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 Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2011 2:04 am
unfathomable Usually if you're one of those, you're likely to either BE the other, or supportive of the other, though. This is true, but she said specifically that she wants someone more active and not just supportive from the side, or at least that's what I think I read, which is ultimately the thing that I think is making it hardest to find someone in her ideals.
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Posted: Mon Nov 28, 2011 1:49 pm
That's like saying you might as well not being gay cause it's less likely to run into someone who's gay than not.
I think that if she's into those sorts of things then finding people who agree isn't going to be very hard. The problem comes when you look in the general population and hope to find someone who not only meets that criteria but then also has chemistry with you. I think, Sini, that you should try to get more involved in your local things to the extent that you're widening your circle of people who believe similarly to you. If you're around a lot of like-minded people, finding someone who you hit it off with will be a lot easier than just oh this boy is cute but damn, he's a meat eater.
I don't think you're being unreasonable at all. We all have a couple certain things we want or don't want in a mate. And it's just harder when you're lonely and unsatisfied, because it's all you focus on.
Good luck love. <3 Don't give up. A boy will be there who appreciates the kind of girl you are.
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Posted: Mon Nov 28, 2011 7:37 pm
noramine That's like saying you might as well not being gay cause it's less likely to run into someone who's gay than not. I think that if she's into those sorts of things then finding people who agree isn't going to be very hard. The problem comes when you look in the general population and hope to find someone who not only meets that criteria but then also has chemistry with you. I think, Sini, that you should try to get more involved in your local things to the extent that you're widening your circle of people who believe similarly to you. If you're around a lot of like-minded people, finding someone who you hit it off with will be a lot easier than just oh this boy is cute but damn, he's a meat eater. I don't think you're being unreasonable at all. We all have a couple certain things we want or don't want in a mate. And it's just harder when you're lonely and unsatisfied, because it's all you focus on. Good luck love. <3 Don't give up. A boy will be there who appreciates the kind of girl you are. What? No, that is not at all related to what I'm saying because there are millions of homosexuals and you can go places specifically for homosexuals. How many places are there that cater to vegan activists? Not a lot. I'm not saying she should give up, but my biggest concern was the fact that her partner HAS to be an activist and can't just simply be supportive. That is what I really think is unreasonable.
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Posted: Tue Nov 29, 2011 11:59 am
No, sorry Kyon. I wasn't clear, was I. That was focused toward the people that were saying she should just give up on what she wanted because it would be harder to find people with those specific interests.
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