rockinatowner
lunashock
First off, this is definitely something very important to bring up with your doctor or a therapist, especially you being pregnant. You are put at risk for PPD now and definitely if you feel like doing harm to yourself, it's something to mention and try to get help ASAP.
As for the biological father of your baby, don't forget to look up the legal aspects of pursuing him for child support, just because he left you, doesn't mean he can leave that part of financially responsibility. Definitely talk to a lawyer too.
As for the biological father of your baby, don't forget to look up the legal aspects of pursuing him for child support, just because he left you, doesn't mean he can leave that part of financially responsibility. Definitely talk to a lawyer too.
Yeah my ob/gyn has found a therapist for me but now I have to get a referal before I can go.
For the father, I really don't want to push him into child support.
He doesn't even have enough money to take care of me when we used to live together.
And I'm scared that he might get joint custody.
I can't trust him cause he does pot and shrooms.
sweetie, i know how you feel...i'm an ex-cutter (clean for only 4 months) and my ex smoked alot of pot....TRUST me here when i say the odds of him getting joint custody with ANY drug in his system are slim...all they'll have to do is a drug test...he may be considered a "hazard" or something llike that to be around the child
