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Anger and jealousy are normal human emotions that we are all bound to feel at one time or another. You should talk out your problem with your girlfriend in a calm and honest manner. Matters of sex are best handled carefully, with lots of consideration and thought for both parties.

Although you should be considerate to her boundaries in what she wants for her body, there is nothing wrong with you expressing your honest feelings on the situation with her in a calm manner, that is informative though not pushy. Communication in a relationship is important, and through it, maybe you can reach an understanding with her.

I have been together with my boyfriend in about two years now. At first I was just as your girlfriend and too embaressed to let him touch me. But one day, he'd had enough. He told me (a little frustrated, not angry) that he just wanted to do it for my sake, though of course he also wanted to touch me. I realized I had been selfish.

It's all about trust, so I think you should tell her. Don't be pushy, just tell her how you feel about the situation. She may not realize that you just want to comfort her in any way you can.

If she's embaressed or if something's bothering her, ask her to tell you what. It's wrong of her just to say "no" without a reason, yet neither is it right that you do something she's not ok with.

Learn to talk about things like this more open and I think you'll do just fine. Hope this helped! biggrin

Anger and jealousy often comes, as I've seen through my decent little life, through frustration. I have had a similar feeling that I at first thought was jealousy but I didn't have anyone to be jealous of.

My ex didn't want to have sex at all. I understand her and everything and I respected that. Now she respected my sexual needs and had no problems with me sleeping with others as long as she always knew who and when. Yet every time when I looked at her while in bed I wanted more and that feeling tore us apart. Well we became friends in the end and still are.

So my tip is simple: Talk! When growing up you'll see how much can be solved with talk and to try and understand each others. Not letting it bottled up inside you. Tell her how you feel, do it in a manly fashion if you so need. That can look very stupid and should be avoidable...also don't do anything funny with it either. As you are almost a grown up I say that you have to talk to the person that matters. None here can actually do anything about it, onyl you!

You can't change how you feel. You should talk to her and Yuki about what happened. Just be honest about how you feel.