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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 6:58 pm
TearsofRavens And if one more person makes a lagit thread and ends it with this I am SERIOUSLY going to cry. Were not mean! Dosent anyone understand that?! crying I know! I don't know why people think that we're so mean...we aren't, really! As long as people read the rules and stick by them, then we'll get along just fine...we are a loving group and we're not about to shun someone who is hurting. Since it seems that there is nothing you can do to change the situation, then maybe you could start writing him letters and saving them in a box/folder until you can see him and then if you are still both interested/free to be with eachother, than give him the letters to let him know how much you've missed him *plus writing is theraputic 3nodding *. Right now you need to focus your time on other things...join a few after school groups or anything just so you are keeping yourself busy and not spending all of your time moping...you need to keep active...distraction will help the time fly faster. Once again I am very sorry that this happened... sad *huggles*
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 7:09 pm
*hugs* Just go behind his parents back.
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 10:12 pm
Shogun Gari Plus, they can't sue you unless you harmed him somehow, or commit criminal acts against them. I say let karma beat them down with a metal bat. I think she was probably meaning somewhere in the area of a restraining order...which in MY opinion, is completely uncalled for, unless someone was stalking him or meant him harm, which we know she doesn't heart
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Posted: Mon Sep 20, 2004 5:16 am
Skad_for_Life See, Fuzzy, it's only his family that wants to split us up. She never liked the 2-1/2 yr. age difference. She also found out that we had sex. But the worst thing is that she is using my past against me. She says I'm a bad influence, and that she would be a neglectful parent to allow us to speak anymore. My parents and I have no choice except to go along with it. She says if I attempt to contact him, she will seek legal action against me. Wow.. this is my ex and me all over again. (His mom said some horrible things about me when she thought I couldn't hear, and he didn't say a damn thing in my defence. And he KNEW I could hear them talking.) :: wrinkles her nose :: No worries, sweetie, you will get through this. Love hurts, and all that, but you're a strong person. Anyone can tell that, easily. For the time being... they can't force you to stay away from Isaac's brother, unless he's got a retraining order against you. So if I were you, I'd continue to talk to him... you can use him as a messenger, between you and Isaac, if he's up for it.
On the other hand, however... if Isaac willingly gave up your secrets, and did betray your trust... the best thing for you to do is to get over him. I know it's hard, but sometimes you have to say "******** you, World!" and do what's best for -you-, and you -alone-. I know if I could go back, I would have left my ex... instead of suffering with him for a year.
We're all here for ya, though, it would seem... and I'm sure everyone here will support you and help you through this tough time. <3
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Posted: Mon Sep 20, 2004 8:11 am
Skad_for_Life See, Fuzzy, it's only his family that wants to split us up. She never liked the 2-1/2 yr. age difference. She also found out that we had sex. But the worst thing is that she is using my past against me. She says I'm a bad influence, and that she would be a neglectful parent to allow us to speak anymore. My parents and I have no choice except to go along with it. She says if I attempt to contact him, she will seek legal action against me. What can she do? Arrest you for loving someone? stare I SAY SCREW WHAT SHE SAYS AND BE WITH YOUR LOVER!!! stressed
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Posted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 5:50 pm
MamaCatt Shogun Gari Plus, they can't sue you unless you harmed him somehow, or commit criminal acts against them. I say let karma beat them down with a metal bat. I think she was probably meaning somewhere in the area of a restraining order...which in MY opinion, is completely uncalled for, unless someone was stalking him or meant him harm, which we know she doesn't heart Restraining orders are used in a case-by-case basis. I doubt any judge would be against you. Actualy, if she tries to say you are a bad influence, you can threat her saying you'll sue her for difamation.
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Posted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 6:28 pm
DwarfPriest MamaCatt Shogun Gari Plus, they can't sue you unless you harmed him somehow, or commit criminal acts against them. I say let karma beat them down with a metal bat. I think she was probably meaning somewhere in the area of a restraining order...which in MY opinion, is completely uncalled for, unless someone was stalking him or meant him harm, which we know she doesn't heart Restraining orders are used in a case-by-case basis. I doubt any judge would be against you. Actualy, if she tries to say you are a bad influence, you can threat her saying you'll sue her for difamation. Or say the same to her. Parents should not separate true love unless they have a good reason to. Do they? Have you done anything suspicious, criminal, or inhumane recently? I doubt it... Of course, my parents are forcing me to find a girlfriend just so they can get grandchildren, so what do I know? neutral
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