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 Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2011 7:42 pm
TheLastPhantomhive_Ciel_ blood_lust26 TheLastPhantomhive_Ciel_ blood_lust26 i think i am bi. not fully sure but pretty sure. iv kissed a girl and liked it. but i still dont know. i cant tell my parents for fear what would happen and i have a deep fear of going to hell. kissing a girl may or may not tell u if u truely r bi. i find girls extremily atractive tho i lean more tords guys. sadly my friend has convinced me to attempt to be streight. wich means i may see other girls in a sexual way but i shall not act apon it. so if i fall in love with a girl im gonna be in some serious truble. theres nothing i can tell u for i dont even know what i am. and i wish u the best of luck Lol then your more sure about it than i am. And if you liked it you should try just one more time? Or i dont know Anyways~ i can't really help you as well lol >w< check out the first few posts of the topic and the people who posted really had great posts and inspiring words on this. Maybe it'll help you a bit as it did me. And i wish you luck as well my friend =] and best of wishes. iv kissed this girl more then 1 time. tho shes achsaly been doing the kissing. shes very atracted to me xD shes dunked me in the cafiteria infrount of everyone and kissed me. haha it was funny waching ppl react Aww thats so romantic..ish xD lol i wish some girl would kiss me like that >w> a bit lol. haha well u probably will one day
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 4:52 am
I literally hate my religion and how it blasts homosexuality or bisexuality. And my parents are like annoyingly jerky to my friends who are bi. I hate it when that happens. Personaly I've never really thought about having a relationship with a girl. I'm just to busy trying to be me. I don't need a person to make me happy. Getting abit off track. Just have fun and be yourself.
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 7:36 am
My boyfriend tells me (even when I don't believe him) that gays and bi's will go to hell. I don't want to think that God would do that though. You can't help who/what you like. Now, I'm actually curious if I'm bi-curious. lol. I don't mind rping in lesbian situations, and I don't *clears throat* mind doing things with girls in person as long as I don't kiss them and my mouth doesn't go to certain areas (if that makes since. sorry if that's a little TO on the sexual side for you). I know that I love my boyfriend and we intend on getting married. I'm overly attracted to males because I'm pretty sure I'm straight, but on the flip side, I admire the female body and it's curves. It's like, I want to stare at them and just draw. But anyway, I know I'm not really helping, and I'm not saying go do things with a girl jut to try to figure things out. If anything, kiss a guy you really love, and kiss a girl that you think you might want as a girl friend. That might help you out. But their is nothing wrong with it. Even thought i'm not bi or gay, you can always come and talk to me. My best friend is gay as a matter of fact! And he looks like a very hair Jesus!!!
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 8:34 am
Keyoshi Storm If anything, kiss a guy you really love, and kiss a girl that you think you might want as a girl friend. That might help you out. But their is nothing wrong with it. Even thought i'm not bi or gay, you can always come and talk to me. My best friend is gay as a matter of fact! And he looks like a very hair Jesus!!! Lol well i dont think i can love ouo... i mean ive had three guys be (madly/) in love with me. But ive never really felt love back.. i've cared for them.. like a girlfriend should but not love. I (tryed/) forced myself to love someone once, being one of the boys, but thats the closest ive actually been to loving someone. Owo heh.. And thats comforting to know~ =D lol hairs like jesus? Nice x]
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 11:25 am
TheLastPhantomhive_Ciel_ Keyoshi Storm If anything, kiss a guy you really love, and kiss a girl that you think you might want as a girl friend. That might help you out. But their is nothing wrong with it. Even thought i'm not bi or gay, you can always come and talk to me. My best friend is gay as a matter of fact! And he looks like a very hair Jesus!!! Lol well i dont think i can love ouo... i mean ive had three guys be (madly/) in love with me. But ive never really felt love back.. i've cared for them.. like a girlfriend should but not love. I (tryed/) forced myself to love someone once, being one of the boys, but thats the closest ive actually been to loving someone. Owo heh.. And thats comforting to know~ =D lol hairs like jesus? Nice x] Well, I have always been the kind of girl to chase after guys, but I never thought that i would actually feel for someone like it do for my boyfriend. I have been dating him for almost 18 months now, which is amazing because the boyfriend before him was the longest one I had and it only lasted 4 months (go figure). But I am so in love with him! And we just have so much in common. And now, i don't really know what I would do with out him. I'm sure you'll find someone like that someday. And i meant to say "He looks like a very hairy Jesus." Sorry about that. ^^;
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 11:35 am
Keyoshi Storm Well, I have always been the kind of girl to chase after guys, but I never thought that i would actually feel for someone like it do for my boyfriend. I have been dating him for almost 18 months now, which is amazing because the boyfriend before him was the longest one I had and it only lasted 4 months (go figure). But I am so in love with him! And we just have so much in common. And now, i don't really know what I would do with out him. I'm sure you'll find someone like that someday. And i meant to say "He looks like a very hairy Jesus." Sorry about that. ^^; Maybe~ And oh OuO..
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 11:44 am
TheLastPhantomhive_Ciel_ Keyoshi Storm Well, I have always been the kind of girl to chase after guys, but I never thought that i would actually feel for someone like it do for my boyfriend. I have been dating him for almost 18 months now, which is amazing because the boyfriend before him was the longest one I had and it only lasted 4 months (go figure). But I am so in love with him! And we just have so much in common. And now, i don't really know what I would do with out him. I'm sure you'll find someone like that someday. And i meant to say "He looks like a very hairy Jesus." Sorry about that. ^^; Maybe~ And oh OuO.. *nods* very hairy o.o
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 5:01 pm
But most importantly, a wise woman once said,
" I quit the band, so I could play by mySELF!"
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 12:12 pm
my best friend is bi. ive asked her a few times how she came to admit it and she says "its not something i chose its who i am so im gonna go with who i am" (lol i think i rubbed off on her a little too much i never thought id hear her say that). so what im trying to say is that if ur still unsure just take that leap and try it out. it most likely is scary but its not until you take that leap that you will find your answer. you know like 98% of people in the world want in answer but they are afraid of change so they refuse to do the steps to get to that answer... (if that made sense?) i say go for it =)
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 3:55 pm
I have nothing against people being bi, or gay. I actually think it's pretty cool. I'm straight myself, but I have a gay friend who's awesome. But something I can't understand is why the freaking (sorry if this offends you religeous people so no critisizing!) religious people have to get all up in their faces and say they're (excuse my language) fags, and stuff like that. Just because the bible says it started with a man and a woman doesn't mean in my opinion that you can't love somebody of like the same sex. If they lov eachother, then hell why stop them. It's just prejudice like when and now how people do it to blacks! So if you love them, then why should you listen to your parents, you should just be with them instead.
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 9:13 pm
For almost a year, I was a lesbian & that was because every dating experience I had previous to that was, not only, with men but also terrible. They either died of one cause or another or they were physically abusive. In all actuality, I have a strong & terrible fear of men because of my past relationships but women really aren't much better. While I was a strict lesbian, I was in a fling with a girl who didn't really care for me & for months I wasted time on a girl who cheated on me constantly & was verbally abusive when she didn't have some sort of drug in her system.
I'm more bi-sexual now than anything else, because my dating experience has taught me that no gender is really better than the other. They both have their flaws & upsides, so what you get really depends on your taste in personalities & what you're looking for in people. My family widely ignores my sexual interests, if they don't accept them for what they are that is. For example, my mom is supportive of my relationships with other females as long as they're healthy ones. On the other hand, my uncle is very ignoring of the fact & has always pushed me to male relationships in the belief that they seem more natural.
I'm lucky & happy to say that I'm actually in a guy/girl relationship now, where the male in our pair is actually very accepting of my interests. This is actually more unusual than it sounds. Most of my male relationships have found me disgusting for having an interest in my own gender & have often tried to change me. But my relationship with this partner has been built around acceptance of our lesser points or odd qualities. More than that, we encourage each other to try new things. Including following on bi-curious tendencies that he or I might get, or even just having a date to eye up other sexy people. Its fun anyways. ^_^
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