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yes, it does
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no, not really
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Krystlanna

PostPosted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 4:59 pm


I suggest you wait the full six weeks after delivery and have your doctor do the 6 week check up and ask the doctor. Then if you feel like it and can find the time take it slow and easy listen to your body and warn him you might have to call the intercourse off... but then again thereare alternatives to intercourse. I was suppost to have 6 months of bed rest and no intercourse... but my husband and I still had a healthy sex life.
PostPosted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 5:05 pm


I had a small tear and waited the 6 weeks and it didn't hurt for me....I was worried that it would but it didn't.

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Eris_Rose

PostPosted: Fri Mar 25, 2005 6:18 pm


just wait another week or so and then try and if it hurts wait a bit longer thats all i can say because so people can and other cant it just depends
PostPosted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 12:16 am


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sweatdrop boy you guys make it sound easy. anya is two now, and i still have issues with it hurting me. we have to break out the lube, just so i don't cringe. and it doesn't mater how in the mood i am... gonk


Have you asked your doctor about this? You might have something going on. When I first got married I could not have sex at all without pain. I was a doofus and didn't realize it wasn't supposed to hurt after the first time redface . It turn out I had a whole mess of problems I didn't know about. Any who I know how miserable it can be when you are unable to enjoy sex. I would strongly suggest asking about it.

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[Geisha]

PostPosted: Sat Mar 26, 2005 1:09 am


This is a topic I have been discussing with my girl friends of late as I am getting closer and closer to my due date. It seems to varry, thoes who have been through invasive births seem to say it hurts ALOT but my friends who have had natural birth with no complications say things sting a bit but once your going it's not so bad as other feelings compensate, we had a good old giggle at that xd I intend to use alot of lubricant !!
PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:22 am


Mmm, I had two tears that both developed "nuggets" of scar tissue - sex didn't hurt, so long as we didn't put any pressure on those stupid scars.

Now that it's 7 months after, the scar tissue is all soft and doesn't hurt at all any more.

I think it took me a good 8 weeks after the birth before my 2 tears felt up to the assault of having intercourse. By 4 months, it only hurt from one certain angle. By 6, no hurting at all.

^_^

Also, I too have found that orgasms from penetration are much easier after childbirth. I actually ususally have multiples now. eek heart

rhondalicious


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:27 am


This thread makes me grateful for my c-section. ._.
PostPosted: Tue Mar 29, 2005 5:33 pm


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For my first dauther I had an episiotomy and it was uncomfortable for a few years as it seems to me they tie it too much; but with the second one, the doctor fix it!!! woowwww what a difference and no more pain of any kind after
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