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 Posted: Sun Aug 08, 2010 7:31 am
The inability of people to separate ethnic/cultural values and actions from those of a religion is staggering.
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Posted: Sun Aug 08, 2010 8:12 pm
sigh..
i joined this guild and its pretty fun you get to rp different movies and this one girl friended me because we were in all the same rps and in the romance there are only like 3 guys and we gotta share the attention and she finds the first guy she can and leeches on him and if he ignores her for even a second she latches onto the next guy but its only a rp so i let it go then i start seeing her in ALL my guilds... and im starting to get pissed and now even my most sick and sweet happy places for invaded by this noob! and ugh i just hate seeing her everywhere i go its annoying how i cant do anything but pm without seeing her there...
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 3:04 am
They had to saw off some of the bone in my jaw to get my wisdom teeth out. ******** it hurts. I took off til Thurs but hell I may not go back to work til next Monday now.
Dragon Age you're my best friend once again.
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Posted: Wed Aug 18, 2010 11:27 am
(Names edited out for... fun I guess.)
So my best friend at the moment is being a really crappy friend. ):<
When she's around me, she's fine. She's really fun and funny and aside from the usual drama, we have a great time. Now she made a few new friends at her last job. And I've met most of them, they're really cool guys. We've hung out a few times, had some fun memories, good times. But lately, I think she's trying to get me out of the picture. Why would she do this? Good question. I think: Because she likes the attention. S is a girl who always needs the spotlight. She is very melodramatic. She will throw tantrums if she isn't the center of attention.
S is also the kind of person who likes to say things like: "I know K so well. You think you know him. But you don't even understand the level of our friendship." Her friends sometimes become her siblings. Her friends parents become Mom and Dad. And then she brags about how close she is to them later. You know the type?
And I have no proof that she's trying to faze me out. Just a lot of little things. She'll go to visit one of them at work, then when I ask her where she is, she's very vague. "I'm... running errands." Or recently, I've been telling her to give this guy my phone number so we can plan a Buffy marathon. Every time I ask, she gets really serious and starts asking why she can't just set a date with him. She's always complaining about how busy she is, but she has time to prevent me from talking to her guys.
And it pisses me off because I integrated her into my group of friends. And I don't know if she even realizes that she's doing it. But it's ridiculous. It's like she's only my friend when it's convenient for her.
And I often think, maybe I'm just being paranoid. But I'm pretty perceptive and I know her pretty well. As with all of my friends, I can expect things of her that I would have to be paranoid to accuse my other friends of.
For example, I know my friend G will ditch me to play video games, and then lie about it. I know that E will lose herself completely when she gets a new boyfriend and will forget that I exist for a few weeks. And I know that I can't trust M with a secret.
So I'm pretty confident in saying that S would disregard my feelings to make sure that she doesn't have to share the attention with me.
And recently there's this guy. He's a few years older than us. More than five, less than ten. He's manipulative, especially to women. He likes attention and can command a room pretty easily.
S has a huge crush on him. She hasn't admitted it to me. I wouldn't be surprised is she hasn't admitted it to herself yet.
And I would be lying if I said I wasn't attracted to him. But that doesn't change the fact that he's not the kind of person I want to trust with my emotions. And so I would never act on it. But I've admitted it to some of my friends. Not S.
Still, I believe that S believes that my mission in life is to have his baby.
She gets snippy when I bring him up and she goes to great lengths to make sure that I don't get any closer to him.
And I am honestly very, very close to just making out with him. (Marking him as not fair game anymore by girl rules by the way...)
Or, letting her go for it. Because like I said, he is a manipulative a**. And she doesn't realize that she is about to dive head-first into 3ft deep water.
And it's getting to the point where I think, this isn't worth wrecking a friendship over, I should just back off. But dammit, I always back off. Maybe it's not worth keeping a friendship with someone who would get pissed at me over this. Maybe I don't need to be the stand-by friend of someone so needy.
>_____________<
Thoughts? Advice?
&@Laterus: D: I'm sorry. Wisdom teeth suck.
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Posted: Wed Sep 01, 2010 7:16 pm
So were ranting here.... If you insist
So basically I want to b***h this dude out really bad. He hasn't talked to me for a month and wouldn't return any messages or calls I sent. We had a messed up night where he went home drunk with his ex who he wouldn't call his girlfriend when we hung out that night. He also fell on the ground. I tried to pull him up not push him down.
He hasn't talked to me since because I'm guessing because of the girlfriend who's a jealous moocher. He choose her over me. Me and him just had reconnected so it's understandable. But seriously is there a need to choose? I more or less want to say my piece. I would probably chase him down if I saw him to tell him down. I'm still on the facebook friends after all that. Why? I haven't left him messages or said anything on there to him. He seems like a sex addicted drunk to me. I just don't want to end up at his funeral. Why leave me on facebook but not contact me once? Never got to deleting me? Ive tried contacting him. I sent him a message if he ever needed a friend I'm around. I saw him stumbling home like a week ago walking across the street which wasn't the way to his house. Was he avoiding me? I'm not good at holding my thoughts or feelings in so I want to know.
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Posted: Wed Sep 01, 2010 8:38 pm
@brainn: It sounds like you already know how S is. Based on that, you could just find ways of dealing with her, or if it bugs you too much, cut her off. You can't really change her (except maybe by talking), but you can decide how much of her you want in your life.
As for the guy, if he's a manipulative a**, what's the point? My family goes by the rule there's no point in dating unless you're looking for marriage, because a relationship either ends in a break-up or marriage. I'm not saying you should do that, but why would you waste your time over him? It doesn't seem like he's worth a fight.
[I probably suck at social advice, but that's what I think. Good luck with it]
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Posted: Wed Sep 01, 2010 8:39 pm
Lateralus es Helica They had to saw off some of the bone in my jaw to get my wisdom teeth out. ******** it hurts. I took off til Thurs but hell I may not go back to work til next Monday now. Dragon Age you're my best friend once again. :/ Sounds bad. I hope you feel better.
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Posted: Wed Sep 01, 2010 8:47 pm
xxEverBluexx Lateralus es Helica They had to saw off some of the bone in my jaw to get my wisdom teeth out. ******** it hurts. I took off til Thurs but hell I may not go back to work til next Monday now. Dragon Age you're my best friend once again. :/ Sounds bad. I hope you feel better. I had to go to the hospital for a week and had two surgeries to fix it. >_< Better now though. Got engaged immediately afterward also with plans to start a family in the future so I guess it all works out in the end. Thank you though!
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Posted: Wed Sep 01, 2010 8:49 pm
hachi_ ateyou So were ranting here.... If you insist So basically I want to b***h this dude out really bad. He hasn't talked to me for a month and wouldn't return any messages or calls I sent. We had a messed up night where he went home drunk with his ex who he wouldn't call his girlfriend when we hung out that night. He also fell on the ground. I tried to pull him up not push him down. He hasn't talked to me since because I'm guessing because of the girlfriend who's a jealous moocher. He choose her over me. Me and him just had reconnected so it's understandable. But seriously is there a need to choose? I more or less want to say my piece. I would probably chase him down if I saw him to tell him down. I'm still on the facebook friends after all that. Why? I haven't left him messages or said anything on there to him. He seems like a sex addicted drunk to me. I just don't want to end up at his funeral. Why leave me on facebook but not contact me once? Never got to deleting me? Ive tried contacting him. I sent him a message if he ever needed a friend I'm around. I saw him stumbling home like a week ago walking across the street which wasn't the way to his house. Was he avoiding me? I'm not good at holding my thoughts or feelings in so I want to know. I'd personally confront him and get some type of closure. That's my bit of advice.
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Posted: Thu Sep 02, 2010 4:57 pm
hachi_ ateyou So were ranting here.... If you insist So basically I want to b***h this dude out really bad. He hasn't talked to me for a month and wouldn't return any messages or calls I sent. We had a messed up night where he went home drunk with his ex who he wouldn't call his girlfriend when we hung out that night. He also fell on the ground. I tried to pull him up not push him down. He hasn't talked to me since because I'm guessing because of the girlfriend who's a jealous moocher. He choose her over me. Me and him just had reconnected so it's understandable. But seriously is there a need to choose? I more or less want to say my piece. I would probably chase him down if I saw him to tell him down. I'm still on the facebook friends after all that. Why? I haven't left him messages or said anything on there to him. He seems like a sex addicted drunk to me. I just don't want to end up at his funeral. Why leave me on facebook but not contact me once? Never got to deleting me? Ive tried contacting him. I sent him a message if he ever needed a friend I'm around. I saw him stumbling home like a week ago walking across the street which wasn't the way to his house. Was he avoiding me? I'm not good at holding my thoughts or feelings in so I want to know.
But I can sympathize. :/ That sucks.
@Blue: She's gotten much better. I don't know if she doesn't have a crush on him anymore or what, but she's backed off a lot and is acting normal again.
I think I just have to remember that I can't rely on her when it comes to her being a loyal friend when it comes to guys (or really whoever's approval/attention she wants).
As for the guy, intellectually I want a sweet guy who respects me and understands me. My heart, or rather my id, wants a guy who's domineering, manipulative, and controlling. I should keep that brat in a cage...
Why am I attracted to guys like that? Probably a mix of my daddy issues and the fact that I can be bossy and manipulative so I want to be with someone who can mentally push back.
This guy really isn't a bad guy though. It just wouldn't actually work for a million reasons.
It's just a dumb crush though. I think I'm just going to wait it out. Stupid feelings...
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Posted: Thu Sep 02, 2010 6:02 pm
So I just got my learner's permit at the local DMV. I had to wait an hour AND then some, because the lady spelled my name wrong. Normally that would be okay, but she was READING OFF MY BIRTH CERTIFICATE. How the hell do you do that?!?! What's more is that I can't drive at night for 3 months. I already know how to drive during the, I've doing it for the past year. What sucks more is that my drivers ed class doesn't provide or even have manual transmission cars. So not only will I be learning on a automatic, but I have to come home and drive stick (which I know how to do, but I'm bad at shifting gears without dumping the clutch). What the ******** is the point of learn automatic if I'm gonna be driving stick?! It's not like stick shift cars are high tech or anything. They have 10 cars. They could have made one stick, and saved a couple thousand while they were at it. Not only that, but I was told by a lady signing me into school that I needed another credit of P.E. back on the 23rd. I just learned today that not only do I not need to take it, but I signed up online and worried about that s**t for nothing. scream I've been loaded up with LITERALLY 6 or 7 hours of homework every evening now for the past week, and then my teachers can't understand why I can't get enough sleep. What's even more sad is that even my ART teacher is giving me homework. Since when in normal world does that happen?! What's even SADDER is that I have to do this alone because I don't have any friends because I new to the school. *Sigh* It seems I'm having a big role of bad luck... gonk
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Posted: Thu Sep 02, 2010 7:10 pm
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Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:58 am
The inability of a lot of people to realize that God obviously can be cruel ...... and is. emo
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Not just people's inability to differ between culture and religion (as OP mentioned), but also to differ between those and revenge.
And even the inability to differ between revenge and desperation .......
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Posted: Sun Sep 12, 2010 7:35 am
Lateralus es Helica hachi_ ateyou So were ranting here.... If you insist So basically I want to b***h this dude out really bad. He hasn't talked to me for a month and wouldn't return any messages or calls I sent. We had a messed up night where he went home drunk with his ex who he wouldn't call his girlfriend when we hung out that night. He also fell on the ground. I tried to pull him up not push him down. He hasn't talked to me since because I'm guessing because of the girlfriend who's a jealous moocher. He choose her over me. Me and him just had reconnected so it's understandable. But seriously is there a need to choose? I more or less want to say my piece. I would probably chase him down if I saw him to tell him down. I'm still on the facebook friends after all that. Why? I haven't left him messages or said anything on there to him. He seems like a sex addicted drunk to me. I just don't want to end up at his funeral. Why leave me on facebook but not contact me once? Never got to deleting me? Ive tried contacting him. I sent him a message if he ever needed a friend I'm around. I saw him stumbling home like a week ago walking across the street which wasn't the way to his house. Was he avoiding me? I'm not good at holding my thoughts or feelings in so I want to know. I'd personally confront him and get some type of closure. That's my bit of advice. That's the one thing I want more then anything. I don't know if I just run into him somewhere to just run up to him and talk to him or what.
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Posted: Mon Nov 08, 2010 10:10 pm
Today I was just looking for another guild where I could talk about atheism and agnosticism, and all I could find were 1) guilds that haven't been used since 2008, 2009, or early 2010; 2) guilds with a bunch of emotional, stupid teenagers that think they know what they're talking about but don't; or 3) anti-Christians wanting other anti-Christians and atheists to join their guild. Honestly, are there so many crazy and stupid atheists (among other things) out there? It seems this is the only guild where intelligent and sane atheists can be found (on this site).
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