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 Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 10:16 pm
Mr_Redmon1 dont wanna be alone anymore  Finding a boyfriend online isn't going to make you feel anymore less-alone than you already feel. Before you look for emotional connection in another person you first need to realize that you're not alone. You have friends and you have yourself.
You have to find emotional fulfillment in yourself, it's not fair to anyone else if you use them as an emotional crutch. You don't need a boyfriend just for the sake of not feeling alone, and if you do find a boyfriend for that purpose; well it's not going to be fair to them. In the words of our almighty drag mother; "If you can't love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else."
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Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2014 3:17 am
Mental Neko-Senpai Mr_Redmon1 dont wanna be alone anymore
You have to find emotional fulfillment in yourself, it's not fair to anyone else if you use them as an emotional crutch. You don't need a boyfriend just for the sake of not feeling alone, and if you do find a boyfriend for that purpose; well it's not going to be fair to them. In the words of our almighty drag mother; "If you can't love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else." I wish I could tips posts in Guilds.
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 1:26 am
Chieftain Twilight Mental Neko-Senpai Mr_Redmon1 dont wanna be alone anymore
You have to find emotional fulfillment in yourself, it's not fair to anyone else if you use them as an emotional crutch. You don't need a boyfriend just for the sake of not feeling alone, and if you do find a boyfriend for that purpose; well it's not going to be fair to them. In the words of our almighty drag mother; "If you can't love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else." I wish I could tips posts in Guilds. You and Raven Both meow! cat_rolleyes
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 1:27 am
Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Mental Neko-Senpai Mr_Redmon1 dont wanna be alone anymore
You have to find emotional fulfillment in yourself, it's not fair to anyone else if you use them as an emotional crutch. You don't need a boyfriend just for the sake of not feeling alone, and if you do find a boyfriend for that purpose; well it's not going to be fair to them. In the words of our almighty drag mother; "If you can't love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else." I wish I could tips posts in Guilds. You and Raven Both meow! cat_rolleyes keheheheh~
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 1:30 am
SinfulGuillotine Mr_Redmon1 all i want on here is a bf I think the point that people are trying to get across is that there is no "boyfriend vending machine" where you can announce what you want and have it pop out right in front of you moments later. Human relationships don't work that way, not even on the internet. Relationships (romantic or otherwise) should happen organically over time, at least when the feelings involved are genuine. Unless I'm very much mistaken, nobody here really knows you. That's not a bad thing, but most reasonable people aren't going to enter a romantic relationship with someone they've never met or spoken to (online or otherwise). A better tactic would probably be to try to interact with people in a more casual capacity so you can get to know them and they can get to know you, and to see how things go from there.
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 1:31 am
Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Mental Neko-Senpai Mr_Redmon1 dont wanna be alone anymore
You have to find emotional fulfillment in yourself, it's not fair to anyone else if you use them as an emotional crutch. You don't need a boyfriend just for the sake of not feeling alone, and if you do find a boyfriend for that purpose; well it's not going to be fair to them. In the words of our almighty drag mother; "If you can't love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else." I wish I could tips posts in Guilds. You and Raven Both meow! cat_rolleyes keheheheh~ Hehehe, Raven really liked the Ru Paul Gif as well, it just made everything tha much more enjoyable to read. cat_whee
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 1:39 am
Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Mental Neko-Senpai Mr_Redmon1 dont wanna be alone anymore
You have to find emotional fulfillment in yourself, it's not fair to anyone else if you use them as an emotional crutch. You don't need a boyfriend just for the sake of not feeling alone, and if you do find a boyfriend for that purpose; well it's not going to be fair to them. In the words of our almighty drag mother; "If you can't love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else." I wish I could tips posts in Guilds. You and Raven Both meow! cat_rolleyes keheheheh~ Hehehe, Raven really liked the Ru Paul Gif as well, it just made everything tha much more enjoyable to read. cat_whee I agree. I can't get enough of it.
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 1:48 am
Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight I wish I could tips posts in Guilds. You and Raven Both meow! cat_rolleyes keheheheh~ Hehehe, Raven really liked the Ru Paul Gif as well, it just made everything tha much more enjoyable to read. cat_whee I agree. I can't get enough of it. Hehehe, it is hilarious Meow! cat_rofl .... it is quite unfortunate though... it seems a rather large amount of the Gay Community Dislikes Drag Queens... cat_sad
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 1:51 am
Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight I wish I could tips posts in Guilds. You and Raven Both meow! cat_rolleyes keheheheh~ Hehehe, Raven really liked the Ru Paul Gif as well, it just made everything tha much more enjoyable to read. cat_whee I agree. I can't get enough of it. Hehehe, it is hilarious Meow! cat_rofl .... it is quite unfortunate though... it seems a rather large amount of the Gay Community Dislikes Drag Queens... cat_sad I don't dislike drag queens as a rule. but let's just say that I have my problems with certain behaviors.... especially hypocritical double standards. long story behind that one.
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 1:53 am
Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Hehehe, Raven really liked the Ru Paul Gif as well, it just made everything tha much more enjoyable to read. cat_whee I agree. I can't get enough of it. Hehehe, it is hilarious Meow! cat_rofl .... it is quite unfortunate though... it seems a rather large amount of the Gay Community Dislikes Drag Queens... cat_sad I don't dislike drag queens as a rule. but let's just say that I have my problems with certain behaviors.... especially hypocritical double standards. long story behind that one. Meow? *perks ears and sits down, waiting fur the story*
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 2:06 am
Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Hehehe, Raven really liked the Ru Paul Gif as well, it just made everything tha much more enjoyable to read. cat_whee I agree. I can't get enough of it. Hehehe, it is hilarious Meow! cat_rofl .... it is quite unfortunate though... it seems a rather large amount of the Gay Community Dislikes Drag Queens... cat_sad I don't dislike drag queens as a rule. but let's just say that I have my problems with certain behaviors.... especially hypocritical double standards. long story behind that one. Meow? *perks ears and sits down, waiting fur the story* alright, so, a club I'm part of at our college campus, Society for N.E.R.D.S., had an event last year. it was mostly a way to get students to see us out in the open, learn about the games and interests we have, and make friends. there were crafts galleries and shops, and tables to play tabletop games, including RPGs and TCGs, there were discussion boards, all kinds of cool things. even a Tardis that our club made. but one of the main things that the club president wanted to was to have a Jell-O Wrestling contest. now, some of us (myself included) were very concerned about how risky that would be to our public image. I mean, there are dual-enrolled students here. this could be viewed very lewdly. our club went through EVERY possible channel to make sure that this would be appropriate, and respectful, and that it would satisfy the Student Life faculty and the Administration. and it did. we had rules and restrictions, and all kinds of safety measures. busted our asses, planned everything out to the last detail. no white shirts. no photos or videos. no grabbing clothes. no inappropriate touching. we'd have two judges at all times who could break it up. so on and so forthe. in the end, it was mostly guy-on-guy wrestling, and almost no girls showed up at all. felt like a success. the next day, the paper was front-page news about how our club had a Jell-O wrestling contest, and that it was a sexist practice, and we were disgraceful, and parents (who weren't even there) were horrified and outraged by it. that's not all. the day after that, I saw a youtube video of the drag show that the Queer-Straight Alliance put on the day after our club's event. it was a fundraiser for children with autism. and it was literally just a drag queen twerking, and dropping, and twerking, and dropping, and twerking, and giving a lap dance, and twerking, and dropping. and everyone was cheering. parents were there. teenagers were there. school staff were there. needless to say, we were ******** pissed.
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 2:28 am
Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Meow? *perks ears and sits down, waiting fur the story* alright, so, a club I'm part of at our college campus, Society for N.E.R.D.S., had an event last year. it was mostly a way to get students to see us out in the open, learn about the games and interests we have, and make friends. there were crafts galleries and shops, and tables to play tabletop games, including RPGs and TCGs, there were discussion boards, all kinds of cool things. even a Tardis that our club made. but one of the main things that the club president wanted to was to have a Jell-O Wrestling contest. now, some of us (myself included) were very concerned about how risky that would be to our public image. I mean, there are dual-enrolled students here. this could be viewed very lewdly. our club went through EVERY possible channel to make sure that this would be appropriate, and respectful, and that it would satisfy the Student Life faculty and the Administration. and it did. we had rules and restrictions, and all kinds of safety measures. busted our asses, planned everything out to the last detail. no white shirts. no photos or videos. no grabbing clothes. no inappropriate touching. we'd have two judges at all times who could break it up. so on and so forthe. in the end, it was mostly guy-on-guy wrestling, and almost no girls showed up at all. felt like a success. the next day, the paper was front-page news about how our club had a Jell-O wrestling contest, and that it was a sexist practice, and we were disgraceful, and parents (who weren't even there) were horrified and outraged by it. that's not all. the day after that, I saw a youtube video of the drag show that the Queer-Straight Alliance put on the day after our club's event. it was a fundraiser for children with autism. and it was literally just a drag queen twerking, and dropping, and twerking, and dropping, and twerking, and giving a lap dance, and twerking, and dropping. and everyone was cheering. parents were there. teenagers were there. school staff were there. needless to say, we were ******** pissed. Kay... do you mean Twerking as in the Traditional Hungarian Contortion Dance? Or.... tha stupid Butt Wiggle tha Females are starting to do and think it is cool? cat_stare The Wresting itself sounded like fun though, Raven can understand the concerns and worry about the whole wearing white thing, but if everything went smoothly then Raven doesn't see the problem... cat_smile Raven never understood the whole Parents being outraged thing... Most don't care unless it involves their own offspring. Really meow most don't even know until they are told and or hear it from the news... then it is suddenly a big thing... cat_stare
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 2:45 am
Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Meow? *perks ears and sits down, waiting fur the story* alright, so, a club I'm part of at our college campus, Society for N.E.R.D.S., had an event last year. it was mostly a way to get students to see us out in the open, learn about the games and interests we have, and make friends. there were crafts galleries and shops, and tables to play tabletop games, including RPGs and TCGs, there were discussion boards, all kinds of cool things. even a Tardis that our club made. but one of the main things that the club president wanted to was to have a Jell-O Wrestling contest. now, some of us (myself included) were very concerned about how risky that would be to our public image. I mean, there are dual-enrolled students here. this could be viewed very lewdly. our club went through EVERY possible channel to make sure that this would be appropriate, and respectful, and that it would satisfy the Student Life faculty and the Administration. and it did. we had rules and restrictions, and all kinds of safety measures. busted our asses, planned everything out to the last detail. no white shirts. no photos or videos. no grabbing clothes. no inappropriate touching. we'd have two judges at all times who could break it up. so on and so forthe. in the end, it was mostly guy-on-guy wrestling, and almost no girls showed up at all. felt like a success. the next day, the paper was front-page news about how our club had a Jell-O wrestling contest, and that it was a sexist practice, and we were disgraceful, and parents (who weren't even there) were horrified and outraged by it. that's not all. the day after that, I saw a youtube video of the drag show that the Queer-Straight Alliance put on the day after our club's event. it was a fundraiser for children with autism. and it was literally just a drag queen twerking, and dropping, and twerking, and dropping, and twerking, and giving a lap dance, and twerking, and dropping. and everyone was cheering. parents were there. teenagers were there. school staff were there. needless to say, we were ******** pissed. Kay... do you mean Twerking as in the Traditional Hungarian Contortion Dance? Or.... tha stupid Butt Wiggle tha Females are starting to do and think it is cool? cat_stare The Wresting itself sounded like fun though, Raven can understand the concerns and worry about the whole wearing white thing, but if everything went smoothly then Raven doesn't see the problem... cat_smile Raven never understood the whole Parents being outraged thing... Most don't care unless it involves their own offspring. Really meow most don't even know until they are told and or hear it from the news... then it is suddenly a big thing... cat_stare the stupid butt wiggle. I tried to find teh video, but it seems to be removed from youtube.
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 2:54 am
Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Meow? *perks ears and sits down, waiting fur the story* alright, so, a club I'm part of at our college campus, Society for N.E.R.D.S., had an event last year. it was mostly a way to get students to see us out in the open, learn about the games and interests we have, and make friends. there were crafts galleries and shops, and tables to play tabletop games, including RPGs and TCGs, there were discussion boards, all kinds of cool things. even a Tardis that our club made. but one of the main things that the club president wanted to was to have a Jell-O Wrestling contest. now, some of us (myself included) were very concerned about how risky that would be to our public image. I mean, there are dual-enrolled students here. this could be viewed very lewdly. our club went through EVERY possible channel to make sure that this would be appropriate, and respectful, and that it would satisfy the Student Life faculty and the Administration. and it did. we had rules and restrictions, and all kinds of safety measures. busted our asses, planned everything out to the last detail. no white shirts. no photos or videos. no grabbing clothes. no inappropriate touching. we'd have two judges at all times who could break it up. so on and so forthe. in the end, it was mostly guy-on-guy wrestling, and almost no girls showed up at all. felt like a success. the next day, the paper was front-page news about how our club had a Jell-O wrestling contest, and that it was a sexist practice, and we were disgraceful, and parents (who weren't even there) were horrified and outraged by it. that's not all. the day after that, I saw a youtube video of the drag show that the Queer-Straight Alliance put on the day after our club's event. it was a fundraiser for children with autism. and it was literally just a drag queen twerking, and dropping, and twerking, and dropping, and twerking, and giving a lap dance, and twerking, and dropping. and everyone was cheering. parents were there. teenagers were there. school staff were there. needless to say, we were ******** pissed. Kay... do you mean Twerking as in the Traditional Hungarian Contortion Dance? Or.... tha stupid Butt Wiggle tha Females are starting to do and think it is cool? cat_stare The Wresting itself sounded like fun though, Raven can understand the concerns and worry about the whole wearing white thing, but if everything went smoothly then Raven doesn't see the problem... cat_smile Raven never understood the whole Parents being outraged thing... Most don't care unless it involves their own offspring. Really meow most don't even know until they are told and or hear it from the news... then it is suddenly a big thing... cat_stare the stupid butt wiggle. I tried to find teh video, but it seems to be removed from youtube. Yeah well... Raven doesn't like tha either meow, so he can hardly blame you. Besides looking ridiculous and stupid, the 'dance' is very unappealing to look at... cat_burning_eyes at least it is unappealing to Raven. No wonder Youtube removed the Video... Furballs meowy, no wonder you were pissed! And they said having a Jell-O Wrestling Contest is Sexist! cat_rolleyes
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Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2014 2:55 am
Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Chieftain Twilight Raven Wind KuroNeko-Chan Meow? *perks ears and sits down, waiting fur the story* alright, so, a club I'm part of at our college campus, Society for N.E.R.D.S., had an event last year. it was mostly a way to get students to see us out in the open, learn about the games and interests we have, and make friends. there were crafts galleries and shops, and tables to play tabletop games, including RPGs and TCGs, there were discussion boards, all kinds of cool things. even a Tardis that our club made. but one of the main things that the club president wanted to was to have a Jell-O Wrestling contest. now, some of us (myself included) were very concerned about how risky that would be to our public image. I mean, there are dual-enrolled students here. this could be viewed very lewdly. our club went through EVERY possible channel to make sure that this would be appropriate, and respectful, and that it would satisfy the Student Life faculty and the Administration. and it did. we had rules and restrictions, and all kinds of safety measures. busted our asses, planned everything out to the last detail. no white shirts. no photos or videos. no grabbing clothes. no inappropriate touching. we'd have two judges at all times who could break it up. so on and so forthe. in the end, it was mostly guy-on-guy wrestling, and almost no girls showed up at all. felt like a success. the next day, the paper was front-page news about how our club had a Jell-O wrestling contest, and that it was a sexist practice, and we were disgraceful, and parents (who weren't even there) were horrified and outraged by it. that's not all. the day after that, I saw a youtube video of the drag show that the Queer-Straight Alliance put on the day after our club's event. it was a fundraiser for children with autism. and it was literally just a drag queen twerking, and dropping, and twerking, and dropping, and twerking, and giving a lap dance, and twerking, and dropping. and everyone was cheering. parents were there. teenagers were there. school staff were there. needless to say, we were ******** pissed. Kay... do you mean Twerking as in the Traditional Hungarian Contortion Dance? Or.... tha stupid Butt Wiggle tha Females are starting to do and think it is cool? cat_stare The Wresting itself sounded like fun though, Raven can understand the concerns and worry about the whole wearing white thing, but if everything went smoothly then Raven doesn't see the problem... cat_smile Raven never understood the whole Parents being outraged thing... Most don't care unless it involves their own offspring. Really meow most don't even know until they are told and or hear it from the news... then it is suddenly a big thing... cat_stare the stupid butt wiggle. I tried to find teh video, but it seems to be removed from youtube. Yeah well... Raven doesn't like tha either meow, so he can hardly blame you. Besides looking ridiculous and stupid, the 'dance' is very unappealing to look at... cat_burning_eyes at least it is unappealing to Raven. No wonder Youtube removed the Video... Furballs meowy, no wonder you were pissed! And they said having a Jell-O Wrestling Contest is Sexist! cat_rolleyes I'm glad you understand. the QSA and I don't get along anymore.
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