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 Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 7:00 am
Twack Shadow of Fantasy I would join the GSA and don't care much about what people think but you can always lie (why do we always have to lie?) and say your straight after all it is the gay straight aliance. yah but im sick of lieign thats all i've done since i found out i was gay and when i told people i lied and said i was bi its just im so F***ing sick of lieing! If you're sick of lying then don't lie anymore! This world is full of example of people who have lived on after their "outings"--so you know that it's possible! Find courage man! heart
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Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 9:32 am
Fadia Stalyr Twack Shadow of Fantasy I would join the GSA and don't care much about what people think but you can always lie (why do we always have to lie?) and say your straight after all it is the gay straight aliance. yah but im sick of lieign thats all i've done since i found out i was gay and when i told people i lied and said i was bi its just im so F***ing sick of lieing! If you're sick of lying then don't lie anymore! This world is full of example of people who have lived on after their "outings"--so you know that it's possible! Find courage man! heart courage...that what every one of my friends think i have...yeash if only they knew i guess lieing is my only option since its my only skill well i e-mailed the 9th grade counseler asking about the GSA and if they have an Anonimty rule then i'll join but if not then i'll just join some other club
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Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 3:27 pm
I'm going to join the FFCA (or was it the FLCA) which is the club for home economics I wonder if I'll find any gay poeple there it might become a mishift GSA.
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Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 7:06 pm
Well I went to the freshman meet your teacher’s thing today and I meet my teachers most where ok but then I got to my Science teacher. For the past 3 years I have hated my science teachers ever one of them, I noticed a pattern today they have all been woman. (Now its not that I hate woman it’s just a pattern I noticed) And of course my science teacher this year...a man and I have a crush on him. It’s his eyes there beautiful. I need to get rid of this ASAP he's my teacher for gods' sakes and he teaches my only honors class and I really need to pass it. Any advice on getting over crushes?
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Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 4:57 pm
Twack Well I went to the freshman meet your teacher’s thing today and I meet my teachers most where ok but then I got to my Science teacher. For the past 3 years I have hated my science teachers ever one of them, I noticed a pattern today they have all been woman. (Now its not that I hate woman it’s just a pattern I noticed) And of course my science teacher this year...a man and I have a crush on him. It’s his eyes there beautiful. I need to get rid of this ASAP he's my teacher for gods' sakes and he teaches my only honors class and I really need to pass it. Any advice on getting over crushes? Get another one wink or if your brave enough tell him how you feel and the weight might be lifted of your shoulder!
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Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 5:23 pm
Shadow of Fantasy Twack Well I went to the freshman meet your teacher’s thing today and I meet my teachers most where ok but then I got to my Science teacher. For the past 3 years I have hated my science teachers ever one of them, I noticed a pattern today they have all been woman. (Now its not that I hate woman it’s just a pattern I noticed) And of course my science teacher this year...a man and I have a crush on him. It’s his eyes there beautiful. I need to get rid of this ASAP he's my teacher for gods' sakes and he teaches my only honors class and I really need to pass it. Any advice on getting over crushes? Get another one wink or if your brave enough tell him how you feel and the weight might be lifted of your shoulder! *sigh* i wish, that would work tremendosly but its if he dosn't take it well and whinds up being homophobic, that would really suck, i know he can't tell any one though becase of the "don't ask, don't tell" poloice but unless he's the teacher watching over the GSA meetings then im most likly not going to tell him
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 8:27 pm
Most of my problems are solved yay me!
My friend i wont tell yet becase its unopurune
I broke up with my GF today
The kid thing can wait im only 14
And im joing my schools GSA becase the teacher watcing over it is a man and that means i have another homosexual man to talk to about my problems, all i have to do is stay unatracted to him which i feel will be hard damn i have f*** crush on every male teacher I have (omiting my History teacher not my type )
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 8:38 pm
Twack Most of my problems are solved yay me! My friend i wont tell yet becase its unopurune I broke up with my GF today The kid thing can wait im only 14 And im joing my schools GSA becase the teacher watcing over it is a man and that means i have another homosexual man to talk to about my problems, all i have to do is stay unatracted to him which i feel will be hard damn i have f*** crush on every male teacher I have (omiting my History teacher not my type ) I'm glad everything's working out. Just try to really focus on your work instead of one the guy teaching it, k? wink
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Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2006 6:57 pm
Twack Most of my problems are solved yay me! My friend i wont tell yet becase its unopurune I broke up with my GF today The kid thing can wait im only 14 And im joing my schools GSA becase the teacher watcing over it is a man and that means i have another homosexual man to talk to about my problems, all i have to do is stay unatracted to him which i feel will be hard damn i have f*** crush on every male teacher I have (omiting my History teacher not my type ) I'm so proud of you, that you broke up with your GF and that your joining the GSA. I on the other hand am getting worse, my hormones won't stay still and I have sexuality swings. In other words one day I think I'm gay the other Bi but never straight. I just wish I knew "who I really am" that's why mulan is my favorite disney girl or princess what ever she is!
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Posted: Tue Aug 29, 2006 5:18 pm
Shadow of Fantasy Twack Most of my problems are solved yay me! My friend i wont tell yet becase its unopurune I broke up with my GF today The kid thing can wait im only 14 And im joing my schools GSA becase the teacher watcing over it is a man and that means i have another homosexual man to talk to about my problems, all i have to do is stay unatracted to him which i feel will be hard damn i have f*** crush on every male teacher I have (omiting my History teacher not my type ) I'm so proud of you, that you broke up with your GF and that your joining the GSA. I on the other hand am getting worse, my hormones won't stay still and I have sexuality swings. In other words one day I think I'm gay the other Bi but never straight. I just wish I knew "who I really am" that's why mulan is my favorite disney girl or princess what ever she is! Thanks and, uh Mulan was the daughter of a warrior and not a pricnese(i know because i love KH)
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Posted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 9:28 am
roblem #1: First off, I need to begin by saying that I don't know how accepting your community is towards homosexuallity, but unless it's a bible-belt kind of town, I wouldn't worry about what they think if people know you're gay. I noticed you mentioned multiple times that people knowing would be a bad thing. It's who you are-- don't be ashamed of that.
You need to end the relationship. Talk to her and tell her you ARE gay, and that the relationship isn't going to go anywhere because of that. Tell her that she needs to find a guy that will actually be able to love her in a way you're unable to. Ask to remain friends. One of my exes is still my friend, and guess what: we're inseperable as friends. Good things CAN come of breaking up. Make sure you do it all in non-insulting ways. Speak softly and calmy, and apologize, but be stern at the same time.
Problem #2: Who says you still can't look at women? Hell, I'm straight and I can still voice opinions on the attractiveness of men. If you're in a band like you said, tell the other members first. That way, if he reacts to you negatively, the other members will back you up. Over a little time, he'll settle down and learn to accept it, or at least tolerate it. Will things be a little strange between? Perhaps, but won't you feel better about not having to hide under a veil of lies?
Problem #3: Society is reaching a point where homosexuallity is more and more accepted. The Generation after us (our kids) will likely be the ones to be responsible for the next major rights movement (like black rights in the 60's and 70's). You should ALWAYS go with feelings when it comes to relationships (except in cases of divorce and a few other minor things, but that's another subject). Don't marry a woman if you don't like them.
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Posted: Tue Sep 05, 2006 4:48 pm
[EDIT] ok never mind there is one YAY we just don't have our meetings till next tuseday so i have to skip art club crying but yah and i don't think my assistant pricalple who is supposed to be runiin it is anymore
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