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Yeah, I have a friend IRL who broke up via e-mail. Although I think if one's going to end a relationship, it's better to do it in real life. Using the internet is kinda rude.

chikushou: Sounds like the guy was just leading her on.

that is frighting, and via email or via txt anything is horrible. Especially the whole myspace thing now. (I have a myspace.) but I think it is getting a little out of hand for all the kids in highschool. burning_eyes

Ses, this guy does not understand what 'no' means and when I tried to see if it could work as friends, he kept insisting on seeing me by myself...on our first date he kept staring at me and down my top, squishing the life out of my hand after he asked me 15 times to hold it. Insisted on kisses. Massaged my neck and shoulders whilst walking out a narrow space ~twitch~ Put his hand on my lap trying to get it into my pants and oh, groped my a** with a jiggle wiggle effect. Sure, sounds like I didn't enjoy it, but not when it is supposed to be the first date where you suss out if the character is not a lunatic.

He also told me never to lose weight, in fact to put even more on. I am a healthy girl and sure, it was sweet at the never to lose weight. But at putting more on? Sounds like he is both obsessive and possessive (which he is still trying to communicate with me after six months). Also, after I told him about my studies (Psychology) he went on full scale "I am so sensitive and depressed woe is me!!" trip. Sure, I'm not denying anybody the chance of being depressed, even in the contemporary unclinical sense, however...I'm not qualified to provide advice firstly and secondly, I didn't have to know about his repressed childhood on the first date.

Otherwise, I am a patient person and have given it until the end of this month. If he keeps pestering me I am getting a restraining order - my adopted brother is a lawyer and would be able to help me get this right.

myspace? Yes, I'm on it. And have a background thing. But for reasons which I will outline now. Yes, this is going to make me appear to be exceptionally racist however, it seems to be that every black man from the African continent just presumes that if a white healthy-assed woman living in Africa has jungle fever and wants to attempt to populate with every one of them. I have had marriage proposals, direct declarations of how super hot I am and how I should become their friend and then "in time it'll develop into something beautiful", become their penpals and then "in time it'll develop into something beautiful" sweatdrop oh, and the favourite, the messages going on about what specific dreams that have had with me and how they would like to be my friend and then "in time it'll develop into something beautiful" scream This is also extended to Asian men as well as Black African-Americans who think of the whole "whoa! White lady in Africa MUST want all the black cocks in the world!! Lemme try and shove it in her face..yeah.." scream evil I have NEVER even seen these idiots online NOR have communicated with them. Or have it on my profile that suggests that I want to be pelted by black cocks left right and centre. stressed

This is to say, that I have no problem with dating any person, even if they are purple. I had a mixed race boyfriend who was utterly divine before he went on about his other girlfriend coming back from a kibbutz sweatdrop I have resorted making myspace thingymajigger look dark and scary as well as put a cartoon picture up. It is working! I am a happier human being!! The declarations of love have reduced from 15 a month to none! INSTANTLY! The only reason why I HAVE myspace is to keep in contact with one or two friends, meet some South Africans with some sense of internet communication as well as stay connected with local kickass bands. I apologise how my post appears to be, but myspace gave me the stone-needle-s**t-fits ninja