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blindsided64

PostPosted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 5:20 pm


burgoobwah
i wouldn't suggest it. you guys are really young and sex should be for love not just a kiddy fling.


This is actually a smarter thing to do, your kids ,so young . But i would wait till your in love before i actually started to have sex
PostPosted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 5:01 pm


Most certainly something that should wait. I personally see 14 as entirely too young to be making those kinds of giant steps in your life.

Also: I propose that we make Butterballs wait a few posts before giving his advice, since most of the time it's right wink

Just kidding, you I luv yah

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 10:14 am


If in doubt, flop it out!

No, not really.

I wouldn't do it if I were you, she just prolly wants to find out what sex is like. If anything, she's using you.
PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 3:17 pm


burgoobwah
i wouldn't suggest it. you guys are really young and sex should be for love not just a kiddy fling.
this is what we like to call a personal opinion

not everyone has sex for love
how do you explain the whole sex before marriage argument idea

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 13, 2007 1:58 am


you might be of consenting age she is not. If she tells someone you could be in lots of trouble. I think you two should wait until she is of age and you truly know what you are doing. Love should come first then sex. The two of you have so much to lose if you are found out. The two of you should have a serious talk about what could happen of you are found out.
PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 6:25 pm


I would definetly say no. 14 is WAY too young to be having sex and being 16 if anything happens you will get charged as an adult.

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UnlovedWarior

PostPosted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 6:00 pm


no. that is BAD. You would get charged with rape even if shes willing.
PostPosted: Fri Dec 14, 2007 7:29 pm


dont, u should do it for love not because she wants to..

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BluePod

PostPosted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 10:49 am


Your worst problems aren't going to be the legal ones that's one thing I can say for sure.
As for to do or not to do . My advice, as always on these sortof things is to wait.
PostPosted: Sun May 11, 2008 1:28 am


I will say don't do it, and then explain the obvious.

14 is to young. For love, no, it's not too young in some cases, but that's not the big issue at hand.

Physical maturity is. She can be turned on, sure, and puberty may have come a few years ago, but how developed is her body? Consider how long it takes for the human genitalia to fully develop. I've heard people that are the same age as your girl talking about how she tried to have sex with her boyfriend, but couldn't because it hurt too bad. It's not the hymen, or the size of his p***s, but rather the fact that she's undeveloped.

And lets not get into the latent complications that they've found in women who become sexually active at an early age.

I can't site this information as it's come solely from discussios with people that know what they're talking about, but please, take consideration for her body for all the non-emotional reasons.

tl;dr-don't do it, for her sake.

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PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2008 8:15 pm


In this case, too much bad can come out of it. Not only is she too young physically and emotionally, but also legally. If you have doubts, you should wait.
PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 4:55 pm


I believe if your start having sex with younger girls now, Your gonna keep doing it. I have many guy friends that are 19 and still have sex with little girls. Its in your head that u want that. First if she is 14 she is still growing I'm 19 and I'm still Maturing. But 14 too young most girls barley get there period let alone sex if gonna mess 'em up later in life.
If all else fails masturbate, I think it feels better than sex. If she really wants to know abotu sex to tell to explore her own body first cause if you dont know how to please your self you cant tell someone else to.

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Pepper.Sauce

PostPosted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 1:22 am


From personal experiance I need to say ,
14 is too young to have sex at . It may hurt
her and she might not even know it . Tell her you
want to wait .
PostPosted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 8:36 am


Vannak
So.

I'm 16. She's 14. Age of censent is 16 here.

She wants to more than I do. I'm just worried about the whole 'I'm leagly able to, she isn't' thing. I'm not afraid of sex, I just don't know if it's a good idea leagaly.


Dude of course its not a good idea legally - its illegal...lol

But that's not the real question, i mean the law isnt always right and as long as u don't get caught the law doesnt come into play - thye real issue here is if both of ya'll are ready for something like that and if you are do you all really wanna do it with each other - if the answer to both of these questions is yes then u may not pass go, and oh yeh you shud use protection - having a kid at your age just aint kool

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Blueberry_Jam_Hinata

PostPosted: Wed Aug 20, 2008 2:11 pm


There's nothing wrong with safe sex, but remember, you're both very young. Especially her, and there is a chance that she's driven by the need to be more mature.

Plus, at her age, you could make her mad and she can use the consent age against you. You're old enough, but she's not. She or her parents could nail you for rape. gonk

Make sure that this is really what you both want, but to be smart, you may want to wait until you're both a little more mature.
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