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PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2012 9:08 pm


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if he is as nervous as some people are he might of said hes gay to try and . block it out his mind. he ight be gay but wants to be freinds and dosnt know how. or he might be bi and didnt relise it til then but has to keep up the 'gay' image incase you leave . mabey thats the case?

I considered the Bi thing though I wouldnt be comfortable with that if it were the case, I would have to fight off both girls AND guys! No thanks gonk




if he was bi then hes choisen you but it seems if he was gay you turned him bi. and yer ok i can see where you are coming from with the not beeing cumfortable but if he loves you he cant help it and that is that (sorry if it sounds agressive or anything im haveing a .. bad.. day well week myself)

I suppose I would be flattered if I flipped someone xD I think I would know how I'd feel about it but you never know for sure how you'll react in certain situations till they actually happen. If he has something to confess then last chance is Friday then will be the end of this non existent thing I have going on sweatdrop

It's alright, you're not coming across as aggressive c: I hope your week gets better.
PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2012 9:53 pm


allmostanyone
123boo75
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if he is as nervous as some people are he might of said hes gay to try and . block it out his mind. he ight be gay but wants to be freinds and dosnt know how. or he might be bi and didnt relise it til then but has to keep up the 'gay' image incase you leave . mabey thats the case?

I considered the Bi thing though I wouldnt be comfortable with that if it were the case, I would have to fight off both girls AND guys! No thanks gonk




if he was bi then hes choisen you but it seems if he was gay you turned him bi. and yer ok i can see where you are coming from with the not beeing cumfortable but if he loves you he cant help it and that is that (sorry if it sounds agressive or anything im haveing a .. bad.. day well week myself)

I suppose I would be flattered if I flipped someone xD I think I would know how I'd feel about it but you never know for sure how you'll react in certain situations till they actually happen. If he has something to confess then last chance is Friday then will be the end of this non existent thing I have going on sweatdrop

It's alright, you're not coming across as aggressive c: I hope your week gets better.


it wont i allready know it wont as i know whats planed ... mabey he will admit it after friday (text or somethign like that)

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PostPosted: Tue May 01, 2012 9:25 am


allmostanyone
123boo75
if he is as nervous as some people are he might of said hes gay to try and . block it out his mind. he ight be gay but wants to be freinds and dosnt know how. or he might be bi and didnt relise it til then but has to keep up the 'gay' image incase you leave . mabey thats the case?

I considered the Bi thing though I wouldnt be comfortable with that if it were the case, I would have to fight off both girls AND guys! No thanks gonk


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Normally I wouldn't but recently I have a co-worker who is bordering on obsessed with me. She tends to get drunk and in a very not romantic way, demand that we date. She's young and stupid so I understand the brashness, but I am not attracted to her in the least. Telling her that seems to not work so I might just lie and say I have a girlfriend or am potentially gay.

O sheesh, how shameful when they don't get the hint. Tell her to her face she's a slob, maybe if you insult her enough she'll get it :T If the roles were reversed the man would have been accused of harassment and his actions put to a stop asap.
Ha, yeah, I would love to do that. Its fine, I've basically just cut out that social group out of my life. She can't molest me if I'm not around.
PostPosted: Tue May 08, 2012 7:42 pm


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how did it turn out ...

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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 10:11 pm


It's over I suppose -3-

He did a funny thing again on the last day; We only had to say long enough to get our grade then could leave, he got his then left and I was just going to wait till all the others were done cuz i didnt feel like fighting them, 10 minutes later he came back, pulled up a chair and started talking to me but by the end of that class it would be the last I see of him.
PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 10:35 pm


i know guys that do it
i for one, don't, considering that i'm gay to begin with, and that would be very counterproductive biggrin
 

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PostPosted: Fri May 18, 2012 7:06 pm


To quote Dr. House: "Everybody lies." So yes probably.
PostPosted: Sat May 26, 2012 8:41 am


I can see a guy lying about being gay.
((I mean, guys in the closet lie for the opposite all the time don't they? lol))


I don't think it's an outright lie, though, since he doesn't remind me of some a**holes I know. He could be bi and leaning towards guys, so he just tells girls "I'm gay," up front, in case they are interested in him.

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PostPosted: Sat May 26, 2012 5:12 pm


People lie to those they dislike or like for various reasons so I figure this is no different but probably not in this guys case -n- I had just never heard of a case like this so I was curious to know if somebody else had. I mean people including myself XD say the dumbest s**t when in the company of someone they think highly of, I wondered that if when caught in the moment of nervousness a guy might want to discourage interaction and blurt out something like "Oh... I gay! crap why did I say that..." I know most of it was wishful thinking on my part sweatdrop and I dont have friends here so I have no one to talk to about silly things so I come here >u>;

I was actually reading some interesting stories on Yahoo Answers, one guy was raised by two dads and they were pushing him to be gay as well, they'd set him up on dates with guys since her was 14 I think, but he felt an attraction to girls. Now in his late teens (I think again) he wanted to come out to his parents that he's straight
PostPosted: Sat May 26, 2012 5:37 pm


boys can and do in general lie about their sexuality -- be it for attention or comfort -- but in this case, it doesn't sound to me like he's lying. :U

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PostPosted: Sun May 27, 2012 9:06 am


allmostanyone

I was actually reading some interesting stories on Yahoo Answers, one guy was raised by two dads and they were pushing him to be gay as well, they'd set him up on dates with guys since her was 14 I think, but he felt an attraction to girls. Now in his late teens (I think again) he wanted to come out to his parents that he's straight


Oooh, that's pretty tough and is kind of crazy. Gay parents, of all, should know not to impose any form of sexuality on their children...

Bad parenting happens in all domains =(
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