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 Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 9:11 pm
Maia the Dino. I know this is a really stupid question but does being raped count as losing your virginity? sweatdrop It really depends on how you look at it. A lot of people would say yes, technically you did. Others would say it depends on the context - in your case, some might say no you didn't because the sex wasn't consensual on your part, therefore it "didn't count".
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 3:33 pm
I"m new here, so I just read these, but I am the same with zerlask. zerlask Im 13 and im still a virgin, but don't you guys worry about aids and all different kinds of diseases? question Yes, before I give my virginity away is it a good idea to be tested before the sex, even if you are protected?
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 11:43 am
Maia the Dino I know this is a really stupid question but does being raped count as losing your virginity? sweatdrop you lost it but you didn't give it away freely. It counts as losing it but it doesn't count as giving it away.
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Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2006 12:16 pm
I'm a virgin at 13 1/2, I don't really want to have sex yet. I don't feel ready yet.
I might be wierd for not wanting to, but oh well.
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Posted: Tue Dec 05, 2006 10:22 pm
Well I'm nearly 22 and still a virgin (22 in Jan), its hard because although I got a bit pressured in highschool to have sex, it was nothing at all until I was in uni.
I got so much pressure from friends to loose it, even if it was to some random guy that I met out at the clubs.
Then it also didn't help that guys wouldn't date me because I am a virgin.
On top of all that, if I tell someone I am, they think that I'm bullshiting them. Then they think that there must be something wrong with me. I've even over heard one of them say that I was too good looking to be a virgin, so he was trying to figure out why no one has had sex with me yet.
The worst of it all though is those people who know about me, say that they really respect my choices and then constantly ask me if I've had sex yet and if I say no, they try to hook me up with one of their friends or once again some random guy.
I'm surprised I still am a virgin with the amount of pressure I have recieved over my life. But I'm happy that I've lasted because I'd never loose it to someone I didn't care about. It doesn't have to be love, but I have to care for him and trust him to know that he will respect me and be caring before, during and afterwards.
It is hard though, especially when I get the urges to go out and sleep with someone. A friend of mine jokingly said that he wanted to ******** me one of the nights that I felt like I really wanted it. I nearly said yes and hopped in the car to see him. I'm so happy that I didn't allow myself to do that because I know that I would've regretted it so much.
Well now I've just started to date this really nice guy, I'm really hoping that he is genuine in the way he acts and treats me, because what I know of him so far, he's someone I would like to be with for a long time.
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 7:01 pm
Can some girls tell me how much it hurt for you to lose it?
I've heard described as, "being ripped in half," or "not that painful at all"
Because I really don't want to hurt her. And size of the guy would effect the pain, correct? How much, because, apparently, seven inches is above the norm, and I heard that anything above six in. or so is supposed to be really bad. ><
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Posted: Sat Jan 13, 2007 3:38 pm
Sukairaa Can some girls tell me how much it hurt for you to lose it? I've heard described as, "being ripped in half," or "not that painful at all" Because I really don't want to hurt her. And size of the guy would effect the pain, correct? How much, because, apparently, seven inches is above the norm, and I heard that anything above six in. or so is supposed to be really bad. >< Every Girls is different. For some it only feels a little bit sore, but for others it's total agony. It just depends on her. But it's sweet that you're thinking about this. heart
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Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 5:40 pm
I didn't bleed.. which was awesome.. btu it still hurt... I was on top... and it made it easier... btu it was still scary.... I came home and told my mom..
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Posted: Wed Mar 14, 2007 2:51 pm
I'm still a virgin myself, and I'm single. More or less... I find this to be a pain. I truly think it is jealousy from seeing a lot of other couples being lovey dovey. Maybe it is just this....
As a 16 year old, yes, I'm young, and a lot of you are no longer virgins... wow. I just had the urge to get mad, the jealousy pang hit.
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Posted: Mon Mar 19, 2007 9:40 pm
I still am. I really am considering it when i'm older only because i don't want to risk children...or even with protection. I say if you love someone they should wait like you. It's way better then having a child or risking one at 13-16 years of age.
~Shiree ninja
PS: My ex was 8 in...never tried it... lucky... me
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 5:37 am
I am 13 years old and my boyfriend is pressuring me to have sexa nd telling everyone we had sex and we've only been going out for a week. It scares me, I don't know what to do. My friend told me to take control and say 'I'm not ready yet, it'll be a long time before I do that'. And I need some advice. Please? redface
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 9:12 am
Don't let your boyfriend bully you into sex. It is your body and it is YOUR decision. If he really cared about you then he wouldn't keep putting so much pressure on you to do it.
Also the way he keeps going around telling everyone that you've had sex already when you haven't is a bit concerning, I mean even if its a joke its just really not appropiate; especially if you aren't ready for sex yet. If he's like this after a week in can you imagine what he'd be like if you did actually sleep with him... He's already being pretty verbal about everything, would you really want that?
You shouldn't rush into it, you may end up regretting it. Tell your boyfriend how you feel and if he gets pissy with you, then your friend is right, put him in his place. You may also want to think about how much you value the relationship between you.
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 9:35 pm
Many people hold their virginities to themselves very dearly. Some do not. Basically and bluntly here is my advice: Do not do something you are going to regret later. Do not let your boyfriend or girlfriend pressure you into sex if you do not want to.
To rape victims: It is not your fault that something was taken from you with out your consent. I know how it feels. I've been through it and it is not a good feeling at all. Never blame yourself for losing your virginity to someone who took it by force. You are still a virgin whether you feel like you are or not.
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Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 4:45 am
Maiasaurus Rex I know this is a really stupid question but does being raped count as losing your virginity? sweatdrop Yes. You did lose your virginity. I think it doesn't count though. Get tested for diseases, get a pregnacy test, and you should be good to go.
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 9:00 pm
well, i'm 18 years old, and i gave my virginity to my bf. i had heard how it hurt so bad blah blah blah and before i did it i was wondering if it hurt so bad wy would you do it again?! well i did it. and i felt no painwhtsoever. am i weird?
it reminded me of when i got braces how everyone said it hurt, it did not.
but anwho, my bf left for iraq and we only did it the one time... but like i heard if you don't have sex for 6 months you are revirginized... has anyone else herd this?
will i give up my virginity 3 times??? (he comes home and then leaves for another 6 months)
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