Valen The Blade
Errowyn
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Anyway, sexy clothing is fine, but really... the more risque stuff, save it for the bedroom. I show a LITTLE cleavage once in a while with a low cut dress or top, but it's not extremely low cut like one of those huge v-neck things that dips down practically to your navel.
I'm the same way. Occasionally I may wear a shirt that shows some cleavage but that's about it. I don't wear shirts that are so low cut that I may pop out at any given second.
The only time I really show a lot is for the Ren. Faire and even then my chest isn't pushed up that high.
I think what it truly boils down to is what are you wearing and wear are you wearing it at. For example, while tubetops are nice around the house you shouldn't wear them out to say shop at target or kohls, or wear them to pick a child up from school.
Having a little cleavage showing doesn't bother me, but because I do have a naturally large chest I am extreamly self-conscious about what types of tops I where. What bothers me is that most dresses now are designed to show off cleavage and make your breasts seem larger. Problem, I can't wear those dresses that may look fine on most people because it will look like I my boobs are falling out of the dress, and I am not comfortable with showing that much cleavage. Many of the cute tops today are made that way as well. This results in my everyday where being jeans and a Tshirt, and dress wear being a suit, skirt and turtle-neck, or long skirt with a peasant top and belt (deppending on the level of dress).
