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 Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 9:09 pm
vainwildchild ACH! i tried lots of things, even the electric tooth brush! nothing can get me to an orgasm. My boyfriend thinks hes doing something wrong, but hes doing everything right! can you help me??! It might be age, inexperience, or just something purely psychological. Try different positions, techniques, experiment with some smaller sex toys, etc etc.
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Posted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 10:04 am
vainwildchild ACH! i tried lots of things, even the electric tooth brush! nothing can get me to an orgasm. My boyfriend thinks hes doing something wrong, but hes doing everything right! can you help me??! Try relaxing more. If you are tense or stressed when trying stuff, you will probably not come. Talk to him and tell him what feels good when he touches you. Maybe you just aren't "ready" for him...as in you aren't wet enough to actually orgasm. It takes me a while to really get going and lots of "foreplay". Have him suck on you ear to get going, then move to soft touches of your breast. Try soft caresses of your c**t or hard. Just have him try things and relax while he's doing it.
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2005 6:07 pm
I've been doing outer coures and didn't even know it blaugh
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 6:09 pm
What about mutal masturbation? That certainly isn't sex. : )
As to the girl who can't orgasm... try, like ky jelly. GO SLOW and be gentle. Some people stimulate themselves differently, I enjoy a circular motion. Clitorises are very sensitive, and some people seem to assume they work like penises- the more stimulation, the better- but that isn't true. You need to build up the feeling, not get it right away.
And also... concentrate on the feeling in your c**t... tell yourself that it feels really, really, good.
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2005 12:37 pm
Lepid0ptera What about mutal masturbation? That certainly isn't sex. : ) As to the girl who can't orgasm... try, like ky jelly. GO SLOW and be gentle. Some people stimulate themselves differently, I enjoy a circular motion. Clitorises are very sensitive, and some people seem to assume they work like penises- the more stimulation, the better- but that isn't true. You need to build up the feeling, not get it right away. And also... concentrate on the feeling in your c**t... tell yourself that it feels really, really, good. Very true. You have to try all kinds of different things to really get stimulated. I find that it takes me a long time to get fully aroused with my bf and that lighter touches and brushes go further with me than do hard thrusts. After I'm really aroused he can go harder or such, but if I'm not fully aroused, I have a hard time orgasming.
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2005 8:02 am
My Boyfriend blows into my ear to be silly... what a dweebo! I love him so much!
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2005 8:04 am
wilderness.magic Lepid0ptera What about mutal masturbation? That certainly isn't sex. : ) As to the girl who can't orgasm... try, like ky jelly. GO SLOW and be gentle. Some people stimulate themselves differently, I enjoy a circular motion. Clitorises are very sensitive, and some people seem to assume they work like penises- the more stimulation, the better- but that isn't true. You need to build up the feeling, not get it right away. And also... concentrate on the feeling in your c**t... tell yourself that it feels really, really, good. Very true. You have to try all kinds of different things to really get stimulated. I find that it takes me a long time to get fully aroused with my bf and that lighter touches and brushes go further with me than do hard thrusts. After I'm really aroused he can go harder or such, but if I'm not fully aroused, I have a hard time orgasming. Me too!
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Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2005 5:35 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 04, 2005 2:11 pm
crying I have done all of this but me and my boyfriend are getting bored.. Any other suggestions? (Besides sex)
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Posted: Tue Oct 04, 2005 4:59 pm
xX I Miss You Xx crying I have done all of this but me and my boyfriend are getting bored.. Any other suggestions? (Besides sex) Experiment and try new things. You could try teasing each other with food, like whipped cream or chocoalte dipped fruits, etc. There's feathers, and light bondage. Massages, etc. Just try things that one or both of you like.
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Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 4:52 pm
Nikolita xX I Miss You Xx crying I have done all of this but me and my boyfriend are getting bored.. Any other suggestions? (Besides sex) Experiment and try new things. You could try teasing each other with food, like whipped cream or chocoalte dipped fruits, etc. There's feathers, and light bondage. Massages, etc. Just try things that one or both of you like. We experiment alot... But I cant do much with him since there is nowhere but the movies for us to be alone.. I have done everything I can think of( within reason) and everything is getting old..
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Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 9:20 pm
xX I Miss You Xx Nikolita xX I Miss You Xx crying I have done all of this but me and my boyfriend are getting bored.. Any other suggestions? (Besides sex) Experiment and try new things. You could try teasing each other with food, like whipped cream or chocoalte dipped fruits, etc. There's feathers, and light bondage. Massages, etc. Just try things that one or both of you like. We experiment alot... But I cant do much with him since there is nowhere but the movies for us to be alone.. I have done everything I can think of( within reason) and everything is getting old.. If you have to resort to having sex in a movie theatre because you "have no privacy", it's probably a good sign you shouldn't be having sex.
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Posted: Tue Oct 18, 2005 10:44 pm
My first time was in March and the next time i seen my boyfriend (in July) he preassured me into things i wasn't comfortable in doing yet. Especially not in my own home. I know i need the space and time to get used to it, but i usually run from scary things so force is needed for me to get over it sometimes.
How long can you wait until you're ready? Boyfriends get restless...Especially ones you don't see that often. It takes me a long time to get used to new things, especially things i never seen myself doing. Is there a limit to how long i should take before actually trying something?
I also have another problem...Things never seem to arouse me, unless i'm in a certain mood which i wouldn't really call "horniness" not even the certain spots on a girl that are supposed to be good never works. I think that may be why i'm having a hard time getting to the whole orgasam thing...(What is that supposed to feel like anyway?) Any suggestions?
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Posted: Wed Oct 19, 2005 1:09 am
Kittica390 How long can you wait until you're ready? Boyfriends get restless...Especially ones you don't see that often. It takes me a long time to get used to new things, especially things i never seen myself doing. Is there a limit to how long i should take before actually trying something? You can wait however long it takes for you to feel ready. There is absolutely no rush to have sex while you're a teenager, though the media and society will probably tell or make you feel otherwise. It's perfectly normal to be in your 20's and still be a virgin. If you're not ready basically, or if you don't feel ready, then don't have sex. Simple as that. If your boyfriend "can't wait", then he can masturbate, or find someone else who will give in to him. Although if he does choose to break up with you because you aren't ready for sex, or aren't ready to do sexual things with him, then that shows you he wasn't worth it in the first place. Seriously, no pressure. I didn't have sex until I was 17, and that was due to family problems and the fact that we both felt ready for it at that time. Everyone is different. If you aren't ready for sex, then that's normal, and it's not the end of the world. Kittica390 I also have another problem...Things never seem to arouse me, unless i'm in a certain mood which i wouldn't really call "horniness" not even the certain spots on a girl that are supposed to be good never works. I think that may be why i'm having a hard time getting to the whole orgasam thing...(What is that supposed to feel like anyway?) Any suggestions? It might just be you're too nervous to orgasm, or too anxious to really calm down and be "in the mood" for sex. Make sure you have set the mood, that you're comfortable, and that you have enough privacy. Trying to have sex with people in the house or someplace that makes you uncomfortable/nervous is not advised. An orgasm is often described as an "explosion of sensation", a "rush of energy" inside the body, often around the genitalia. It's hard to describe. If you look at the Sex Education 101 sticky, there should be links and/or information on what an orgasm is. smile
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Posted: Sun Oct 23, 2005 5:18 pm
I have a question about dry humping. Or really, it wasn't all that dry in my case because he had his p***s out but I kept my panties on. I mean, the semen didn't get close enough for me to worry about that particular time but for future reference, if semen got on my panties, could it go through? Is there any pregnancy risk involved there?
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