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 Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 7:28 am
Been there, done that. My now ex-boyfriend/fiance told me that he thought I was bisexual. It was a thought I hadn't even considered because, well, my family is full of homophobes. He told me that he'd seen the look in my eyes when I saw certain girls and he thought that it was because I had crushes on them. Well, come to find out he was right, to an extent. Now, ironically, I've been through stages where I couldn't se myself with a guy and where I couldn't see myself with a girl. And I think I've settled at I'm lesbian except for the two men I happen to be completely in love with. And me telling my family that? HA! They would just tell me I'm confused and that since I can't have either of them at the moment that I'm just looking for companionship in women.
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Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 11:16 am
There is only one way to be sure ov your sexuality, and to avoid confusion altogether: be comfortable in what you do, and actually agree with yourself.
I have never been confused or felt the confusing manner ov confusion itself - in this field ov topic anyways. The biggest difference (and I will assume the majority ov the Gaian populace in this Guild is American) is that Americans are not raised with homosexuality in their culture, yet. This is one ov the leading causes - if not the leading cause - ov confusion or unsocialization ov the homosexual 'society*.'
I, personally, have never been with any other gender other than female (and this is somewhat distracted, since I have hardly been with anyone in an enduring relationship). But I will never say I am confused, simply unsuccessful. And because I am a lesbian, and I happen to see an attractive male, does not make me 'bi-sexual' or undiligently straight.
What I suppose my underlining queury is: Why is there confusion on a topic such as sexual preference? It seems that many are attempting to stay in the white and black ov their defined 'roles.' A sexual preference is just that. No one can sum it all up. My sexual preference? I enjoy females, but that doesn't result in a 'preference,' - wholly.
Females with brown/black hair and rather pale skin will have my preference over blondes tanned into leather. Is this the preference ov all lesbians? I certianly hope not, or else there would be a lot more competition than previously bargained for.
*Note: Perhaps one ov the main reasons that America is so tied down in the fight for homosexual rights is that the homosexuals vye for differences. Your leaders or those who are believers in this movement are destroying the easiest and most beneficial advantage we could ever earn. Instead ov soveriegn rights, look for the integration ov your 'society' into 'their society.' Simply claiming the existence ov a gay society is stating immediately that homosexuals are different, but this is for a different topic on a later date.
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