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 Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 8:29 pm
Medeus Cabron LaSwan Medeus Cabron LaSwan Medeus Cabron LaSwan It kinda bothers me now when people try to tell me that I'm unhealthy because of my weight. I want to show them a day in the life of me in 2009 and go b***h I AM (COMPARATIVELY) FABULOUS talk2hand
I don't care if they think I'm unattractive, but I'm way healthier than I used to be and I feel way better on a day to day basis and I'm damn proud of that. y u judge? Dis kinda how I feel when people comment on how thin I am...I'm like, "Of all the people with weight problems in America today, you think I'M the one with the eating disorder? Puh-leez. Bitches just jealous uh my s**t. cool oh god the whole get a sandwich thing bugs me too lol
I wish people would just stop worrying about other people's bodies. Everyone gets their own to do what they want with, and nobody enjoys being given a hard time about their choices. Even if they mean well, it's none of their damn business. Yep. Working at a Burger Joint, be assured; I've heard it many times. xd I feel like people are either Projecting their own insecurities on everyone else, trying to make themselves feel more 'perfect', or they just have an idea of what everybody should look like, and are basically doing exactly what Mainstream Media has been doing since the 80's..... I think that's exactly what it is. Everything is competitive in this society, everyone has to be better than someone else to feel good about themselves. I catch myself doing it sometimes too. It's kinda sad. Haha, you have any idea how often I Lord myself over everybody around who I know isn't as smart, attractive, or talented as I am? Never say anything out loud, but I wonder if people can tell what I'm thinking by the look in my eye. I'm a b***h... sad Eh, if it makes you feel good then there's nothing wrong with it. For lots of people, though, it just becomes a constant source of low self-esteem, since while there's always going to be someone you look down on, there's also always going to be someone you look up to.
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 8:30 pm
Medeus Wantcookie Medeus Cabron LaSwan It kinda bothers me now when people try to tell me that I'm unhealthy because of my weight. I want to show them a day in the life of me in 2009 and go b***h I AM (COMPARATIVELY) FABULOUS talk2hand
I don't care if they think I'm unattractive, but I'm way healthier than I used to be and I feel way better on a day to day basis and I'm damn proud of that. y u judge? Dis kinda how I feel when people comment on how thin I am...I'm like, "Of all the people with weight problems in America today, you think I'M the one with the eating disorder? Puh-leez. Bitches just jealous uh my s**t. cool Also thinness makes you easy to give piggyback rides to! biggrin This reminds me, I should probably go for a run tomorrow. I've lost a lot of weight recently from simply not eating as much and I'd rather not begin to lose what muscle I have. I'm not exactly an ectomorph, so that'd just look a little odd on me. xd lol If only people wanted to give me Piggy Rides instead of make me fatter. xd rofl wtf is an Ectomorph!? Nah, you should let people be who they are and enjoy that as much as you can, not try to change them. xd Really? xd In guys, there are three basic body types: Ectomorph, Mesomorph, and Endomorph. Ectomorphs are usually skinny and a little lanky, though not necessarily tall. It's generally pretty difficult for them to put on weight of any sort, since they usually have pretty fast metabolisms. Mesomorphs are sort of the middle ground and the average guys. Most people would identify as this. Generally average proportions, easy to get fat if they don't watch out, but just as easy to burn it if they put forth effort. Endomorphs are kind of the opposite of Ectomorphs. They're generally kind of stocky and somehow appear shorter than they actually are. These are usually the burly guys who could throw a tree at you if so they wished, but still somehow look a little out-of-shape. It's easy for Endomorphs to put on fat and muscle, but very difficult for them to lose either. Nobody really falls directly into one of the categories. I'm somewhere between Meso- and Ecto- but fall much closer to the center, and I guess I'd say Rhed falls a little closer to Endomorph because of how people always think I'm taller when we're the same height. xd These are terms that are tossed around in both bodybuilding and illustration, so I guess I expected you to know what I meant. xd
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 8:38 pm
lol who says it's Not a constant source of low-self esteem? razz But yeah, I see what you mean. xd i have never heard those terms outside of a good Sci-fi read.
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 8:46 pm
Medeus xd i have never heard those terms outside of a good Sci-fi read. Really? xd They're kind of helpful for understanding how your body works in a general way. For instance, from what you've said I'd say you fall under Ectomorph.
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 8:49 pm
Medeus lol who says it's Not a constant source of low-self esteem? razz But yeah, I see what you mean. It doesn't have to be. Everyone's got flaws and everyone's got merits; you just don't always see them at first glance. Whenever I catch my thoughts comparing myself with someone else, I try to remind myself that behaviors I find abrasive someone else might find endearing, and that things I consider virtues someone else might consider flaws, so trying to gauge whether something is 'better' or 'worse' is pointless because it's only better or worse in my opinion.
Besides, if we all conformed to a personality archetype, life would be boring.
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 8:50 pm
Wantcookie Ectomorphs are usually skinny and a little lanky, though not necessarily tall. It's generally pretty difficult for them to put on weight of any sort, since they usually have pretty fast metabolisms. Mesomorphs are sort of the middle ground and the average guys. Most people would identify as this. Generally average proportions, easy to get fat if they don't watch out, but just as easy to burn it if they put forth effort. Endomorphs are kind of the opposite of Ectomorphs. They're generally kind of stocky and somehow appear shorter than they actually are. These are usually the burly guys who could throw a tree at you if so they wished, but still somehow look a little out-of-shape. It's easy for Endomorphs to put on fat and muscle, but very difficult for them to lose either. Nobody really falls directly into one of the categories. I'm somewhere between Meso- and Ecto- but fall much closer to the center, and I guess I'd say Rhed falls a little closer to Endomorph because of how people always think I'm taller when we're the same height. xd These are terms that are tossed around in both bodybuilding and illustration, so I guess I expected you to know what I meant. xd You callin' me fa- well i guess not actually xd No matter your weight or gender or sciencey bodytype-omorph you'll have a good amount of people who will find you physically attractive. The media bombards overweight girls cause they deviate from the stereotype, and that makes a lot of people feel they just aren't up to snuff; but you'd probably be surprised at the number of guys/girls that appreciate some extra padding, all to varying degrees. In the end its all about what you're comfortable with, personally.
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 8:51 pm
Wantcookie Medeus xd i have never heard those terms outside of a good Sci-fi read. Really? xd They're kind of helpful for understanding how your body works in a general way. For instance, from what you've said I'd say you fall under Ectomorph. Lol! Most likely. razz But yeah, I do not lie... Also, that avatar is Genius! @_@ Im stealing that for the Match thread. lol
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 8:52 pm
Cabron LaSwan Medeus lol who says it's Not a constant source of low-self esteem? razz But yeah, I see what you mean. It doesn't have to be. Everyone's got flaws and everyone's got merits; you just don't always see them at first glance. Whenever I catch my thoughts comparing myself with someone else, I try to remind myself that behaviors I find abrasive someone else might find endearing, and that things I consider virtues someone else might consider flaws, so trying to gauge whether something is 'better' or 'worse' is pointless because it's only better or worse in my opinion.
Besides, if we all conformed to a personality archetype, life would be boring. This is true too. Which is why I find it extremely self-defeatist to go out looking for people to 'love me for who I am'. I wonder if people who say that actually KNOW 'who they are', and I wonder if they would be surprised by the people who end up loving them for the reasons that they do...... o-O did that make sense? lol
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 8:56 pm
Medeus Also, that avatar is Genius! @_@ Im stealing that for the Match thread. lol It is? It isn't as great as I'd like it to be, but alright. xd
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 9:02 pm
Wantcookie Medeus Also, that avatar is Genius! @_@ Im stealing that for the Match thread. lol It is? It isn't as great as I'd like it to be, but alright. xd Well, the Item-Match is a really good one. 3nodding Trust me.
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 9:05 pm
Medeus Cabron LaSwan Medeus lol who says it's Not a constant source of low-self esteem? razz But yeah, I see what you mean. It doesn't have to be. Everyone's got flaws and everyone's got merits; you just don't always see them at first glance. Whenever I catch my thoughts comparing myself with someone else, I try to remind myself that behaviors I find abrasive someone else might find endearing, and that things I consider virtues someone else might consider flaws, so trying to gauge whether something is 'better' or 'worse' is pointless because it's only better or worse in my opinion.
Besides, if we all conformed to a personality archetype, life would be boring. This is true too. Which is why I find it extremely self-defeatist to go out looking for people to 'love me for who I am'. I wonder if people who say that actually KNOW 'who they are', and I wonder if they would be surprised by the people who end up loving them for the reasons that they do...... o-O did that make sense? lol I don't believe anyone truly knows who they are. No matter how introspective you might be, there's always a blind spot that you won't notice until someone points it out.
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 9:05 pm
Wantcookie Medeus Cabron LaSwan Medeus lol who says it's Not a constant source of low-self esteem? razz But yeah, I see what you mean. It doesn't have to be. Everyone's got flaws and everyone's got merits; you just don't always see them at first glance. Whenever I catch my thoughts comparing myself with someone else, I try to remind myself that behaviors I find abrasive someone else might find endearing, and that things I consider virtues someone else might consider flaws, so trying to gauge whether something is 'better' or 'worse' is pointless because it's only better or worse in my opinion.
Besides, if we all conformed to a personality archetype, life would be boring. This is true too. Which is why I find it extremely self-defeatist to go out looking for people to 'love me for who I am'. I wonder if people who say that actually KNOW 'who they are', and I wonder if they would be surprised by the people who end up loving them for the reasons that they do...... o-O did that make sense? lol I don't believe anyone truly knows who they are. No matter how introspective you might be, there's always a blind spot that you won't notice until someone points it out. Probably true. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 9:50 pm
Medeus Cabron LaSwan Medeus lol who says it's Not a constant source of low-self esteem? razz But yeah, I see what you mean. It doesn't have to be. Everyone's got flaws and everyone's got merits; you just don't always see them at first glance. Whenever I catch my thoughts comparing myself with someone else, I try to remind myself that behaviors I find abrasive someone else might find endearing, and that things I consider virtues someone else might consider flaws, so trying to gauge whether something is 'better' or 'worse' is pointless because it's only better or worse in my opinion.
Besides, if we all conformed to a personality archetype, life would be boring. This is true too. Which is why I find it extremely self-defeatist to go out looking for people to 'love me for who I am'. I wonder if people who say that actually KNOW 'who they are', and I wonder if they would be surprised by the people who end up loving them for the reasons that they do...... o-O did that make sense? lol Sorta. I don't agree with entering a relationship for the sake of being loved in the first place; generally that comes hand in hand with jealousy, bitterness, revenge.
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 9:57 pm
Cabron LaSwan Medeus Cabron LaSwan Medeus lol who says it's Not a constant source of low-self esteem? razz But yeah, I see what you mean. It doesn't have to be. Everyone's got flaws and everyone's got merits; you just don't always see them at first glance. Whenever I catch my thoughts comparing myself with someone else, I try to remind myself that behaviors I find abrasive someone else might find endearing, and that things I consider virtues someone else might consider flaws, so trying to gauge whether something is 'better' or 'worse' is pointless because it's only better or worse in my opinion.
Besides, if we all conformed to a personality archetype, life would be boring. This is true too. Which is why I find it extremely self-defeatist to go out looking for people to 'love me for who I am'. I wonder if people who say that actually KNOW 'who they are', and I wonder if they would be surprised by the people who end up loving them for the reasons that they do...... o-O did that make sense? lol Sorta. I don't agree with entering a relationship for the sake of being loved in the first place; generally that comes hand in hand with jealousy, bitterness, revenge. you should see what kind of people frequent Online Dating sites....
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 10:07 pm
Medeus Cabron LaSwan Medeus Cabron LaSwan Medeus lol who says it's Not a constant source of low-self esteem? razz But yeah, I see what you mean. It doesn't have to be. Everyone's got flaws and everyone's got merits; you just don't always see them at first glance. Whenever I catch my thoughts comparing myself with someone else, I try to remind myself that behaviors I find abrasive someone else might find endearing, and that things I consider virtues someone else might consider flaws, so trying to gauge whether something is 'better' or 'worse' is pointless because it's only better or worse in my opinion.
Besides, if we all conformed to a personality archetype, life would be boring. This is true too. Which is why I find it extremely self-defeatist to go out looking for people to 'love me for who I am'. I wonder if people who say that actually KNOW 'who they are', and I wonder if they would be surprised by the people who end up loving them for the reasons that they do...... o-O did that make sense? lol Sorta. I don't agree with entering a relationship for the sake of being loved in the first place; generally that comes hand in hand with jealousy, bitterness, revenge. you should see what kind of people frequent Online Dating sites.... I frequent the Chatterbox and have a sister with zero self-esteem. I've seen so much of those kinds of people that I think it's partially what scared me away from romance.
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