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 Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2017 1:26 pm
McPhee My boyfriend and I have been living together for close to a year, now. I love him dearly, and we've been together 2 1/2 years-- my longest relationship.
Before him, I had many hookups, a couple short term relationships, and bouquet of ********. But when it's right, it happens-- and it's beautiful.
I couldn't imagine my life without him. He changed my path, and made sure that I could be safe and happy away from terrible people in my life that just pulled me down. He made it so that we could have a life together.
How long have you and your partner been together, if you have one?
If you don't have a partner, what is your longest relationship?
And, whether you're partnered or not, what are your hopes for the future?
Congrats to you and your partner! Relationships are great but never always sunshine and rainbows. There's no such thing as a PERFECT relationship. We're all human we all argue and have drama. I digress that being said I wish you the best of luck!
I am single, a year ago I ended my relationship of almost 10 years. He was my high school sweetheart. So it's been strange being a single adult in this day and age. The gay dating/romance scene is virtually non existent. Hookups galore though, that option is nice I suppose. Anyways, I see myself choosing to be single for a long time until I meet someone worth my time.
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Posted: Sun Oct 08, 2017 1:24 am
Wow this thread got intense on page 1! Also this homo rides solo dramallama
Though I'm just in love with everybody and cant pick just one heart
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Posted: Mon Nov 27, 2017 8:59 pm
Could have been, then s**t happened.
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Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2017 10:16 pm
I don't have a partner atm, but I was in a relationship for two years that went pretty sour. It's been like 5 years since then, but it was so unhealthy I still don't think I'm ready for another one! I'm hoping the next dude that comes along is nice at least! If not I'll be okay with my 2D dudes!
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Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2017 3:10 am
Sakuya Inaba I don't have a partner atm, but I was in a relationship for two years that went pretty sour. It's been like 5 years since then, but it was so unhealthy I still don't think I'm ready for another one! I'm hoping the next dude that comes along is nice at least! If not I'll be okay with my 2D dudes! Glad you got out of a bad rap, I can relate, my last one was s**t too. 2d dudes huh, you read a lot of BL novels?
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Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2017 9:05 am
Nafa Aokigahara Sakuya Inaba I don't have a partner atm, but I was in a relationship for two years that went pretty sour. It's been like 5 years since then, but it was so unhealthy I still don't think I'm ready for another one! I'm hoping the next dude that comes along is nice at least! If not I'll be okay with my 2D dudes! Glad you got out of a bad rap, I can relate, my last one was s**t too. 2d dudes huh, you read a lot of BL novels? At least when you've experienced the worst it can only get better from there! uhh I do! Just not as much! I pretty much just follow a bunch of jp artists and look at and read their stuff before and after it gets translated! If I really like it i'll buy it! Most tend to be a bit more nsfw(by demand I'd imagine), but i'll take what I can get honestly since a lot of BL and shounen ai tend to be a bit more repetitive! If you know any good Novels though send them my way please and thank you! cool
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Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2017 5:14 pm
Sakuya Inaba Nafa Aokigahara Sakuya Inaba I don't have a partner atm, but I was in a relationship for two years that went pretty sour. It's been like 5 years since then, but it was so unhealthy I still don't think I'm ready for another one! I'm hoping the next dude that comes along is nice at least! If not I'll be okay with my 2D dudes! Glad you got out of a bad rap, I can relate, my last one was s**t too. 2d dudes huh, you read a lot of BL novels? At least when you've experienced the worst it can only get better from there! uhh I do! Just not as much! I pretty much just follow a bunch of jp artists and look at and read their stuff before and after it gets translated! If I really like it i'll buy it! Most tend to be a bit more nsfw(by demand I'd imagine), but i'll take what I can get honestly since a lot of BL and shounen ai tend to be a bit more repetitive! If you know any good Novels though send them my way please and thank you! cool I know a lot of good ones, but it depends on your preferred genre, since they all have subcategories.
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Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2017 8:09 pm
Nafa Aokigahara Sakuya Inaba Nafa Aokigahara Sakuya Inaba I don't have a partner atm, but I was in a relationship for two years that went pretty sour. It's been like 5 years since then, but it was so unhealthy I still don't think I'm ready for another one! I'm hoping the next dude that comes along is nice at least! If not I'll be okay with my 2D dudes! Glad you got out of a bad rap, I can relate, my last one was s**t too. 2d dudes huh, you read a lot of BL novels? At least when you've experienced the worst it can only get better from there! uhh I do! Just not as much! I pretty much just follow a bunch of jp artists and look at and read their stuff before and after it gets translated! If I really like it i'll buy it! Most tend to be a bit more nsfw(by demand I'd imagine), but i'll take what I can get honestly since a lot of BL and shounen ai tend to be a bit more repetitive! If you know any good Novels though send them my way please and thank you! cool I know a lot of good ones, but it depends on your preferred genre, since they all have subcategories. As long it's not like shota or gore etc, I'm up for anything! Whether it's mushy gushy or whatever!
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Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2017 8:35 pm
Sakuya Inaba Nafa Aokigahara Sakuya Inaba Nafa Aokigahara Sakuya Inaba I don't have a partner atm, but I was in a relationship for two years that went pretty sour. It's been like 5 years since then, but it was so unhealthy I still don't think I'm ready for another one! I'm hoping the next dude that comes along is nice at least! If not I'll be okay with my 2D dudes! Glad you got out of a bad rap, I can relate, my last one was s**t too. 2d dudes huh, you read a lot of BL novels? At least when you've experienced the worst it can only get better from there! uhh I do! Just not as much! I pretty much just follow a bunch of jp artists and look at and read their stuff before and after it gets translated! If I really like it i'll buy it! Most tend to be a bit more nsfw(by demand I'd imagine), but i'll take what I can get honestly since a lot of BL and shounen ai tend to be a bit more repetitive! If you know any good Novels though send them my way please and thank you! cool I know a lot of good ones, but it depends on your preferred genre, since they all have subcategories. As long it's not like shota or gore etc, I'm up for anything! Whether it's mushy gushy or whatever! Heart String is a pretty interesting one, if youre into mafia sub stories.
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Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2017 10:02 am
I have myself a mans. We've been together for about 9 months now, which would be my longest relationships.
My hopes for the future are rather bleak right now but only because of our living/financial situation at this moment. There's a lot of things not entirely in our control at this moment and they're also not things quickly resolved but we're working on it.
I hope to, in at least 5 years, be moved/moving out of the Michigan suburbs.
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Posted: Thu Dec 21, 2017 7:58 pm
Update: My partner is now my fiancee. He proposed In front of my whole family and many friends, and our fourth anniversary of the start of our relationship is in January!
Very happy and fulfilled. It hasn't been easy, always. His dad passed a year ago in September, and has had a rough time working through it-- but I do believe that without each other, he would have a worse time getting through that, and I love him so much, and I want to be with him forever.
Our rings were given to us by his mother-- and though they are simple gold bands, they are the same rings his parents wore, and are simply priceless.
All relationships have difficult periods-- but you need enough communication to be able to express to each other the problems that need to be dissected and discussed to help the relationship thrive and have true intimacy together. Relationships end when people stop loving each other, and I don't ever see myself not loving him.
/obligatorymushyengagementannouncementpost
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Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2018 10:17 am
Yes, as I type this he's currently sleeping on my stomach xD
We met online and are enclosing our two year anniversary in July. whee
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Posted: Sun Feb 11, 2018 8:50 pm
I want to meet someone nice someday and things workout. Maybe one day I will. I haven't really dated anyone. I live in a small town and have terrible luck meeting people interested in dating or anything remotely resembling a relationship. sad
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2018 2:08 pm
I used to be in a relationship for about 5 years. It was an open relationship but, we did have some rules. We only hooked up other people if the other was too. If we weren't then we focused on each other. It went fine for about 4 years and then in our final year I just wanted to focus my time on him. I loved this man so much, and I wanted to remain exclusive to him alone. I saw my life with him and him alone. I bought a ring and I wanted to purpose to him.
My first mistake was not talking to him about it.
My second mistake was not seeing the signs in time.
Things I did started to set him off into an agitation. I had joined back on Gaia and went back into roleplaying. He began to become controlling, wanting to know who I was always talking to, why they would I flirt with them, he got really jealous. I told him non of it has no meaning because I loved him and in the end he's the one I hold and make love to every night. He started to become distant around me, he was going out a lot more to the clubs and not coming home until the early hours of the morning. Lined up with excuses that he passed out at a friends after heading to their place for and after party, or he and some friends went out for breakfast after the clubs closed. I began to get paranoid. I knew he was lying to me. I had known him for so long I picked up on the subtle cue. Sure as s**t, I saw on his phone him making out with another guy and sending him intimate pictures. I confronted him about it and he said he wasn't doing anything wrong. I reminded him of the rule, and he said that I was seeing someone through gaia and it counted to him. We argued and he became violent. Our relationship ended that night when my body hit the table he threw me into.
It's been just over a year now and it's honestly still very hard emotionally on me, added with the pile up of losing my mother and my daughter all in the same year.
So, now I'm single. I speak to a therapist and I, for the most part, just lay pretty low. I'm damaged goods at this point with being such a depressed mess.
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