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 Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 5:42 pm
crystalsmuse Aislinn_Callaghan crystalsmuse Aislinn_Callaghan I've told my friends how I feel and they keep telling me that I'm not big and that I'll look great in what they pick out. Truth is I don't. And as for the being sexy part. I'm not sexy, I've never felt sexy and I never will. sad Well, you just keep your chin up, luv and know that you have new friends who will actually encourage and support you here in this guild. It is hard to loose weight on your own, beleive me... But when you have others supporting you, it becomes a fun challenge. I think when your friends are telling you that you do look good, they might just be trying to cheer you up? I dunno, how tall are you and how much do you weigh? They may be right? heart I'm 5'4" and I weigh *is pained to admit this* 170 and I look like I weigh 220.. *sighs* oh well at least I got big boobs out of it. Ha ha, theres a good way of looking at it. ^_^ Big boobs are a man's best friend. (But not a girl's back... owchie)And don't be ashamed of anything hin here. We are ALL of us Big and Beautiful, and there is nothing related to being big that we all havn't been through. Yay *hugs* people who understand.
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Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 5:43 pm
crystalsmuse Aislinn_Callaghan Alexiandra Aislinn_Callaghan I'm 5'4" and I weigh *is pained to admit this* 170 and I look like I weigh 220.. *sighs* oh well at least I got big boobs out of it. Oh thats not really that bad, and dont be pained to admit it, You are among friends hun. Be gald about the big boobs, Im skinny challanged and small brested. If your boyfriend thinks your sexy then you probally are, if not only to him. My ex boyfriend used to spend hours trying to convince me he thought i was beautiful, even after we broke up, so i think he meant it even though i didnt believe him at the time. your beautiful. I can tell. ^-^ and I'm never wrong. *nodds in agreement* 3nodding yup yup you guys are making me laugh and blush. It is quite amusing. Thanks for the compliment and you two are very lovely ladies as well. heart
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Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 5:44 pm
Alexiandra crystalsmuse Aislinn_Callaghan Alexiandra Aislinn_Callaghan I'm 5'4" and I weigh *is pained to admit this* 170 and I look like I weigh 220.. *sighs* oh well at least I got big boobs out of it. Oh thats not really that bad, and dont be pained to admit it, You are among friends hun. Be gald about the big boobs, Im skinny challanged and small brested. If your boyfriend thinks your sexy then you probally are, if not only to him. My ex boyfriend used to spend hours trying to convince me he thought i was beautiful, even after we broke up, so i think he meant it even though i didnt believe him at the time. your beautiful. I can tell. ^-^ and I'm never wrong. *nodds in agreement* 3nodding yup yup you guys are making me laugh and blush. It is quite amusing. Thanks for the compliment and you two are very lovely ladies as well. heart ^-^ yay ^-^
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Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 5:45 pm
Aislinn_Callaghan Alexiandra crystalsmuse Aislinn_Callaghan Alexiandra Aislinn_Callaghan I'm 5'4" and I weigh *is pained to admit this* 170 and I look like I weigh 220.. *sighs* oh well at least I got big boobs out of it. Oh thats not really that bad, and dont be pained to admit it, You are among friends hun. Be gald about the big boobs, Im skinny challanged and small brested. If your boyfriend thinks your sexy then you probally are, if not only to him. My ex boyfriend used to spend hours trying to convince me he thought i was beautiful, even after we broke up, so i think he meant it even though i didnt believe him at the time. your beautiful. I can tell. ^-^ and I'm never wrong. *nodds in agreement* 3nodding yup yup you guys are making me laugh and blush. It is quite amusing. Thanks for the compliment and you two are very lovely ladies as well. heart ^-^ yay ^-^ *hugs* i think i like it here.
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Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 5:45 pm
Alexiandra crystalsmuse Aislinn_Callaghan Alexiandra Aislinn_Callaghan I'm 5'4" and I weigh *is pained to admit this* 170 and I look like I weigh 220.. *sighs* oh well at least I got big boobs out of it. Oh thats not really that bad, and dont be pained to admit it, You are among friends hun. Be gald about the big boobs, Im skinny challanged and small brested. If your boyfriend thinks your sexy then you probally are, if not only to him. My ex boyfriend used to spend hours trying to convince me he thought i was beautiful, even after we broke up, so i think he meant it even though i didnt believe him at the time. your beautiful. I can tell. ^-^ and I'm never wrong. *nodds in agreement* 3nodding yup yup you guys are making me laugh and blush. It is quite amusing. Thanks for the compliment and you two are very lovely ladies as well. heart Thankies heart
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Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 5:47 pm
crystalsmuse Alexiandra crystalsmuse Aislinn_Callaghan Alexiandra Aislinn_Callaghan I'm 5'4" and I weigh *is pained to admit this* 170 and I look like I weigh 220.. *sighs* oh well at least I got big boobs out of it. Oh thats not really that bad, and dont be pained to admit it, You are among friends hun. Be gald about the big boobs, Im skinny challanged and small brested. If your boyfriend thinks your sexy then you probally are, if not only to him. My ex boyfriend used to spend hours trying to convince me he thought i was beautiful, even after we broke up, so i think he meant it even though i didnt believe him at the time. your beautiful. I can tell. ^-^ and I'm never wrong. *nodds in agreement* 3nodding yup yup you guys are making me laugh and blush. It is quite amusing. Thanks for the compliment and you two are very lovely ladies as well. heart Thankies heart Anytime hun, anytime
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Posted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 11:58 pm
in the immortal words of my mother
"sweetie, you dont look like she does when you wear that cos you are bigger
you will look bigger nomatter what you wear
and since when were bigger people not allowed to have legs, arms or stomachs"
wering really big baggy clothing all the time does NOT make you look thinner
*v necks will make you look thinner*
your friends and family dont want you to walk around looking rediculous, they wont lie to you
if they say something looks great on you its because it does
*uless of course you have to wear something you cant get out of at all like a HORRID coustume for a play, in wich case they will fluff your confidence as much as humanly possible by telling you you look brilliant then hide out backstage with a change of clothes for you and laugh at how bad you look when the photos come out, personal experience, I was a fairy, I wore a tutu and unitard*
and as for the boyfriend thing
I waisted soooo much time worrying about what I thaught other people were thinking seeing fat me kissing tall *and freaken cute* him and obsessing about what I thaught I looked like nakie when I should be having fun doing nakie things
he thaught I was sexy
what I thaught I was did not change that
*doing fun nakie things is strictly for people over the age of 16, 18 preferably but I don't make the laws*
ACT SEXY
have you all seen that tellie show less than perfect that was on a wile ago
do you rember that fat black chick who went around acting like she was sexy as
I asked a bunch of guys wether they thaught she was sexy
they said yes
*although not as sexy as the size 16 star of the show, but apparently sexier than the skinny blond chick*
you know why?
cos she acted sexy!
your freaken beautiful
cos I'm freaken beautiful
and nobody will disagree with me
except maybe you
or possibly me
*rantage over*
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 7:31 am
Uh ok. I'll try to act sexy.
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 8:53 am
yea i have that problem, maaaajor problem for me
i attract the skinniest of the skinniest
and some slightly overwieght but still skinny as hell people
i sometimes get the feeling that they like me because instinctivly they wanna look better by comparison
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 10:54 am
The_Irkin_Army yea i have that problem, maaaajor problem for me
i attract the skinniest of the skinniest
and some slightly overwieght but still skinny as hell people
i sometimes get the feeling that they like me because instinctivly they wanna look better by comparison I know how you feel.
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 11:55 am
Aislinn_Callaghan The_Irkin_Army yea i have that problem, maaaajor problem for me
i attract the skinniest of the skinniest
and some slightly overwieght but still skinny as hell people
i sometimes get the feeling that they like me because instinctivly they wanna look better by comparison I know how you feel. Unfortunatly I also know how you feel... crying
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 2:09 pm
crystalsmuse Aislinn_Callaghan The_Irkin_Army yea i have that problem, maaaajor problem for me
i attract the skinniest of the skinniest
and some slightly overwieght but still skinny as hell people
i sometimes get the feeling that they like me because instinctivly they wanna look better by comparison I know how you feel. Unfortunatly I also know how you feel... crying *hugs both crystalmuse and The_Irkin_Army.* Its ok.
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Posted: Tue Mar 01, 2005 5:41 am
Aislinn_Callaghan I'm the largest of my friends. All of them are tall and weigh about 135. they like to go shopping for me because they say I need more stylish clothing... But the things they want me to wear are either not my size or excentuate the fact that I'm big. .......So I get mad at them because I'm embarassed....... My parents don't help my making me wear old lady clothing........they says it's my punishment for being big. I'm tried losing weight but with my muscle mass and bone mass I'm never gonna get any smaller. So should I be mad at my friends and should I be embarassed? i can tell that you are a beautiful person. Your parents shouldnt be telling you that its punishment for being big thats not fair at all they should help you and be supportive by encouraging to you and letting you know how much they love you. a good excersice that is fun and well make you feel great is ddr dance dance revolution its fun and gives me alot of energy as well
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Posted: Tue Mar 01, 2005 9:09 am
I know I wouldn't appreciate my skinny friends doing that kind of crap to me if I went shopping with them. But if you don't speak up, then they'll never know that their behaviour is upsetting you...you should confront them in a calm way, explaining that you feel upset that every time you go out with them, it seems that they just want to make themselves feel better about their body by embarassing you and making you feel self conscious. Some women are catty creatures, they find joy in making others feel uncomfortable and unattractive compared to them. If they try and say that wasn't their intention and they stop, that's great, but if they try and make it seem that you're over dramatizing the situation, then you need to consider whether they're really your friends or if they're just using you to make themselves feel superior.
Your parents need to accept you for YOU, not try and shame you for not meeting their/society's standards of what is acceptable. Try talking to them, tell them the truth, that you are tired of being made to feel bad for being yourself and that parents should accept you for who you are, inside AND out, instead of trying to mould you into something you're not. If they continue, perhaps you should let them know that every time they nag you about your weight that you will get to the point where you want nothing to do with them and that your relationship will suffer due to their unecessary cruelty....perhaps they need to be confronted with what they're doing and the consequences of their actions.
Good luck to ya hon *hugs* heart
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Posted: Tue Mar 01, 2005 1:42 pm
I'd forget your friends for the moment and concentrate being pissed off at your parents.
You should not be punished for body mass. Any inherent problems from it are downsides, but it is not in any way shape or form a moral or ethical shortcoming, and therefor deserves and warrants no rebuking or chastizing.
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