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DefauIt


PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 12:48 pm


Melena Rai
DefauIt
Ugghhh... why havent they invented teleporters yet?!
this would make so many things that much easier.


im sure i am stuck in the honeymoon phase and I know it'll change eventually. although I hope it doesnt. XD lol
makes me wish i had a crystal ball to know if its worth it in the end.
ninja well i think just remember to take it slow .. it feels good until reality crashes back .. slow and steady wins the race .. how far is the distance?


A few states away, so it's not as horrible as it could be I suppose. But still... emo
PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 12:50 pm


OokamixHime
DefauIt
Ugghhh... why havent they invented teleporters yet?!
this would make so many things that much easier.


im sure i am stuck in the honeymoon phase and I know it'll change eventually. although I hope it doesnt. XD lol
makes me wish i had a crystal ball to know if its worth it in the end.

The teleporters would be heaven for me

But the crystal ball would take away the important lessons you could learn in the relationship, regardless of how it ends up there are always things to learn.

I'm fairly naive in all this sweatdrop I've been in an LD for four years now (first relationship too) and we have yet to physically meet but there have been lots of video calls.


True....
I do phone calls, but have yet to try video. He's kinda shy or w/e you wanna call it so baby steps lol
rofl
I don't mind though.

I hope you get to meet soon<3333
It sounds so sweet


DefauIt



Melena Rai

Magical Phantom

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 12:54 pm


OokamixHime
DefauIt
Ugghhh... why havent they invented teleporters yet?!
this would make so many things that much easier.


im sure i am stuck in the honeymoon phase and I know it'll change eventually. although I hope it doesnt. XD lol
makes me wish i had a crystal ball to know if its worth it in the end.

The teleporters would be heaven for me

But the crystal ball would take away the important lessons you could learn in the relationship, regardless of how it ends up there are always things to learn.

I'm fairly naive in all this sweatdrop I've been in an LD for four years now (first relationship too) and we have yet to physically meet but there have been lots of video calls.
any reason you haven't met?
PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 12:54 pm


DefauIt
Melena Rai
DefauIt
Ugghhh... why havent they invented teleporters yet?!
this would make so many things that much easier.


im sure i am stuck in the honeymoon phase and I know it'll change eventually. although I hope it doesnt. XD lol
makes me wish i had a crystal ball to know if its worth it in the end.
ninja well i think just remember to take it slow .. it feels good until reality crashes back .. slow and steady wins the race .. how far is the distance?


A few states away, so it's not as horrible as it could be I suppose. But still... emo
well that depends on where you live.. a few states could be 2-3 hrs ... other locations it could be 10-20

Melena Rai

Magical Phantom

18,425 Points
  • Magical Girl 50
  • Winter Guardian 250
  • Angelic Alliance 100

Melena Rai

Magical Phantom

18,425 Points
  • Magical Girl 50
  • Winter Guardian 250
  • Angelic Alliance 100
PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 12:55 pm


DefauIt
OokamixHime
DefauIt
Ugghhh... why havent they invented teleporters yet?!
this would make so many things that much easier.


im sure i am stuck in the honeymoon phase and I know it'll change eventually. although I hope it doesnt. XD lol
makes me wish i had a crystal ball to know if its worth it in the end.

The teleporters would be heaven for me

But the crystal ball would take away the important lessons you could learn in the relationship, regardless of how it ends up there are always things to learn.

I'm fairly naive in all this sweatdrop I've been in an LD for four years now (first relationship too) and we have yet to physically meet but there have been lots of video calls.


True....
I do phone calls, but have yet to try video. He's kinda shy or w/e you wanna call it so baby steps lol
rofl
I don't mind though.

I hope you get to meet soon<3333
It sounds so sweet
is this one of your gaia husbands/fan club? xd
PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 12:57 pm


DefauIt


True....
I do phone calls, but have yet to try video. He's kinda shy or w/e you wanna call it so baby steps lol
rofl
I don't mind though.

I hope you get to meet soon<3333
It sounds so sweet


Yeah, we didn't start doing voice calls until about two or three years ago

I hope so too, we've been trying to but some setbacks this year have been making it difficult sweatdrop Which has been really wearing me down but doing my best to keep my chin up about it.

I honestly have no idea what I'm doing half the time gonk Prior relationship experience would have been helpful xd maybe

OokamixHime

Wistful Witch


OokamixHime

Wistful Witch

PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 1:02 pm


Melena Rai
any reason you haven't met?

Some set backs.
Earlier this year I thought he would be coming down to visit with his parents, but they changed their mind last minute and wanted to visit Florida instead so he had no way of getting here
Then for the past couple of months he and his parents tried to get me to visit, but my uncle would have been coming with me so it was hard to get stuff sorted out and I was trying to sort out a good flight we could both take since his parents offered to pay for my ticket but my uncle would have to get his own so thanks to lots of miscommunication on both ends that didn't' happen
So now we're seeing about him coming down here where I am instead of me going to Canada
PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 1:10 pm


OokamixHime
Melena Rai
any reason you haven't met?

Some set backs.
Earlier this year I thought he would be coming down to visit with his parents, but they changed their mind last minute and wanted to visit Florida instead so he had no way of getting here
Then for the past couple of months he and his parents tried to get me to visit, but my uncle would have been coming with me so it was hard to get stuff sorted out and I was trying to sort out a good flight we could both take since his parents offered to pay for my ticket but my uncle would have to get his own so thanks to lots of miscommunication on both ends that didn't' happen
So now we're seeing about him coming down here where I am instead of me going to Canada
so where are you from if he is from Canada? And it sounds like you guys are younger - if i am not mistaken. Things hopefully will work out and you can have more freedom to travel back and forth

Melena Rai

Magical Phantom

18,425 Points
  • Magical Girl 50
  • Winter Guardian 250
  • Angelic Alliance 100

OokamixHime

Wistful Witch

PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 1:17 pm


Melena Rai
so where are you from if he is from Canada? And it sounds like you guys are younger - if i am not mistaken. Things hopefully will work out and you can have more freedom to travel back and forth

Texas
I recently turned 23 a few weeks ago....so....it really depends on your definition of "younger"
Like I said in the first post I made, I'm fairly naive regarding this stuff sweatdrop As embarrassing as that is to admit
PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 8:00 pm


OokamixHime
DefauIt


True....
I do phone calls, but have yet to try video. He's kinda shy or w/e you wanna call it so baby steps lol
rofl
I don't mind though.

I hope you get to meet soon<3333
It sounds so sweet


Yeah, we didn't start doing voice calls until about two or three years ago

I hope so too, we've been trying to but some setbacks this year have been making it difficult sweatdrop Which has been really wearing me down but doing my best to keep my chin up about it.

I honestly have no idea what I'm doing half the time gonk Prior relationship experience would have been helpful xd maybe


Even with prior experience I find I never know what I'm doing lol XD


DefauIt




DefauIt


PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 8:02 pm


Melena Rai
DefauIt
OokamixHime
DefauIt
Ugghhh... why havent they invented teleporters yet?!
this would make so many things that much easier.


im sure i am stuck in the honeymoon phase and I know it'll change eventually. although I hope it doesnt. XD lol
makes me wish i had a crystal ball to know if its worth it in the end.

The teleporters would be heaven for me

But the crystal ball would take away the important lessons you could learn in the relationship, regardless of how it ends up there are always things to learn.

I'm fairly naive in all this sweatdrop I've been in an LD for four years now (first relationship too) and we have yet to physically meet but there have been lots of video calls.


True....
I do phone calls, but have yet to try video. He's kinda shy or w/e you wanna call it so baby steps lol
rofl
I don't mind though.

I hope you get to meet soon<3333
It sounds so sweet
is this one of your gaia husbands/fan club? xd

I does not have a fan club >///////<
Hehe
PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2016 9:26 pm


DefauIt


Even with prior experience I find I never know what I'm doing lol XD

Really? o.o

Well....I guess it does make sense that even with prior relationship experience it wouldn't' really be helpful since it would be a different person than the one from before so you'd have to adjust for that new person

OokamixHime

Wistful Witch


Melena Rai

Magical Phantom

18,425 Points
  • Magical Girl 50
  • Winter Guardian 250
  • Angelic Alliance 100
PostPosted: Thu Sep 08, 2016 8:11 am


DefauIt
Melena Rai
DefauIt
OokamixHime
DefauIt
Ugghhh... why havent they invented teleporters yet?!
this would make so many things that much easier.


im sure i am stuck in the honeymoon phase and I know it'll change eventually. although I hope it doesnt. XD lol
makes me wish i had a crystal ball to know if its worth it in the end.

The teleporters would be heaven for me

But the crystal ball would take away the important lessons you could learn in the relationship, regardless of how it ends up there are always things to learn.

I'm fairly naive in all this sweatdrop I've been in an LD for four years now (first relationship too) and we have yet to physically meet but there have been lots of video calls.


True....
I do phone calls, but have yet to try video. He's kinda shy or w/e you wanna call it so baby steps lol
rofl
I don't mind though.

I hope you get to meet soon<3333
It sounds so sweet
is this one of your gaia husbands/fan club? xd

I does not have a fan club >///////<
Hehe
ninja we meet in secret
PostPosted: Thu Sep 08, 2016 8:14 am


OokamixHime
Melena Rai
so where are you from if he is from Canada? And it sounds like you guys are younger - if i am not mistaken. Things hopefully will work out and you can have more freedom to travel back and forth

Texas
I recently turned 23 a few weeks ago....so....it really depends on your definition of "younger"
Like I said in the first post I made, I'm fairly naive regarding this stuff sweatdrop As embarrassing as that is to admit
i actually thought it might be younger since you guys have guardians coming with .. i mean it is smart to never meet someone alone but maybe you could have a friend go instead of your uncle? how old is he?

Melena Rai

Magical Phantom

18,425 Points
  • Magical Girl 50
  • Winter Guardian 250
  • Angelic Alliance 100

OokamixHime

Wistful Witch

PostPosted: Thu Sep 08, 2016 1:09 pm


Melena Rai
i actually thought it might be younger since you guys have guardians coming with .. i mean it is smart to never meet someone alone but maybe you could have a friend go instead of your uncle? how old is he?

I'm not sure if he'll have his parents come with him or not. They do the family vacation stuff so that's the reason in his case. That and they probably want to meet me themselves too
I tried to see about my friend coming before but I didn't want to make my friend feel like a third wheel so a family member was my only other option.
Who? Boyfriend?
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