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 Posted: Sat Jul 01, 2006 8:03 am
Okay, yeah. That makes sense. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 4:00 pm
i usually get told to "just make up your mind." grrr.
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Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 4:08 pm
The same thing happens to me when I ask them to draw yaoi...its really sad that this world is so closed minded.
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Posted: Wed Jul 19, 2006 5:32 am
You would think that with all these people out here claiming to be bi to be cool, (mostly girls, sorry crying ) when in reality they're really about as bi as a unicycle, that people would be used to the idea by now. I think you have it a bit easier tho, b/c i'm a bi guy and my entire school didn't like just b/c of that. It's sad that we have a double standard (not just the male/female one, but the LGBT/STR8 one)
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Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 2:40 pm
i often run into people who seem threatened by the thought of a bicurious guy. but i guess it doesn't help that i go to an all boys school sweatdrop . so i have to keep most of my feelings secret so that i can avoid certain hazzings. but i guess that is life right mrgreen
if i could draw well i would pick up a pencil right now and do it for free, but alas i am a terrible drawer crying
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Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 2:46 pm
well....
One day I was with some friends and they were talking to Bi people.
They said that Bi people are greedy, I said that just because they are attracted to both sexes doesn;t mean that there greedy. It just is that they find attractive qualitys is both.
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Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 4:26 pm
your avi is adorable! and i like irish boys too ^_~
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Posted: Fri Jul 28, 2006 10:48 pm
Maraki_In_The_Moonlight The same thing happens to me when I ask them to draw yaoi...its really sad that this world is so closed minded. im pretty sure a good deal of the problem is the supersaturation of gay/bi ideals in the media, and not nearly so much close mindedness. the in-your-face sort of thing that happens all too often these days. some people just dont give a damn, and the push to integrate gay marriage(among other things) pushes them further away. some people hate it because they dont want to raise their children in such a twisted world of ideals. i considered myself bi once. and then i grew up and realized...it all doesnt matter. i ended up having more important things to worry about than this thing called being bi. it all seems so childish to me now. that is why i do not care for anyone that calls themselves bi. it is a fad, whether anyone cares to admit it or not. given, there are some true gays out there, but i never have had problems with gays who are mature about it, and dont throw it out there in casual conversation, or try to force it on me(much like some fundies out there, and see how popular they are?) hope i can give some insight to some of you on how the rest of the world feels about it
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Posted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 8:17 pm
Stevetom, I'm confuzed. Are you saying that being sexually, physically, and mentally attracted to both sexes is just a fad? Because I don't think that that's true (then again, I may have totally misinterpreted what you've said). But I'm sure that there are lots of bi people who don't make a big deal of it, or don't ever come out about it at all, because they're either scared of what might happen or just not the sort of people who seek attention. Where do they fit?
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Posted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 10:18 pm
well, it sure seems that way. a generation or two ago, this idea of being bi or gay just didnt...exist. there were few who actually were gay or bi, at least those who were truthful about it. all im saying is, yes, there are true gays and bi's out there, but with the sheer number of people(young adults/kids) claiming that...well, its hard to take it seriously.
its funny too, that most of these kids in this guild are what? under 18 is my guess. no one really knows who they are until they leave home and create a life for themselves.
history always repeats itself. i sure dont see my parent's generation or any other seeking same sex relationships en masse.
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 11:22 pm
Well, it's also possible that this entire guild is a bunch of horny teenagers who don't have a clue what they want. Most teens are. I am.
But I also know that right now I am bi, and have feelings for both sexes. That could always change, and the future's a big place, but either way, I am currently bisexual.
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Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 10:46 pm
haha, i appreciate your honesty, and i respect your choices. i guess, live for the moment? i guess im being too brash, but whats to learn if everyone agrees with you? lol
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Posted: Thu Aug 03, 2006 6:15 am
I have only told a couple of friends that I think I'm bi, I don't know for sure, and many people will claim that (at 16) I'm too young to know. However, one of the reasons I wanted to keep it to myself was because a lot of people near where I live are the sort of people who would probably through a stone through my window if they found out. But I don't know any gay people any way, so even if I told anyone, nothing would happen, although the college where I am going and where my brother currently is, there's gay people there...it sounds wierd writing this.
But I told my boyfriend, I thought he had the right to know and he said he thought he was bi too, but was trying not to be, which I thought was stupid, you can't deny who you are! But then he said to me that he thinks lesbians and bi chicks are just sex hungry and can't get it off guys!!!!!!!!! I said isn't it the same for gay guys and bi guys (I don't think that, I'm just putting it back on him) and he didn't answer, he just started talking about something else. So next time I see him, I'm going to have a proper talk to him about it and tell him that if he doens't like it he can find someone else.
I was also talking about it to some of my friends at school and they said that bi people are just greedy (as a joke, I don't know how they really feel about it) and then, when I was talking to one of my friends out of school, she said "Nah, they're just keeping their options open" So I say that to people now, that and indesicivness lol
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Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 2:03 pm
(to stevetom) Carpe diem!
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Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 5:23 pm
I've told quite a few friends of mine that I am bisexual. 99% of them are completely fine with it, or at least the try to ignore the fact. The only exception in coincedentally my best friend. He's one of those over-the-top psycho christian-republican, which is really strange, because he doesn't even understand most of the positions of the republican party. He's extremely influence by people at his chruch, which is bad because he gets a lot of psycho christian-republican propoganda.
Anyway, he says that he's fine with my choice, but everyday, almost every 20 minutes that I hang out with him, he always discriminates me or unconciously announces everything he finds negative as a "f**". That's what really gets me.
He is my best friend, and he's really cool otherwise, but it's just that part of him that makes me want to ignore my best friend. Gaahh.
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