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Sasaya

PostPosted: Sun Jun 26, 2005 11:00 pm


well, I'm 16 and I am with my second boyfriend. he's kind of scared of me ( gonk ) but that's okay because at least he doesn't pressure me for sex like my last boyfriend did. No, I didn't give in and when he wouldn't listen, I told him to go to hell. but I didn't like him that much, so I never kissed him or anything. (i only thought of him about once a week, since we went to different schools)

I haven't been with my current boyfriend for very long, but I've known him since 6th grade (we're going into 11th now) and he really likes me. Really. I would not lose my virginity until I am out of high school at least, because most of my friends are not virgins anymore and it brings nothing but trouble to them (they can't seem to stop, to me at least)

anyway, yeah, I love my boyfriend, and he loves me, but I wouldn't get myself in over my head unless I was sure I was ready, and the thought of sex right now scares me. (i figure, if it seems completely embarrassing, then I'm not ready for it)

sorry for my boring story, though
PostPosted: Sun Jun 26, 2005 11:02 pm


Thanks for sharing. heart 3nodding

Nikolita
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Niarah Z`Ress

PostPosted: Mon Jun 27, 2005 9:34 pm


Alright then, I might as well share too.

My sexual history has been somewhat uneventful. I'm currently 21 and living with my boyfriend of about a year and a half. He is my first boyfriend, and we lost our virginities to each other not two months after we started seeing each other. I had always held my virginity as something extremely important to me, I also had no interest in dating anyone until I met him when I was 19. We met at work, and I beat him to the punch and asked him out. We've been inseperable since, and if we had the means financially we'd be married by now. I was nervous about him moving in because I didn't want it to ruin our relationship, but it's been so wonderful, not easy, but still definately wonderful. His elder sister just gave birth to her second child with her husband of nearly 9 years, and they got married after knowing each other for only three months! All I can say is I knew him when I saw him, no other guy drew me to him like he did, I'd been dreaming about him all my life, it feels like destiny, and I never want it to end.
PostPosted: Sun Jul 03, 2005 8:25 pm


Well, I dont have many life experiences. I'm a freshamn in highschool, I'm 14, and in a long term relationship, with a guy who I love. I know, you may ask how I love him and you may say that it cant be long term, I disagree. I've dated him for 3 months, 4 on the 10th. We plan on being together for a long time. I love him and he loves me. I had all my firsts with him, my first kiss, my first PDA, my first love. Even though I dated 3 guys before him. The first one was a nice guy, but he thought I cared to much about school. The second was a scuzbag, who broke up with me to date my friend, and then broke up with her because he wasnt getting any, and the last one was a horny b*****d who was just a giant a**. They all broke up with me, and that was ok, cuz we're better off friends. 'Sept for the second one, he still treats me like dirt and I hate him for it, but it made it better when my dad wanted to run over him when he was hitch hiking sweatdrop . I havent had alot of stuff happen to me I guess. I have O.Ded on menstral pain killers the weekend after my birthday, then having my mother leave me, my sister, and my dad high and dry the following Wednesday. I came in realy danger of getting melested/raped by one of my moms friends. When my sister stole her cell phone and looked at her text messages and found some scary cybering with guys and one of her friends wanting to pop my cherry so I would act different, then told my dad, who told her, she left. That was about 2 months ago. And its hard to get older when you dont have a mother. The thing is, a week before the O.Ding, we went to the doctors and they said that putting me on birth control would stop the heavy flow and screaming bad cramps, but my mother didnt want that. Then I got yelled at when I had to go to the emergency room. So I guess alot of stuff has happend to me. I have never used drugs or alcohol to run from my problems. I was just impactient with the tylenol, midol, ibuprofen, 2 differnt kinds of pamprin, and something that I like to call "the mystery pill".

Nozomi Michi


Nikolita
Captain

PostPosted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 9:12 pm


I hope your medication problems get solved. smile

That said, just keep an open mind with your boyfriend. I dated my boyfriend from when we were both 16, we knew each other for many years before we dated (as friends), we had all our firsts together, and we still broke up.
I mean most relationships at your age don't last, but just go for it and make the best of it. biggrin
PostPosted: Sat Jul 16, 2005 5:28 am


I have only had two MAJOR boyfriends,
the first one I went out wiht for 19 months... It was a mutal agreement to break-up we are still Really good friends. We were each firsts (apart form sex and oral)

My current boyfriend who I love, I recently lost it to him
He cooked me dinner and we were home alone... It was quicker then I expected.... We havn't had sex since then, but lots of making out and a real moving experience (orgasm).. he was my first... But I'm about his third... And he is my worst enimey ex..

Btw, Im 16 going on 17 in October

Lilah-Clover


Nelphaelle

PostPosted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 5:17 pm


tis going to sound odd...but I'm a guy. sweatdrop I have this account so I can get away from my stresses and clear my head every now and then.

Getting to my story...

I'm going to be 22 in August...and I'm still a virgin. I have no problem admitting that. I just haven't found anyone. I don't know if I will...so I guess I'll just be okay with that for now.
PostPosted: Fri Jul 29, 2005 9:20 am


Quote:
Alright then, I might as well share too.

My sexual history has been somewhat uneventful. I'm currently 21 and living with my boyfriend of about a year and a half. He is my first boyfriend, and we lost our virginities to each other not two months after we started seeing each other. I had always held my virginity as something extremely important to me, I also had no interest in dating anyone until I met him when I was 19. We met at work, and I beat him to the punch and asked him out. We've been inseperable since, and if we had the means financially we'd be married by now. I was nervous about him moving in because I didn't want it to ruin our relationship, but it's been so wonderful, not easy, but still definately wonderful. His elder sister just gave birth to her second child with her husband of nearly 9 years, and they got married after knowing each other for only three months! All I can say is I knew him when I saw him, no other guy drew me to him like he did, I'd been dreaming about him all my life, it feels like destiny, and I never want it to end.



oh wow, thats wonderful, i hope your relationship goes on like this! i am in highschool, going into 11th, and i hope when im older i have a relationship like that,i am still a virgin, and i hope to keep it that way until i am out of school and i know when im really in love.

vainwildchild


yamyams

PostPosted: Tue Aug 02, 2005 4:35 pm


ok ill share my story and a problem
Ok i was going out with my first ever person that i had ever gona out with, it was a girl and for privisy im conna change her name to amera ok well me and amera had been going out for about 3 or 4 weeks and well cought in the moment of my mum being out and haveing the houce to our selfs we had sex, and well we enjoyed it so we kept it up always being carefull but i eventualy dumped her because i couldent be open about it so i found a bf over the inter net but any way thats my story my problem is im only 13 and my family dont know ive never told anyone
PostPosted: Wed Aug 03, 2005 1:31 am


Maybe you should tell your family?
And you can still pick up STD's from chicks, so you might want to consider going and getting tested, and then not dating until you're older. To have had sex before 13 is pretty early. neutral

Nikolita
Captain


yamyams

PostPosted: Wed Aug 03, 2005 2:24 am


Nikolita
Maybe you should tell your family?
And you can still pick up STD's from chicks, so you might want to consider going and getting tested, and then not dating until you're older. To have had sex before 13 is pretty early. neutral
i cant tell my mum coz shes totialy agenst gays and that, i enjoy dateing so i do it over the web, and we were always clean likrwashing out hands and we never rubed of each other nakid or anything
PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 7:43 pm


vainwildchild
Quote:
Alright then, I might as well share too.

My sexual history has been somewhat uneventful. I'm currently 21 and living with my boyfriend of about a year and a half. He is my first boyfriend, and we lost our virginities to each other not two months after we started seeing each other. I had always held my virginity as something extremely important to me, I also had no interest in dating anyone until I met him when I was 19. We met at work, and I beat him to the punch and asked him out. We've been inseperable since, and if we had the means financially we'd be married by now. I was nervous about him moving in because I didn't want it to ruin our relationship, but it's been so wonderful, not easy, but still definately wonderful. His elder sister just gave birth to her second child with her husband of nearly 9 years, and they got married after knowing each other for only three months! All I can say is I knew him when I saw him, no other guy drew me to him like he did, I'd been dreaming about him all my life, it feels like destiny, and I never want it to end.



oh wow, thats wonderful, i hope your relationship goes on like this! i am in highschool, going into 11th, and i hope when im older i have a relationship like that,i am still a virgin, and i hope to keep it that way until i am out of school and i know when im really in love.



Smart girl, you won't regret it, I promise you, stay true to yourself.

Niarah Z`Ress


SweetJenny

PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 8:20 pm


Hi This is MY Stuff I'm 16 almost 17! and I'm on my 11th boyfriend "Peter" he just turned 18. I had my first botfriend in the 3rd grade. and then so on but i'v only kissed 4 of them and Frenched on 2 Within the last 2 years I've started kissing. Me and Peter Started going ouy in April 8 2005 so Yeah its been almost 4 months and that a really long time the longest time I've ever had! I love him so much! He wooed me. He thought i was beautiful and sexy before we started going out. I can see my self marrying him in a few years like after college. I have had oral sex with him but That all. Hes my first of oral and I hope my first time. I'm on the patch and I've been on since june but i've been scared and hes okay with that. I can see my self bein inmate with him. I want his babys and I want to be his wife. Yep and thats Me!
PostPosted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 11:00 am


I suppose, my story as far as it goes, is that I've had a few boyfriends and nothing serious until nearly a year ago. I met my boyfriend on the internet. He lives in Canada, I live in England, we'd know each other for months before actually talking properly. We talked on MSN for a couple of weeks, then admitted we liked each other and started, well, 'dating' I suppose. We talked on the phone, and then a few weeks ago he came over to stay for a couple of weeks. I'm even more in love with him than before, and our one year is coming up on August 15th.

Fran Salaska


Fran Salaska

PostPosted: Tue Aug 16, 2005 11:52 am


One year! ^_^

Well, it was yesterday, but hey.
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