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Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 5:16 pm

Sylphi

So you want your wedding night to be awkward and painful for your partner? How... nice. I mean, I totally go for men who want to hurt me. stare

*wave white flag*

Calm down, there. Everyone has a right to believe what they to, that's one of the few things America has left thats good. If they want to be on an equal level of expereince on their first night, then so be it. Let them be.

Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 6:31 pm

And I have a "right to believe" that wanting to physically harm your partner on your wedding night is sick and perverted.

I'm not stopping them from wanting or doing anything. I'm pointing out that he wants to hurt another human being.

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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 2:44 am

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Leave it to Sylphi to hit my point of view as a male crossplayer...

However, it's a case of some rape victims wanting to suppress the memories. For these individuals, a lack of physical evidence can help them do this, and make their life much more tolerable.

Heh. ^_^

The hymen or lack thereof really isn't physical evidence anyway, because you can't see or feel or otherwise interact with it at all unless you're sticking things up your v****a.

Suppressing memories is a bad idea.

It happened to me. The last thing in the world I was sitting there caring about was 'oh no, an invisible chunk of tissue is torn.' And I've yet to meet anyone, ever, for whom that was remotely a concern.

Doesn't mean that such people don't exist... but it means that the trigger is something other than rape.

I was taught that the hymen is at the vaginal opening and is viewable.

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Only if your back is reaaaaaaaaly damn flexible.

What? I could see mine with a hand mirror. confused

Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 6:39 pm

well i am a guy virgin who can't get a girl to have sex with me no matter what i do i have tried lots of different types of girls and they all make up dumb exuses not not date/have sex with me so i am about ready to go get a damn prostitute and say screw this and risk the std's

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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 7:06 pm

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well i am a guy virgin who can't get a girl to have sex with me no matter what i do i have tried lots of different types of girls and they all make up dumb exuses not not date/have sex with me so i am about ready to go get a damn prostitute and say screw this and risk the std's

Er...I think you're missing the point.

If you just want to "stick it in" you might as well buy a fleshlight.
They're like a v****a sex toy.

If you'd like the actual wonderful experience of having consentual, loving, mutual sex, then you'll probably have to mature a little bit.

Seriously, the whole obsession about "losing your virginity" will either end up with you being disappointed, or getting the entirely wrong idea about sex.

Stick with masturbation and fantasies, and buy a sex toy if you need to stick it in somewhere, until you get a healthier attitude towards sex.

Have you thought of talking to someone (like a psychologist) about your concerns?

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