1.4 or a 5.7, but I think there's always the potential there to be attracted to the same (or the opposite) sex. Just genetically speaking, you know.

Culumacilinte


Canorous

PostPosted: Mon Apr 09, 2007 9:07 am


Someone told me this, once:

" If you like it, then you like it and you do whatever the hell you please. People will always say stuff to change your mind or whatnot, but as long as YOU like it, that's all that counts because it is YOUR life."

I kinda find that very nice to go by. Personally, I believe you should tell your mom, and then afterward and nicely, jus' tell her that her opinion won't change anything, and you are who you are. :3
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