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Plethora's right. The boyfriend my father hated so much now has his utmost respect. He still doesn't like him, but he respects him. Of course, in our case, it's taken five years and two kids, but it happened.

My father's a special breed of a*****e.

Ty. I'm still kinda creeped out by him but hey he's going to be like all the other dads so i may as well get used to it.

Yep, first time a father or step father has to deal with the boyfriend issue they kind of creep out, it gets better in time, but first time is the worst.

One of my first girlfriends father was so out of touch with reality, he and his wife were sure I was the antichrist, seriously, thats some f***ed up thinking in my opinion.

They went as far as to hang a meter and a half silver jesus on his cross on the door, on the hopes I couldnt come into their house.

So just relax and take one step at a time.

and Jak, that really sucks, try not to get caught,, K?

Haha yeah i remember my first experience meeting my wife's dad. It'd been a while since i'd seen here cause I was away for work, and i went up to the hospital to see here. The girl was so excited to see me she jumped on me, and we started kissing and stuff and all the sudden we hear "Sarah!" and we both look over and there is her mom and dad (i'm still holding her mind you, the kind of hold where her legs are wrapped around my waist and we're up against a wall) o.o needless to say it was not the greatest first impression...and plus her dad was a war vet so....me having a thick German accent wasn't the greatest either.

yeah like ten min later Sarah and her mom went down to the cafeteria to get food and i was left alone with him. As soon as they were out of ear shot he turned to me and gave me the death glare before saying the following:

Dad: "Look here boy, I don't know you, but i already don't like you. My daughter may trust you but i don't."
me: "Sir-"
Dad: "Don't interrupt me me boy! So help me god if i ever find out you so much as lay a finger on her and she doesn't like i will hunt you down and gut you like a pig. You understand me boy, or should i speak slower."
Me: "Uh, y-yes I understand Sir."
*sarah and her mother come back because she forgot her purse*
Mom: "Herman, quit scaring that poor boy, you keep doing that and you'll never have any grandchildren."
Dad: "Ah, I was just playing with the kid, right?"
Me: "Um, y-yeah, just playing...i think."

I swear that man was giving me the death glare for the rest of the night.

"so when is my turn to freak you out coming, sir?"

Sound s like a fun game to play.

As for eye contact I have found the totally opposite, and as a matter of fact i dont trust people who dont make eye contact :p

I have always had trouble looking at a ninja eyes, maybe its the all black clothing and shinny Katana thing, but they can kinda scare me while I am at my bed trying to catch some sleep :p