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 Posted: Sat Jan 13, 2007 4:51 pm
Twack i do have a bigh friend that calimes that they can have one partner of each sex. I consider that tottal bull $h!t There are people who are polyamorous just like welcometomyhell stated in her first post at the top. I was like that, and if I could find a man and a women who didn't have a problem with it, I would do that too. It doesn't mean I'm cheating on one or the other, it just means that I'm part of a more complex relationship that needs more care and attention. I'm not saying that I don't feel as much for my boyfriend or want him less because I would like a girlfriend as well, either. I would want and love him just as much. It's just another lifestyle. Just another preference.
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Posted: Sat Jan 13, 2007 4:59 pm
rubbermuleaccount and Raeden Michelle:
I guess I'm lucky in the fact that my friends are all very accepting, loving, and supportive. Sure they may not feel the same as I do or believe in the same things, but they will listen to me and put themselves in my shoes, so-to-speak, and are able to understand what I'm saying or feeling.
I always find it odd and annoying when people say, "It's not cheating if it's with the same sex.". Unless you don't have an agreement or some form of understanding with your partner(s) then ya, it's God damn cheating! Grr.
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Posted: Sat Jan 13, 2007 10:16 pm
Raeshi Yatsura rubbermuleaccount and Raeden Michelle: I guess I'm lucky in the fact that my friends are all very accepting, loving, and supportive. Sure they may not feel the same as I do or believe in the same things, but they will listen to me and put themselves in my shoes, so-to-speak, and are able to understand what I'm saying or feeling. I always find it odd and annoying when people say, "It's not cheating if it's with the same sex.". Unless you don't have an agreement or some form of understanding with your partner(s) then ya, it's God damn cheating! Grr. My friends are accepting, loving, and supportive, but not UNDERSTANDING. They don't understand how I could feel that way about someone of my own gender. neutral But they try, so I'm not really complaining I guess lol. Oh yes. That's like a gay/lesbian saying "It's not cheating if it's with the opposite sex!" ... if my girlfriend ever kissed another person, guy or not? I'd be heartbroken when I found out either way. o___0
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Posted: Sun Jan 14, 2007 8:01 am
Being faithful has nothing to do with sexual orientation. o_o; Faithfulness is a personality trait.
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Posted: Sun Jan 14, 2007 7:32 pm
rubbermuleaccount Oh yes. That's like a gay/lesbian saying "It's not cheating if it's with the opposite sex!" ... if my girlfriend ever kissed another person, guy or not? I'd be heartbroken when I found out either way. o___0 OMG! I would kill my boyfriend if he EVER kissed another guy, or girl for that matter. However, he's definitly straight ((or, I'm 99.9% sure, because those things CAN change, lol)) so I don't need to worry about the guy-kissing-uy thing. I would be totally shredded inside.
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Posted: Sun Jan 14, 2007 7:33 pm
BakaTulip Being faithful has nothing to do with sexual orientation. o_o; Faithfulness is a personality trait. Amen to that sista!
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Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 10:51 pm
the idea of bisexuality... for me at least...
is that love has no sexuality.
its just who you fall in love with.
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 1:33 am
BakaTulip Being faithful has nothing to do with sexual orientation. o_o; Faithfulness is a personality trait. Definatly. Unfortunatly it's not one that I really have, I can be faithful, but I'd rather be in a polyamorous relationship. Because of that I'm not sure where I stand on cheating, the relationship I'm in at the moment isn't polyamous, so it would be cheating if my boyfriend did anything with anyone else, but I wouldn't care, I don't get jealous. As for the sex of that person, I don't think either would be worse, though I suppose that a boy could do stuff sexually I couldn't.
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 5:22 am
SubHumanRemains the idea of bisexuality... for me at least... is that love has no sexuality. its just who you fall in love with. Isn't that pansexuality? Please.. correct me if I'm wrong...
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 9:04 am
Raeden Michelle I agree. You CANNOT equate sexuality and faithfulness. I am bisexual (I'm female), I am engaged (to a male). My fiance told me that if I wanted to do something with a girl (even without him), he would be OK with it. He said its not cheating. HOW CAN HE BELIEVE THIS!!! This TOTALLY blew my mind! I can't do it at all because I believe that it is still cheating (even though he told me I could). I just think that is the weirdest thing. I found out, too, that there are quite a few people who believe that its not cheating if it is with the same sex...something about if its heterosexual then its a burn on the ability of your heterosexual partner...like, if I was to go to another man, I am saying that my fiance isn't good enough to satisfy me, but if I go to a woman, I am saying that my fiance can't satisfy me in the way that only a woman can, because, well, he doesn't have woman parts! I don't know..it is SO weird to me! I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU MEAN! I have a few friends who are "bi", 'n they're all "well i'd never even LOOK @ another man" but they'll make out w/ other girls 'n still think they're SO faithful. I don't even consider them "bisexual" @this point just "sexual." Being bi doesn't mean you'll do anything with anyone (that's a WHOOOOLE 'nother group) it just means your taste is more varied. For example, i like asian girls but emma watson (who iz white) is goregous lol. Now if I wuz married to emma tho, that doesn't mean i'd be cheating on her w/ asians all the time, b/c i'm not like that, 'n neither are bi people. a relationship is different than your physical taste.
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 7:47 pm
Saivanima SubHumanRemains the idea of bisexuality... for me at least... is that love has no sexuality. its just who you fall in love with. Isn't that pansexuality? Please.. correct me if I'm wrong... no its just a theory of mine about bi people... its like none of us are looking for a particular gender, its the idea of loving someone regardless of what is in their pants(or their shirts... if you want to get technical... xd ) like a long time ago when my friends and i were all kind of questioning our sexuality, instead of just thinking and sweating over a conslusion we simply decided that...our love has no sexuality. and yes faithfulness is a personality trait i would NEVER cheat on someone, doesn't matter their gender.
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Posted: Thu Feb 22, 2007 2:09 pm
SubHumanRemains Saivanima SubHumanRemains the idea of bisexuality... for me at least... is that love has no sexuality. its just who you fall in love with. Isn't that pansexuality? Please.. correct me if I'm wrong... no its just a theory of mine about bi people... its like none of us are looking for a particular gender, its the idea of loving someone regardless of what is in their pants(or their shirts... if you want to get technical... xd ) like a long time ago when my friends and i were all kind of questioning our sexuality, instead of just thinking and sweating over a conslusion we simply decided that...our love has no sexuality. and yes faithfulness is a personality trait i would NEVER cheat on someone, doesn't matter their gender. Whoo! That's definitly me in a nutshell. Sweetness for people who are alike! *hugs* Ya, cheating is horrible when it's not one of those polyamorous relationships or one that is non-exclusive. *nods* I totally agree with the love thing too. You can't ''control'', for lack of a better word, your feelings. They are what they are.
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Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:36 am
Saivanima SubHumanRemains the idea of bisexuality... for me at least... is that love has no sexuality. its just who you fall in love with. Isn't that pansexuality? Please.. correct me if I'm wrong... Sort of, but also pansexuals tend to reject the sexual binary (ie that there are only two sexes).
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Posted: Sat Feb 24, 2007 6:50 am
girl_no_13 Sort of, but also pansexuals tend to reject the sexual binary (ie that there are only two sexes). Haha, there could be so many jokes made from that... Lol. Oh, animals.
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Posted: Sat Feb 24, 2007 8:56 am
Raeshi Yatsura girl_no_13 Sort of, but also pansexuals tend to reject the sexual binary (ie that there are only two sexes). Haha, there could be so many jokes made from that... Lol. Oh, animals. Oh yes, more that one person has said to me 'so you like animals' rolleyes
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