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Melena Rai

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 08, 2016 1:25 pm


OokamixHime
Melena Rai
i actually thought it might be younger since you guys have guardians coming with .. i mean it is smart to never meet someone alone but maybe you could have a friend go instead of your uncle? how old is he?

I'm not sure if he'll have his parents come with him or not. They do the family vacation stuff so that's the reason in his case. That and they probably want to meet me themselves too
I tried to see about my friend coming before but I didn't want to make my friend feel like a third wheel so a family member was my only other option.
Who? Boyfriend?
ninja no the boogie man .. yes your boyfriend silly *pokes* .. and i get what you mean about your friend being a third wheel i thought of that after i sent it
PostPosted: Thu Sep 08, 2016 2:32 pm


I think that if you booked your friend a nice spa vacation wherever you meet they wouldn't mind being a third wheel. rofl


DefauIt



OokamixHime

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 08, 2016 2:53 pm


Melena Rai
ninja no the boogie man .. yes your boyfriend silly *pokes* .. and i get what you mean about your friend being a third wheel i thought of that after i sent it

xd I'm not thinking clearly today
He's nine month's younger than me so he'll be 23 in May

I would like to take a trip with my friend to canada, but one we can enjoy more for a girl time 3nodding
PostPosted: Fri Sep 09, 2016 8:03 am


I've never had a relationship to begin with. rolleyes but I am aware that I do require a physical presence. Not for sex....but just for hugs and kisses and holding and I want to cook a meal with him and such.

As far as I know, some ldr really do work. But they do take effort and time. Some efforts that I am just plain incapable of providing for myself. People would have to drive me and blah blah. I'd hate putting that on them because I have a like for this guy who may or may not be worth THEIR efforts and time. I just....I need to be driven and paid for. I just do. So I feel bad asking my mom who may not exactly trust this person.

This relationship would not only be mine and his. It would be everyone else's business too. Just for the simple fact that I need help to pull this off.

So long distance is a no for me. online bf is also a no.

Green_crayon42

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 24, 2016 7:19 am


My boyfriend and I have been living apart for about a year now. Throughout our relationship there were periods where we lived together and periods where we didn't. We started dating in high school, and when things went sour at my house with my mom I went to live with my father, who was three hours away. It was hard at first but then I suppose you get used to it.

I moved away from him in August last year for personal reasons and school reasons. We are long distance right now but it is hard, because I want him to move here with me and he wants me to move down there.
PostPosted: Sat Sep 24, 2016 7:40 am


Grin Evilly
My boyfriend and I have been living apart for about a year now. Throughout our relationship there were periods where we lived together and periods where we didn't. We started dating in high school, and when things went sour at my house with my mom I went to live with my father, who was three hours away. It was hard at first but then I suppose you get used to it.

I moved away from him in August last year for personal reasons and school reasons. We are long distance right now but it is hard, because I want him to move here with me and he wants me to move down there.

That is tough.
-hugs-
You both should like move half way or something. <3


DefauIt



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 24, 2016 7:44 am


DefauIt
Grin Evilly
My boyfriend and I have been living apart for about a year now. Throughout our relationship there were periods where we lived together and periods where we didn't. We started dating in high school, and when things went sour at my house with my mom I went to live with my father, who was three hours away. It was hard at first but then I suppose you get used to it.

I moved away from him in August last year for personal reasons and school reasons. We are long distance right now but it is hard, because I want him to move here with me and he wants me to move down there.

That is tough.
-hugs-
You both should like move half way or something. <3


Haha, the reasoning for him wanting me down there because it is cheaper. (I live in the GTA, one of the most expensive areas in Canada.) But I don't want to go down there because it's my hometown and... ******** that place.

Also he has family there which makes him a little apprehensive. I'll probably end up going back there, as much as I don't want to.
PostPosted: Sat Sep 24, 2016 8:57 am


Grin Evilly
DefauIt
Grin Evilly
My boyfriend and I have been living apart for about a year now. Throughout our relationship there were periods where we lived together and periods where we didn't. We started dating in high school, and when things went sour at my house with my mom I went to live with my father, who was three hours away. It was hard at first but then I suppose you get used to it.

I moved away from him in August last year for personal reasons and school reasons. We are long distance right now but it is hard, because I want him to move here with me and he wants me to move down there.

That is tough.
-hugs-
You both should like move half way or something. <3


Haha, the reasoning for him wanting me down there because it is cheaper. (I live in the GTA, one of the most expensive areas in Canada.) But I don't want to go down there because it's my hometown and... ******** that place.

Also he has family there which makes him a little apprehensive. I'll probably end up going back there, as much as I don't want to.


Yeah, I can see how that would suck both ways.
I'd still say picks new home together. That way you are both equally upset. Lol rofl

I'd hate to leave my hometown... But I would if I had to.
These things are so tough grrrrr 😠


DefauIt



Melena Rai

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 26, 2016 10:58 am


Grin Evilly
DefauIt
Grin Evilly
My boyfriend and I have been living apart for about a year now. Throughout our relationship there were periods where we lived together and periods where we didn't. We started dating in high school, and when things went sour at my house with my mom I went to live with my father, who was three hours away. It was hard at first but then I suppose you get used to it.

I moved away from him in August last year for personal reasons and school reasons. We are long distance right now but it is hard, because I want him to move here with me and he wants me to move down there.

That is tough.
-hugs-
You both should like move half way or something. <3


Haha, the reasoning for him wanting me down there because it is cheaper. (I live in the GTA, one of the most expensive areas in Canada.) But I don't want to go down there because it's my hometown and... ******** that place.

Also he has family there which makes him a little apprehensive. I'll probably end up going back there, as much as I don't want to.
that is where you should compromise and pick a new place.. maybe CLOSER to the cheaper area but not right there.. no reason you don't have to go back home if you don't want to
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