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 Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2013 1:47 pm
kudos
a couple of guys tried to date me to get into my pants, so i went into FBBM on them Full-Blown b***h Mode
bwahahaha cat_twisted
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2013 2:23 pm
:p Welcome to my club! I was a virgin when i left high school, that is because i didnt like anyone at my school, im in my 20's now and i only speak to one person from high school. Better to wait it out the sleep with people you don't connect with, even if your in an area with high teen sex/pregnancy.
<3
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THE_FAIRY_EMPRESS Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2013 9:50 pm
I graduated a virgin, and I still am. (age 18, second semester in college).
I live in another place where being a virgin is like some sort of stigma. To girls, anyway. A lot of girls from my school thought there was something "wrong" with me because I didn't want to sleep with a guy, or a girl, for that matter. It may be my history of being sexually abused talking, but I don't want to be touched by anyone but my husband (assuming any guy would want a weird girl like me, haha. XD)
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Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2013 2:01 am
I think we need to relearn what a virgin is. Quote: The word ‘virgin’ did not originally mean a woman whose v****a was untouched by any p***s, but a free woman, one not betrothed, not bound to, not possessed by any man. It meant a female who is sexually and hence socially her own person. In any version of patriarchy, there are no Virgins in this sense.” Quote Origin
I'm 19 going on 20 in April. I'm a virgin. I'm yet to sleep with a man. I'm to busy with study/work/friends/family. It's simply an aspect of my life I'm yet to begin. And for the most part, aren't we all virgins or is that wrong of me to say?
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Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2013 10:46 pm
From where I'm from it's rare to graduate NOT being a virgin. LOL.
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Posted: Wed Feb 20, 2013 3:03 pm
taeu I think we need to relearn what a virgin is. Quote: The word ‘virgin’ did not originally mean a woman whose v****a was untouched by any p***s, but a free woman, one not betrothed, not bound to, not possessed by any man. It meant a female who is sexually and hence socially her own person. In any version of patriarchy, there are no Virgins in this sense.” Quote Origin
I'm 19 going on 20 in April. I'm a virgin. I'm yet to sleep with a man. I'm to busy with study/work/friends/family. It's simply an aspect of my life I'm yet to begin. And for the most part, aren't we all virgins or is that wrong of me to say? Cheers to that. I suppose in that sense, I truly am a virgin, but that's besides the point...
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Posted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 7:34 pm
J e n R e i Whoot. 20 something more days and I will leave school a virgin. Its very uncommon where I live at.(Las Vegas) Teen pregnancy is really high and you're consider a "lame" or "scary" if you are older than 15 and still a virgin. I am now 18. I know random..just felt like throwing that out there.. I find LAME that the people thinks it's lame if you're a virgin !! scream EDIT : Where I live, it is not uncommon that teenagers have sex. I never had friends that would tell me that I am lame for being a virgin. Losing virginity is not important over here.
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Posted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 7:37 pm
Awenita Good. Save it for marriage. If the institution of marriage and what it stands for isn't a reason you'd consider, then because of the simple fact you are not a statistic for carrying any kind of STD and passing it to another. Before you get married, get your future spouse checked as well, I did with mine. I also married as a virgin myself. So your husband wasn't virgin ? He waited till marriage for you?
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Posted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 7:44 pm
XxAriaxX Awenita Good. Save it for marriage. If the institution of marriage and what it stands for isn't a reason you'd consider, then because of the simple fact you are not a statistic for carrying any kind of STD and passing it to another. Before you get married, get your future spouse checked as well, I did with mine. I also married as a virgin myself. So your husband wasn't virgin ? He waited till marriage for you? he was not a virgin when we got married. He has had sex before we started dating. Before we got married our state law required an STD check anyway. I was the virgin in this marriage.
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Posted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 7:50 pm
Awenita XxAriaxX Awenita Good. Save it for marriage. If the institution of marriage and what it stands for isn't a reason you'd consider, then because of the simple fact you are not a statistic for carrying any kind of STD and passing it to another. Before you get married, get your future spouse checked as well, I did with mine. I also married as a virgin myself. So your husband wasn't virgin ? He waited till marriage for you? he was not a virgin when we got married. He has had sex before we started dating. Before we got married our state law required an STD check anyway. I was the virgin in this marriage. It's nice to have a such law. When you were dating, did you feel that you wanted to sleep with him (sorry for the choice of words I don't know how to say it nicer ) but you held yourself ? Hope you don't mind to answer my question. I am very curious about all that. I never had a boyfriend...
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Posted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 8:04 pm
XxAriaxX Awenita XxAriaxX Awenita Good. Save it for marriage. If the institution of marriage and what it stands for isn't a reason you'd consider, then because of the simple fact you are not a statistic for carrying any kind of STD and passing it to another. Before you get married, get your future spouse checked as well, I did with mine. I also married as a virgin myself. So your husband wasn't virgin ? He waited till marriage for you? he was not a virgin when we got married. He has had sex before we started dating. Before we got married our state law required an STD check anyway. I was the virgin in this marriage. It's nice to have a such law. When you were dating, did you feel that you wanted to sleep with him (sorry for the choice of words I don't know how to say it nicer ) but you held yourself ? Hope you don't mind to answer my question. I am very curious about all that. I never had a boyfriend... Nah, he and I had a long distance relationship. Our way of coming together was a little unorthodox, we knew each other face to face in highschool but had moved, then started dating AFTER we had moved, dated off and on a few years, then finally tied the knot. So he wasn't really around for me to WANT to do anything with. I HAVE had other boyfriends during the times we weren't dating though. With them I was pretty darn solid about not having sex before marriage. I'm raised christian and am very sensitive to doing the right thing for God, so that was one of my biggest support systems if you think of it in that way. I was always taught that doing the right thing pleases God and no matter what temptation comes, that pleasing God in doing the right thing and waiting will bring blessings far greater than the 10 minutes of selfish pleasures of not waiting. That's not to demean anyone here who decides otherwise, but this is my personal belief and what had me hold back and I happily did it without any problems. If a boyfriend tried to force me into anything or tell me otherwise then clearly sex was more important than me and was not worth my time. (Loaded statement, but I don't feel like going into detail of how I TRIED working it out with each boyfriend into a happy medium.) I am just one of those people who do not find sex to be something of a need in my life especially when I was younger. I grew up with a different life style.
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Posted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 8:09 pm
Awenita XxAriaxX Awenita XxAriaxX Awenita Good. Save it for marriage. If the institution of marriage and what it stands for isn't a reason you'd consider, then because of the simple fact you are not a statistic for carrying any kind of STD and passing it to another. Before you get married, get your future spouse checked as well, I did with mine. I also married as a virgin myself. So your husband wasn't virgin ? He waited till marriage for you? he was not a virgin when we got married. He has had sex before we started dating. Before we got married our state law required an STD check anyway. I was the virgin in this marriage. It's nice to have a such law. When you were dating, did you feel that you wanted to sleep with him (sorry for the choice of words I don't know how to say it nicer ) but you held yourself ? Hope you don't mind to answer my question. I am very curious about all that. I never had a boyfriend... Nah, he and I had a long distance relationship. Our way of coming together was a little unorthodox, we knew each other face to face in highschool but had moved, then started dating AFTER we had moved, dated off and on a few years, then finally tied the knot. So he wasn't really around for me to WANT to do anything with. I HAVE had other boyfriends during the times we weren't dating though. With them I was pretty darn solid about not having sex before marriage. I'm raised christian and am very sensitive to doing the right thing for God, so that was one of my biggest support systems if you think of it in that way. I was always taught that doing the right thing pleases God and no matter what temptation comes, that pleasing God in doing the right thing and waiting will bring blessings far greater than the 10 minutes of selfish pleasures of not waiting. That's not to demean anyone here who decides otherwise, but this is my personal belief and what had me hold back and I happily did it without any problems. If a boyfriend tried to force me into anything or tell me otherwise then clearly sex was more important than me and was not worth my time. (Loaded statement, but I don't feel like going into detail of how I TRIED working it out with each boyfriend into a happy medium.) I am just one of those people who do not find sex to be something of a need in my life especially when I was younger. I grew up with a different life style. Aah ! That's great ! I recently went on a date (first time ever), because I thought I should give a chance to guys that are interested in me, and maybe we could become a couple if I develop feelings. But I didn't feel anything at all; so, I told him and we don't see each other anymore. xd Love is such a mystery to me...
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Posted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 8:11 pm
XxAriaxX Aah ! That's great ! I recently went on a date (first time ever), because I thought I should give a chance to guys that are interested in me, and maybe we could become a couple if I develop feelings. But I didn't feel anything at all; so, I told him and we don't see each other anymore. xd Love is such a mystery to me... Haha, take your time with it. Love isn't a one time shot--you're not always going to feel something on the first dates or even first contact. That's something that grows over time. 3nodding Ced and I knew each other for almost 7 years before we started dating. xD
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Posted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 8:18 pm
Awenita XxAriaxX Aah ! That's great ! I recently went on a date (first time ever), because I thought I should give a chance to guys that are interested in me, and maybe we could become a couple if I develop feelings. But I didn't feel anything at all; so, I told him and we don't see each other anymore. xd Love is such a mystery to me... Haha, take your time with it. Love isn't a one time shot--you're not always going to feel something on the first dates or even first contact. That's something that grows over time. 3nodding Ced and I knew each other for almost 7 years before we started dating. xD It is always better to know someone a lot before dating ! I'm 22 ! I don't know when I'll meet someone (to get to know him enough etc.) ... xd
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Posted: Sat Mar 23, 2013 8:45 pm
Sixteen? That's a bit young; too young to really give consent. You are right about it being your choice, and kudos for getting married to the man, but why are disagreeing with congratulating someone who can keep their legs closed? Honestly, when you see all of these girls at school with seven inch skirts, it's a miracle to see a graduate with a virginity. I, for one, think its wonderful that she can wait for the right person, as it's a gift you can't give twice.
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