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 Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 12:51 pm
i am the opposite end of that age range - i am 21 years old. and i''ve seen it all, bicurious, terndy bi''s for attention, confusion of ones sexuality and all that. I truly am bisexual so I hate trendy bi girls who just think itll make their boyfriends hot, and I''m sorri but I dont think you can truly know what it is unless you''ve experienced something sexual with the other person. You can''t just say you are, some people I know have said that and then kissed a girl and been flipped out or turned off. But as far as are we REALLY bisexual? well I''d like to say I am! I realized it when I was 14. I had a sleepoever with my best friend at the time and in the middle of the night she started touching me and kissing me. well it didnt go all the way then but as far as it did go i didnt stop it. then i changed schools at 15 with another friend of mine who i ended up kissing at a party. however we are still friends to this day and even though she didnt mind me kissing her shes as straight as an arrow biggrin when I was 16 in the summer after 10th grade I slept with my first girl. We were together about 6 months and i even lived with her one of those months cos her parents were away. the guy I was with at the time was a creep so I left him for her. then i had various other girlfriends in high school, and at 17 thought i fell in love with this girl Julaine. well i slept with her but i wa sher first girl so she freaked and disappeared, later she wanted to be with me again but i said no cos shed hurt me already because she really DIDNt know what she wanted at the time. then senior year when i was 18 i met the girl of my dreams...her. She''s in my sig, so 4 years later we are together now but there was a chunk of time where things ere bad and we didnt speak. I am engaged now and going on 5 years with myfiance, he respects my sexuality (although weve been thourgh a lot together and it first it did cause some problems) and he knows about Sara and she has a long-term bf as well. So everything is out in the open and understood. i care for her a lot, and while I will always be attracted to women I am still completely in love with my male fiance and i DO want to spend my life with him. We''ve been living together for 2 years now, first in an apt. and now we have a townhouse looking fwd to a home <3 IM PROUD AND IM HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! go sexi ladies! <3 
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Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 7:23 pm
i kinda always have liked girls and guys but then with all the sociaty BS we have to go through if we like the same gender i just act straight a lot of the time RL even though i like girls way more heart sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Sep 03, 2005 2:43 pm
lol believe me its RARE a girl will get hassled for liking other girls more then a guy would for liking guys gotta love that double standard bullshit biggrin erggg duntcha love society biggrin
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Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 7:02 pm
it's quite weird for me at the moment, I'll admit that I'm pretty new and confused to bisexuality but I feel that looking back my long 13 years of life (yes I'm being sarcastic) that it makes perfect sense that I'd have leaning to both genders and that I really don't care about fitting into hetro or homo. But time will tell I guess with me but I'm pretty sure that I'm actually bi and not just kidding myself
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Posted: Thu Oct 13, 2005 2:06 pm
I've been bi before I even joined this site and i'll stay that way until I get older or never change.
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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 12:22 pm
Same here ,granted I'm only fourteen and this has only been my ....first year I think, being well knowing I was bi. I honestly haven't done ANYTHING just yet, but I do know one guy that I like ,and I'd so ask him out if I wasn't currently with my girlfriend. Ah well, I consider it that people have a pretty good grasp on what they know and are attracted to, so I know that this is how I am, and I could honestly care less what other people think or say. Though the harder part about this, is that even if you are a guy who happens to like other guys, most of them have it so drilled in that "YOU MUST LIKE GIRLS!!!!". Which, really doesn't help, at all
-__-;;. They even tend to be the most homophobic, which really really sucsk, most girls acdept it, and most guys say "Ew!" or probe you about who you like and who you would do. But, I do hope by the end of highschool I'll have atleast kissed and/or made out with a guy, which is kinda goal of mine 3nodding (Though I doubt that since I haven't even made out with my girlfriend yet -__-;; )
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Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 6:29 am
Hello. Bisexual-ish. More towards the guys, but right now I'm dating a girl... heart 3nodding and I'm all 15-ness now...
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Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 3:54 pm
xX.Lina.Xx i kinda always have liked girls and guys but then with all the sociaty BS we have to go through if we like the same gender i just act straight a lot of the time RL even though i like girls way more heart sweatdrop Yes! That is how I am! Most of my friends are homophobes and hate that stuff so I go out with guys I don't like(ho are my friends) so that nobody will think I am bi. I wanna tell him but I am afraid I will be rejected and disliked, but about 3 of my friends are okay with it. I am lying to my friends and myself, though I did tell my parents and they said "That's great honey. At least if you don't like one side you can be with the other!" I had this girlfriend over this summer and we kissed, hugged, touched each others asses for jokes and just cared about each other. Her older brother used to be mean to her. (knowing ya'll I was at her house for 3 weeks and we fell in love and hid it from her parents. Anyways, one day her brother held a pan above her and I protected her, in the end getting my arm hurt doing so. I loved her with my heart, but her mom found out and sent me on my way. I was never allowed back and she forgot and acted like it neverhappened at school. That hurt me the most. I cried every night at the fact that she said that to me. I still cry sometimes and it hurts sharing the story right no, but I know for sure I am bi and proud, and I will never forget her....She got a boyfriend and is happy and I am happy for her though I am alone and with nobody. All I wish her is the best.
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Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 2:46 pm
I never knew I was Bi until I knew that there was such a thing and i knew the definition. Which...was...about....a year ago. (im 14) so yeh. im t3h bi. *raises hand-zor* Teh Me:  I am lookiong for teh BF/GF PM me if you want to... or not... w/e... *waits*
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Posted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 2:45 pm
-raises hand obiediently- I'm bi because my very first love was female, but she was taken away from me. I grew up thinking being a lesbian was something totally different from what I had experienced as a child. Because if something seems so right, then this idea of 'dykes' must not have been what I experienced. It took a surprising long amount of time for me to accept my sexuality. And not only accept...but embrace.
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 8:29 pm
Pimp Jones Another interesting way to think of it. Perhaps everyone is, to some small extend at least, attracted to those of the same gender. Even if it's the smallest bit. It would make sense, I suppose. What I talked about, the influences have people become bi/whatever could instead just be getting that person to accept what they felt for what it is. Then it... Ah, damn. It's too late for me to be thinking like this. ^ I understand what hes saying, though. I, in fact, partially think that this is just a phase I am going through. I'm not out yet because I'm not completely sure what I want. My first thought of questioning myself whether I was straight or not came about 2 years ago, when I was 14 years old and spent a fantastic day alone with my best friend. We sat in the sun together in front of a buddist shrine, sharing a popsicle and laying on each other, almost sleeping. I have always cared for her but that day I realized how much I loved her and how much I loved spending time with her. (It's sad that she's a homophobe. sad I would risk it and tell her how much I love her if it werent for the promise I made her one night about never hurting her - she was going through a break up.) But loving her doesnt really make me homosexual, right? Its probably just because we've been friends for so long... however, I then started thinking about how I look at other girls sometimes... Their slender legs and soft shiny hair... But even so, I still partially believe I may not be bi, thinking that I look at other girls in envy, not lust. The first and only people that I was ever to announce that I was bi were the people of Gaia... but, in truth, I wanted to be bi. I heard how males love when girls make out together and I wanted to be bi so I could say, 'Hey, I'll kiss a girl and kiss you too!' Wow, that sounds dumb, which it is, especially because I probably wont ever tell anyone I think I'm bi... but hey, what can I say? I have a strange mind... So the point is, my sexuality may have been started by what others say and despite how much I care for my friend and how much I like watching the other girls, it might just be a phase... Of course, it might not. wink
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Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 1:33 pm
the question about sexuality is simple. You either know or you don't. If you know you like men then fine. If you know that you like women, fine too. If you like both, good as well. I was Catholic. So it was hard growing up with homosexual tendecies. I felt horrible about myself and blocked it out. It wasn't until I recognized that I was bi that I felt free. Suddenly all those past experiences I had blocked away came back. I have a gf right now and I'm very happy with her. And if the question of wether I've had some experience with men comes up, yes I have. I do have to say that lean more towards women. But men are fun too. It's kinda weird. If I am with a girl, I'm still kinda feminine but not so much. (She says I'm 2/3 girl). But when I'm with men, I become very feminine. I want things that are usually thought of feminine things. I'm sure of my sexuality, even if I still feel the stigma from my Catholic upbringing.
I'm Bi and I'm proud of it.
ps. I was Bi before I joined Gaia
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Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 1:53 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 6:00 am
I've known i've liked girls forever and just rescently admitted it to myself but i'm still rocky on the bi/lesbian issue.
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Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 10:24 am
Hm. I'm either gay or bi.
I usually just say I'm bi, because I have had physical and emotional attractions towards girls. I think I just like guys more.
I'm pretty confused.
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