Rosemary-of-the-Sun
Just a little advice...if you aren't attracted to him, break up with him as soon as possible. Pretending to be attracted to someone? Not a very nice thing to do. Even if you're only putting it off 'cause you don't want to hurt him, lying to him for months/years will only hurt more. Even if you don't come out, it's best to at least break up with him.
Second bit of advice? If he's being violent with you, demanding sexual favours from you (kissing, anything you make clear you're uncomfortable with), scaring you - please, please dump him. It's worth it to yourself. If he didn't want to be dumped he should have thought about it before doing that - even if you feel for him, continue to support him as a friend but please don't condone that behaviour, and please don't put yourself in a situation like that.
Second bit of advice? If he's being violent with you, demanding sexual favours from you (kissing, anything you make clear you're uncomfortable with), scaring you - please, please dump him. It's worth it to yourself. If he didn't want to be dumped he should have thought about it before doing that - even if you feel for him, continue to support him as a friend but please don't condone that behaviour, and please don't put yourself in a situation like that.
My ex-girlfriend got me to dump him. I'm really glad she still looks out for me ^^
I actually went out with him cause I liked him. He had a great personality, and I thought I'd try to see past the whole "male" thing. It didn't work, and the one thing I was holding onto -the personality- changed.
