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 Posted: Tue Aug 16, 2005 9:21 pm
Rinaqa One year! ^_^ Well, it was yesterday, but hey. Congrats! heart
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Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2005 7:17 pm
I'm 15 and well....my love life...there is none. No first kiss, No handholding, No first bf...yes a very lonely and boring life xp
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Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 10:57 am
ix_Chi_xi I'm 15 and well....my love life...there is none. No first kiss, No handholding, No first bf...yes a very lonely and boring life xp
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2005 2:19 pm
I'm 17, I'm with my third boyfriend, he's 16 and we're in the 11th grade. We've been dating a little over two and a half years. No, we have not had sex yet. We (mutually) decided to wait until we've graduated and are BETTER able to care for any resulting children. I HAVE been raped though, So I did have the pregnancy and STD scare, it was a while ago...
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Posted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 4:29 pm
Recently I lost my virginity to my friend and he didn't use a condom. He's 17, and I'm 15. I'm just coming into my sophmore year, and he's just going into his senior year in highschool. I have no clue how he feels about me (You know, the whole love/like thing, or if it even exists.) I wish he would give me some sort of hint on how he feels, but I don't want to press the issue and ask him.
My parents know about me losing my virginity to him, so they are completely alright with it, and they're going to buy me protection, and birth control some time. They know I'm not the type that want's to get pregnant, but right now..I kind of do want to, only because I want to be closer to my friend. But then again, I don't because I need to finish highschool and probably go into college in the future.
I know that my friend isn't the type that gets into relationships, and that I'm not the type who is able to stay in relationships. I just want him to change, and me to change in a way that will be good for us both since I really do like him. I'm not sure if it's just lust or not, but I'm hoping it's real....for once. Ofcourse I'm just a teenager, so I have no clue if my feelings are real. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 4:34 pm
Toasti Recently I lost my virginity to my friend. He's 17, and I'm 15. I'm just coming into my sophmore year, and he's just going into his senior year in highschool. I have no clue how he feels about me (You know, the whole love/like thing, or if it even exists.) I wish he would give me some sort of hint on how he feels, but I don't want to press the issue and ask him.
My parents know about me losing my virginity to him, so they are completely alright with it, and they're going to buy me protection, and birth control some time. They know I'm not the type that want's to get pregnant, but right now..I kind of do want to, only because I want to be closer to my friend. But then again, I don't because I need to finish highschool and probably go into college in the future.
I know that my friend isn't the type that gets into relationships, and that I'm not the type who is able to stay in relationships. I just want him to change, and me to change in a way that will be good for us both since I really do like him. I'm not sure if it's just lust or not, but I'm hoping it's real....for once. Ofcourse I'm just a teenager, so I have no clue if my feelings are real. sweatdrop The very worst thing to do is to believe that you can "change" someone. A lot of women (and some men) have this misconception, but in reality, it is the individual who decides to change. And also, I know all about the "pregnancy" hope. Now that you've had sex and actually utilized your body in that way, you probably wonder just how well it works, am I right? It's that mystery of whether you're fertile, that I felt after I had sex. However, once you look at the FACTS of pregnancy and childbirth, I assure you that you'll have to count on having plenty of time and money to make sure that it grows and flourishes. For now, I suggest getting on birth control pills before you have sex again. After three months (it takes that long to fully regulate your cycle) you'll have a lower chance of pregnancy, and it's always smart to use condoms in tandem (especially if you may think that your "friend" may have another sex partner.
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Posted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 4:40 pm
We didn't use a condom, so that's why I'm bringin up the whole pregnancy thing. I believe he pulled out in time, but I know there's always a chance that he didn't. He has been sexually active with some others in the past, and I don't really pay attention to what he does now, so I'm not sure. It has been rumored that he doesn't use a condom with any of his past lovers. sweatdrop
I don't really want to change him in any ways, since I think he's perfect the way he is, but I just want him to be with me, even though I know it more than likely won't happen. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 4:40 pm
Toasti Recently I lost my virginity to my friend and he didn't use a condom. He's 17, and I'm 15. I'm just coming into my sophmore year, and he's just going into his senior year in highschool. I have no clue how he feels about me (You know, the whole love/like thing, or if it even exists.) I wish he would give me some sort of hint on how he feels, but I don't want to press the issue and ask him.
My parents know about me losing my virginity to him, so they are completely alright with it, and they're going to buy me protection, and birth control some time. They know I'm not the type that want's to get pregnant, but right now..I kind of do want to, only because I want to be closer to my friend. But then again, I don't because I need to finish highschool and probably go into college in the future.
I know that my friend isn't the type that gets into relationships, and that I'm not the type who is able to stay in relationships. I just want him to change, and me to change in a way that will be good for us both since I really do like him. I'm not sure if it's just lust or not, but I'm hoping it's real....for once. Ofcourse I'm just a teenager, so I have no clue if my feelings are real. sweatdrop Having a child just to bring this "friend" closer to you would probably not work. Having a baby puts a ton of stress on a relationship, especially if a child is only wanted by one of the two people in the relationship. There are physical, emotional and especially financial concerns involved, and many teenagers are not ready to handle those things when they become pregnant. At 17, chances are he's not ready to be a father yet, just as you are probably not ready to be a mother (even if you want to be). Hell, even I am having maternal longings at 19, but I know that I am not ready for a child at this point in my life, and neither is my boyfriend. And don't wait for him to change, nor should you get your hopes up high that he will change. I dated my ex for almost 2 and a half years, and the last 6 months of our relationship was me waiting and hoping that he would change if I did what I could to make him happy, and it didn't work. He's still almost the same person now that he was then. Your "friend" will only change if he himself wants to change. If you're wondering how he feels about you, just come out and ask him. I mean... you did have sex with him, right? You can't really get anymore personal and intimate than that. sweatdrop And it would be best to go on birth control BEFORE you have sex again. The birth control pill will reach full effectiveness after one month of the prescription, and to my knowledge the patch works like that too. Depo is effective after 24 hours, but I wouldn't recommend it for people under 17 due to the hormonal side effects.
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Posted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 4:44 pm
Toasti We didn't use a condom, so that's why I'm bringin up the whole pregnancy thing. I believe he pulled out in time, but I know there's always a chance that he didn't. He has been sexually active with some others in the past, and I don't really pay attention to what he does now, so I'm not sure. It has been rumored that he doesn't use a condom with any of his past lovers. sweatdrop
I don't really want to change him in any ways, since I think he's perfect the way he is, but I just want him to be with me, even though I know it more than likely won't happen. sweatdrop So not only could you be pregnant from having unprotected sex, but you could've picked up an STD from him without even knowing it. neutral That's why people are supposed to get tested BEFORE they have sex with someone else, even if it's only a rumor. Go see your doctor as soon as you can. Ask about birth control, and about when to take a pregnancy test. Then tell your doctor about this "friend" of yours, and you can ask to get tested for STD's. You can also ask him to get tested too, especially if he's slept with other people before. And personally, it seems like you can do better than a friend who risks getting you pregnant, infected, and leave you in a lot of trouble, even without being in a committed relationship with you. Who knows, maybe he's even gotten other people pregnant if that rumor about him not using condoms in the past is true.
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Posted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 9:00 pm
Okay.
It was fun reading the past posts. 3nodding
Really interesting.. .. Sorry I dont give good advices.
Well.. Im 17 going on 18 soon.
I had a great guy, though we never went farther then french kissing...
I moved 3 hours away and we decided long distance relationship dont work.
(Id hate to not watch over him and witness if he changes or cheats. xp )
So we broke up. (We're still good friends, at first we emailed pretty often but now... we hardly had contact. Maybe for major holidays like a simple "Merry Christmas, Ex" or "Happy BDay, Girl")
Like a few weeks after the break-up, I had kind of a break down.
So I started dating like numerous amount of guys at a time to calm my stress down.(Okay my ex does not know that lol )
And just recently, I just met like the perfect guy.
And I thought "wow. there is someone as good as my ex. maybe better" and gradually felt better about my self and stuff. (You know.. moving schools and stuff) and stopped the dating thing. and just a few days ago we first kissed (already) and Im hoping we can move up a level whee .. soon enough...
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Posted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 10:22 pm
I'm 19, almost 20. I didn't find out I was gay until I was about 17. I tried to date girls before that and did really stupid stuff like have sex with them even though I knew I wasn't in love. All my other guy friends had girls they were screwing and I wanted to be "normal". It first really hit me that something wasn't right when I realized I'd rather masturbate then have sex with my girlfriend. It was scary as hell, let me tell you. My parents weren't too thrilled when they found out on accident while my dad was deleting some MSN coversation histories and saw the conversations me and my then boyfriend were having. I almost got thrown out of the house then and there. As it was I had to move in with my uncle right after I graduated. My mom and I are just barely beginning to reconcile. I don't think my dad and I ever will.
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Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 1:39 am
Life stories eh?
My turn I suppose, try not to laugh too hard.
Hokay. My parents separated when I was 7 (divorced 2 years later). For about 1 1/2 years afterwards I was an emotional mess, Cutting, banging my head into walls, crying myself to sleep, ect. I eventually realized that my dad was a total scumbag and only good for giving my my height and blonde hair (red now...naturally...YAY ^_^) Anyway, after the divorce was final ( I was 9 at the time) we moved away from the lovely little town I'd grown up in (Tehatchapi, CA) to Escondido (ewww). While my Mother (my hero and reason for waking up in the morning) was arranging housing and finish colledge (she was 41 at the time she got her double HHP ((SO proud *puffs up*))) I was living with my grandmother, who really didnt help with my -still fragile- mental state, Complaining about my weight and how Geeky I was. At about 9 1/2 I finally got to move into the apartment mom was sharing with two men. They where cool people and got me addicted to MMORPGs. My mom has since began dating one of them.
I met my first "boyfriend" over the internet at the tender age of 10, he was 18. Looking back now I realize I had no clue what I was doing and had no feelings at all for him. Anyway, shortly before my 11th B day I got to meet my "boyfriend" in person, undersupervision of my mother. Me, being a sneaky dumbass, slipped out of the room we where spending the night in, and went to His room. Once there he proceded to rape me. Him being over 300 pounds and me barely wieghing 90 damn near resulted in me suffocating. Once I got away from him I went and cleaned up in the bathroom and sat crying for half the night. My mother to this day doesnt know.
At the age of 13 I got my second boyfriend. Also over the internet. We hung out a lot IRL because he was only like 3 blocks away. Then his parents moved and made him cut all contact with me. I miss him, was a GREAT guy cry
age 15: Hopefully my last internet boyfriend! He was sweet, but lived on the east coast. We finally broke up because niether of us was happy but cared too much about the other to break it off. My mother finally helped us to get through it. He and I are still friends and we talk as often as the time difference will allow.
I got my current boyfriend shortly after breaking up with the one on the east coast. He and I met through the SCA (if you know what that is PM me with kindom/barony!!!!) and we live together for short periods of time ( I stay with him and his family for 2-3 month spans to go to events.)
The SCA is currently one of the best things in my life, it is the motivation I've been looking for since my parents divorced (never really got over it heh) and I am happy as a clam with it, I am currently trying to save up cash to get armor together so I can fight in the torneys. Also I'm an apprentice blacksmith and LOVING it (I get to play with fire *eye twich* muahahahaha)
so in short...internet boyfirends are icky...sca rocks...fire is good....Mom is #1! *brings out the foam hand*.....oh and I live in a little town in the middle of nowhere now called Alturas....
P.S. No, I try not to be serious unless it's Absolutely nessisary... <3 ppl smiling.
P.SS...Ninja/domos rock! domokun ninja domokun ninja
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Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 10:49 pm
Well, I guess you all want to know a little about me.
My husband and I have been best friends since we were 12, almost 13. We began dating when were 15 and lost our virginites to eachother at 16. We were always very careful and protected. The school we both went to gave us real sex education and both our parents were always open about the subjuct. I completely attribute our safety to learning what we really needed to know. Which is a good thing.
On the 16th of August, this year, we got married. It's been a little over a month and everything is going smoothly. A lot more so than I expected, but we have been friends for a very long time. Next week I will be going to the doctor to talk about the Patch and to see if it's right for me. (Hopefully it is.)
We want children, but we want to wait until I have finished most of my college. We also want to be able to give our children what they need. I'm not saying we want perfect condition to have a child, because I know that is close to impossible. I'd just like something close to ideal. Just be able to make sure he or she will not do without.
I guess that is all.
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Posted: Thu Sep 22, 2005 1:53 pm
In total, I've had four boyfriends in my life. Two of them weren't serious, and neither of them lasted longer than a month and a half. In January 2004, it seemed like my dreams were coming true-I was a senior in high school, I had a great group of girlfriends, and the guy I'd had a crush on for over a year asked me out. It wasn't long before I lost my virginity to him. My family and friends hated him, but I ignored them. To me, he was perfect. We were quite sexually active, but we always used condoms, and that June I started taking the pill. I graduated, and at the end of that August, two major things happened. My boyfriend proposed, and I moved to the Netherlands to work for a year as an au pair. Things were going great, even while I was gone-or so I thought. I missed him a lot, but I was dealing with that. People kept telling me that word was going around that my boyfriend was cheating on me. I brushed off their words and told them they were crazy.
Then, this past May, I found out the truth. From my boyfriend. He had cheated on me, right around the time that I left, with his ex-girlfriend. Not only that, but at the end of May, she had his baby, a little boy named Lucas. I was /so/ hurt, but because I was crazy in love with him, I decided to try and stay with him and try and make it work. As the days went by, I found myself less able to cope with the situation, but due to my pride, I convinced myself that I was happy. I knew in my heart, though, that I wasn't. When I finally came home at the end of July, I went over to a close friend's house. He had known about the situation from the beginning-he was the first one I'd told. We sat up all night talking, and to this day I still say that he rescued me, because it was that conversation that got me out of a very bad situation. I'm with him now, and I'm just ecstatic. My life has totally flipped around-my family and friends like him, he's encouraging me to go back to college right away, and I know he would never cheat on me. We are sexually active, and have had one pregnancy scare even though I was on the pill and we used a condom. What had happened was I'd skipped a pill and it caused me to spot just before my period came.
So that's my story. Not overly interesting, I guess, but it's all I've got. smile
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Posted: Thu Sep 22, 2005 8:18 pm
Arithrel In total, I've had four boyfriends in my life. Two of them weren't serious, and neither of them lasted longer than a month and a half. In January 2004, it seemed like my dreams were coming true-I was a senior in high school, I had a great group of girlfriends, and the guy I'd had a crush on for over a year asked me out. It wasn't long before I lost my virginity to him. My family and friends hated him, but I ignored them. To me, he was perfect. We were quite sexually active, but we always used condoms, and that June I started taking the pill. I graduated, and at the end of that August, two major things happened. My boyfriend proposed, and I moved to the Netherlands to work for a year as an au pair. Things were going great, even while I was gone-or so I thought. I missed him a lot, but I was dealing with that. People kept telling me that word was going around that my boyfriend was cheating on me. I brushed off their words and told them they were crazy. Then, this past May, I found out the truth. From my boyfriend. He had cheated on me, right around the time that I left, with his ex-girlfriend. Not only that, but at the end of May, she had his baby, a little boy named Lucas. I was /so/ hurt, but because I was crazy in love with him, I decided to try and stay with him and try and make it work. As the days went by, I found myself less able to cope with the situation, but due to my pride, I convinced myself that I was happy. I knew in my heart, though, that I wasn't. When I finally came home at the end of July, I went over to a close friend's house. He had known about the situation from the beginning-he was the first one I'd told. We sat up all night talking, and to this day I still say that he rescued me, because it was that conversation that got me out of a very bad situation. I'm with him now, and I'm just ecstatic. My life has totally flipped around-my family and friends like him, he's encouraging me to go back to college right away, and I know he would never cheat on me. We are sexually active, and have had one pregnancy scare even though I was on the pill and we used a condom. What had happened was I'd skipped a pill and it caused me to spot just before my period came. So that's my story. Not overly interesting, I guess, but it's all I've got. smile ^_^ That's so sweet. The best friends always make the best lovers. My partner and I were friends back before I even knew I was gay. He helped me through the whole scaryness of figuring it out. I was a little scared when he asked me out on a date about a year after I first discovered I was gay, but it turned out great and we've been together for going on two years now.
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