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[Lord Kamahl]

SunshineDaisyGirl

The Almighty Ali

SunshineDaisyGirl

Ali-- i might need you to come over here and kick some idiot a**! i am so over the way they are treating my baby!

Let me guess, Bullies?

And Is it physical like kicks, punches, chokeholds, shoves?
Or psychological like name calling, rumors etc.?


If it is the first mention then you might want to consider enroll the kids into a basic self defense class, not with the goal that now he can beat them up but rather that he can end a fight someone else starts. It's also a good thing to know and tend to be a fun activity.
Like Kumouri says, it's the exact same thing my father told me when I was bullied. Let him know that starting a fight is wrong, but if someone attacks him and he defends himself then you ain't gonna get angry with him. It will likely result in a suspension from school the day he does defend himself, it sure happened when I did, Which is a consequence that you might then need to explain to him but the bullies ought to, if not stop, then atleast dial down their harrassment.

If it's the second mentioned however then the best defense is to ignore it and/or simply laugh and shrug it off. If you don't react then you ain't giving the bullies the reaction they want, which in most cases will lead to them stopping cause they're not getting the result they want. Let him know that not giving a ******** what some random people think of him is not a bad thing, because it really doesn't matter what someone besides their friends and family think of them.

it started last year as verbal but escallated to her being hit not only with hands but also objects. then i started getting verbally threatened by a mother who abuses her children verbally and it is well known. i called the school they refused to do anything and did say that the other woman's kids were 90% of the problem, but they couldn't do anything and that madison would be reprimanded at school for standing up for herself. i pulled her off of the bus and she's not been back on it. i continue to get cussed out and people jump out in front of my car when i am driving down the street. i cannot wait to get out of here !

Dear lord, I would of been at the school cussing out the principal and threating to get the news to the school  

[Kumouri-kun]

SunshineDaisyGirl

The Almighty Ali

SunshineDaisyGirl

Ali-- i might need you to come over here and kick some idiot a**! i am so over the way they are treating my baby!

Let me guess, Bullies?

And Is it physical like kicks, punches, chokeholds, shoves?
Or psychological like name calling, rumors etc.?


If it is the first mention then you might want to consider enroll the kids into a basic self defense class, not with the goal that now he can beat them up but rather that he can end a fight someone else starts. It's also a good thing to know and tend to be a fun activity.
Like Kumouri says, it's the exact same thing my father told me when I was bullied. Let him know that starting a fight is wrong, but if someone attacks him and he defends himself then you ain't gonna get angry with him. It will likely result in a suspension from school the day he does defend himself, it sure happened when I did, Which is a consequence that you might then need to explain to him but the bullies ought to, if not stop, then atleast dial down their harrassment.

If it's the second mentioned however then the best defense is to ignore it and/or simply laugh and shrug it off. If you don't react then you ain't giving the bullies the reaction they want, which in most cases will lead to them stopping cause they're not getting the result they want. Let him know that not giving a ******** what some random people think of him is not a bad thing, because it really doesn't matter what someone besides their friends and family think of them.

it started last year as verbal but escallated to her being hit not only with hands but also objects. then i started getting verbally threatened by a mother who abuses her children verbally and it is well known. i called the school they refused to do anything and did say that the other woman's kids were 90% of the problem, but they couldn't do anything and that madison would be reprimanded at school for standing up for herself. i pulled her off of the bus and she's not been back on it. i continue to get cussed out and people jump out in front of my car when i am driving down the street. i cannot wait to get out of here !

At this point I'd start letting these people know you're looking to pursue legal action for their various offences. That has a tendency to get people to think twice about their own actions.  

[The Almighty Ali]

SunshineDaisyGirl

The Almighty Ali

SunshineDaisyGirl

Ali-- i might need you to come over here and kick some idiot a**! i am so over the way they are treating my baby!

Let me guess, Bullies?

And Is it physical like kicks, punches, chokeholds, shoves?
Or psychological like name calling, rumors etc.?


If it is the first mention then you might want to consider enroll the kids into a basic self defense class, not with the goal that now he can beat them up but rather that he can end a fight someone else starts. It's also a good thing to know and tend to be a fun activity.
Like Kumouri says, it's the exact same thing my father told me when I was bullied. Let him know that starting a fight is wrong, but if someone attacks him and he defends himself then you ain't gonna get angry with him. It will likely result in a suspension from school the day he does defend himself, it sure happened when I did, Which is a consequence that you might then need to explain to him but the bullies ought to, if not stop, then atleast dial down their harrassment.

If it's the second mentioned however then the best defense is to ignore it and/or simply laugh and shrug it off. If you don't react then you ain't giving the bullies the reaction they want, which in most cases will lead to them stopping cause they're not getting the result they want. Let him know that not giving a ******** what some random people think of him is not a bad thing, because it really doesn't matter what someone besides their friends and family think of them.

it started last year as verbal but escallated to her being hit not only with hands but also objects. then i started getting verbally threatened by a mother who abuses her children verbally and it is well known. i called the school they refused to do anything and did say that the other woman's kids were 90% of the problem, but they couldn't do anything and that madison would be reprimanded at school for standing up for herself. i pulled her off of the bus and she's not been back on it. i continue to get cussed out and people jump out in front of my car when i am driving down the street. i cannot wait to get out of here !

The ******** kind of place you live?
Also get a dashcam so when you eventually do hit them, you got video recording of them deliberatly jumping infront of your car.  

[SunshineDaisyGirl]

ali-- slumlord owned mobile home park. he's rolling in the dough and refuses to fix anything lives in canada.

as far as dashcam don't worry about it i just am not going anywhere. just becoming a recluse.  

[Mistress Crow Darkstryde]

Am I the only one who read that as DEATHCAM?  

[A Name of Power]

Mistress Crow Darkstryde

Am I the only one who read that as DEATHCAM?

Cannot unsee. lol

And, imho, look into a restraining order. Even if it's declined, there's a paper trail.  

[Kumouri-kun]

SunshineDaisyGirl

ali-- slumlord owned mobile home park. he's rolling in the dough and refuses to fix anything lives in canada.

as far as dashcam don't worry about it i just am not going anywhere. just becoming a recluse.

*HUGS* don't become a recluse, it's no fun.  

[Lord Kamahl]

I lived thru hurricane Matthew, my home only had a hole the size of a softball, so I think I came out good.  

[Angel Miasma Omega]

I am glad everyone made it thru Hurricane Matthew.  

[Lord Kamahl]

'Run nude thru chat'  

[Lord Kamahl]

A little cold in here  

[ChaosQueen]

I keep forgetting Guilds exist. xD  

[Lord Kamahl]

Yep only Zomg died. Guilds is still trucking along.  

[Kumouri-kun]

I doubt guilds will die any time soon.  

[Lord Kamahl]

Nearly did when it first took off. So much was wrong, members stealing and kicking admins