sachiko_sohma
I comprehend it just fine.
Just think of it this way. Someone has a test coming up, their pretty smart so they think their pretty much prepared so they think that they won't fail and didn't study. Well they knew that not studying there is a chance of failing. Well test day came and they failed, who's fault is it? Not the teachers fault, and they didn't ask God that they wanted to fail.
Not studying and sex but can have concequnces. They may not ask to fail or planned on failing but it still possible and they made the choice not to study so it's their fault cause knew what could happen. Same for pregnancy, they didn't ask to get pregnant or planned on it but they knew that it could happen and chose to have sex anyways. It's not the same as a period, woman have no choice to have periods but people do have choice on sex. I never said i'm agaist sex (trust me i'm not, just not prepared for anything that might come up) but I would admit that if I chose sex and got an unwanted pregnancy then i'm partly to blaim since I knew that was a possibity but choose to take that risk anyways.
Just think of it this way. Someone has a test coming up, their pretty smart so they think their pretty much prepared so they think that they won't fail and didn't study. Well they knew that not studying there is a chance of failing. Well test day came and they failed, who's fault is it? Not the teachers fault, and they didn't ask God that they wanted to fail.
Not studying and sex but can have concequnces. They may not ask to fail or planned on failing but it still possible and they made the choice not to study so it's their fault cause knew what could happen. Same for pregnancy, they didn't ask to get pregnant or planned on it but they knew that it could happen and chose to have sex anyways. It's not the same as a period, woman have no choice to have periods but people do have choice on sex. I never said i'm agaist sex (trust me i'm not, just not prepared for anything that might come up) but I would admit that if I chose sex and got an unwanted pregnancy then i'm partly to blaim since I knew that was a possibity but choose to take that risk anyways.
Not studying for a test would be closer to unprotected sex.
What if a person studies extremely hard for a test? Is it still their fault that they failed?
Concieving is along the same lines as getting your period. You did not physically make it happen. Meaning, you did not sit with a petrie dish in front of you and inject sperm into an egg. Just as when you get your period, you do not sit there and scrap the blood of off your walls. Both are a natural biological process. That a person has no choice in.
Of course, a person does have a choice to have sex or not. However, if a person protects themselves, I see that as a sign of trying their hardest to keep that biological process from happening. (Just like when a female takes the depo shot so she doesn't get her period. She is trying her hardest to stop a biological process.)
I never said you were against sex either. You pull things out of the air.
On a side note: I would just like to say that I really am not against anyone personally. I just wanted to know how something affected you presonally when it really had nothing much to do with you. Of course, I can see how it does affect many people on an emotional level. I just wanted to see what you had to say about it.
If I ever insult someone in some shape or form, please let me know. I am not hateful person and try to stay that way. Just as you are strong in your views, I am strong in mine.
