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 Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 3:10 pm
It seems that at least two of us are in this predicament. The main cause for this emnity towards each other is that our "table of out-cliques" had tensions rising in it for a long time. Eventually someone struck out at another someone, and then another pseron did the same thing, the people that each of those people lashed out at were their "significant others." They were just far too different from each other for it to work. So, now there is the existence of the "I don't give a care" table and the "Enjoy life for all it's worth" table. This happened way back in 7th grade. I never saw too mcuh aof a problem, because I was always cool with everyone when they were together, so everyone was still cool with me, and recognized my neutrality. My school goes K4-12th Grade, if that helps any in understanding. Also, stretching all of those hrades is a mere 50-150 students. That makes it impossible not to know/see comebody. Also, the tuition kept rising, and the school had no choice of classes or electives.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 3:16 pm
I love being asexual because it makes life for me much simpler. No need to worry about pressuring others to have sex because I don't really care about it anyways. However, that does not mean I will die a virgin. If my partner in life ever wants sex then I will go through with it to please her and also because sex can be an act of showing one's love for another.
My advice? Find someone you're intellectually attracted to, someone who is smart, funny and/or down to earth. That would be a good person to date regardless of how they look because you are only interested with their mind. Hold off on sex until you've established a partnership and if your partner wants to try it you can decide what to do from there. At least that's what my plan is and I found an awesome asexual who thinks much like me.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 3:27 pm
Yeah, it does take a lot of stress outof area where there would be. far too over-rated as well. Umm... as an aesxual, I wouldn't ever have sex. No matter what. I also wouldn't date a non-asexual. Yes, it can be, but it is not necessary.
Of course. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I would never date someone for their looks. I only like people for their personalities. You then come to see that person as beatiful as no one else can. I have high morals and would never have sex outside of marraige (as a christian), not that i would ever have sex anyway.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 4:15 pm
Makes sense to me but then again that is a kind of understanding that you can really only find here.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 4:20 pm
True. Most people are more shallow than they realzie. This is why the divorce rate has gone up so significantly over the past years. They married them for the wrong reason and now they realize that they aren't compatible and things won't work out like they had plannd their little paradise of a life to be. A reality check for sure.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 4:24 pm
Yeah, no kidding. I personally vowed never to agree to marriage until I have dated someone for at least three years. Seems to me that too many people jump into marriage before they truely understand their signifigant other. One needs to see and understand the dark side of someone as well as the light. They need to see the other person at their worst as well as at their best.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 4:28 pm
Most people think 1 year is a long time to wait. they are just impatient and on a hormone-high, I say. Exactly. Sometimes it takes a while to see another person's other side. They don't do so, because they haven't obtained the trust in you required for them to do so. I have seen every side of my best friend. There are MANY sides as her psyche is SO complex. I mean, she has been though a lot, and at such a young age, too. It'd be hard for anyone to deal with all of that stuff.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 4:34 pm
I've known my girlfriend for three years and I am still finding out things about her which is nice. I haven't seen her darker side yet though I know it is there. We do get along splendidly and in the three years I have known her we have never gotten into a fight over anything. We're both level with each other and communicate well so any potential problem gets dealt with before it snowballs.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 4:51 pm
I've known my best friend since 7th Grade, so that makes it... 4 years. Oh, by no means do I know everything about her, yet. I still discover things about her, as she does me. We haven;t fought over anything, either. That's the same reason with us.
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