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 Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2006 8:53 pm
See, I have nothing against recreational sex. (Between a husband and wife, is more what I would agree with, but some people have no problem with premarital sex, but I respect that.)
But it's when lack of protection, the presence of carelessness and ignorance, that my pro-life side (my ONLY side) becomes infuriated.
If I had to sacrifice a few nights' worth of pleasure to prevent an unwanted pregnancy, so be it. I can remain abstinent. Is it my willpower, or is it my views on abortion that keeps me abstinent until I'm not fertile for the month?
I really have no clue. I don't even know if this post made jack-s**t of sense. sweatdrop
But I do know this. If I had to tell my future husband, "I'll pleasure you, but I can't risk anything" to make sure I don't go without a period with nine months, or sending a child to foster care, or having a baby when I really just want to be with my husband - (Never abort, though. I would never abort.) - then I would do this in a heartbeat.
What's one night's worth of pleasure compared to a child's lifetime thrown away?
As much as I am very passionate about the comments I just presented, I never thought once that sex was "bad". If it were not for the act, no one would be here, debating this. I just am more of a "make love" person, not a "have sex" person.
I want my husband to take my heart, give me his; take my mind, give me his; before he takes my body, and gives me his. pirate
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Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2006 10:51 pm
Oh yes, I hate sex so much that I won't even have it when i'm married rolleyes
It's not that I hate sex (trust me I don't, just never had it for a few good reasons), I just don't want reasponablities i'm not ready for. That also inclues the emotional side of it. I know what CAN happen, I don't want a kid right now (couldn't care for it) but i'm against killing it just for that as well (only abort if it's a life threating emergancy). I just think it's good to be prepared for anything that can go with it, emotional or physical. Plus I want to be special and it can't be if I choose to sleep anybody I date (sorry i'm going to sleep with people just because I went out or dated them). People take sex too lightly and look what happens-tons of unwanted pregnancies and dieases. Don't want either. This is just me, I don't care if you want to sleep around all time or not married. Like the person before basically said, I want to make love not just screw someone, but this is my choice.
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Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2006 11:02 pm
lymelady Mcphee My lord, I hate it when they talk about how we're "Anti-sex" or "Anti-woman's sexuality".
That's blanketing a whole group of people as virgins, who will never want to have sex. And that doesn't make sense to me.
I love sex. I mean, I won't get anyone pregnant in the future (Unless something really odd and unexpected happens), so I don't know why I would say sex is only for reproduction. However, I do think that sex that DOES have the possiblility of reproduction needs to be dealt with in a manner in which all parties are able to live.
I mean, it just makes SENSE. But to them, you don't exist. A gay lifer? You don't count. rolleyes If they can pick and choose whose opinion counts, I suppose they could decide something like that...just don't include the people that enjoy sex. Which would honestly leave the prolife movement a few energized crusaders, instead of the millions of people it has behind it. Yes, god forbid a pro-lifer to be gay, lesibian, or a guy rolleyes (according to them, if your any of those you should automathically be pro-choice ). As I said before, there not pro-choice. Many of them are woman that basically only support abort ( they seem to hate you if you decide to give it up or keep it if your still a student and single mom cause they will have a "bad" life). Maybe not all are but most seem that way to me anyways, probly cause they just want the sex without taking the reasponabities that comes with it. Very few people that I talked to that were pro-choice that weren't like that.
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 12:11 am
icemaidenyukina lymelady Mcphee My lord, I hate it when they talk about how we're "Anti-sex" or "Anti-woman's sexuality".
That's blanketing a whole group of people as virgins, who will never want to have sex. And that doesn't make sense to me.
I love sex. I mean, I won't get anyone pregnant in the future (Unless something really odd and unexpected happens), so I don't know why I would say sex is only for reproduction. However, I do think that sex that DOES have the possiblility of reproduction needs to be dealt with in a manner in which all parties are able to live.
I mean, it just makes SENSE. But to them, you don't exist. A gay lifer? You don't count. rolleyes If they can pick and choose whose opinion counts, I suppose they could decide something like that...just don't include the people that enjoy sex. Which would honestly leave the prolife movement a few energized crusaders, instead of the millions of people it has behind it. Yes, god forbid a pro-lifer to be gay, lesibian, or a guy rolleyes (according to them, if your any of those you should automathically be pro-choice ). As I said before, there not pro-choice. Many of them are woman that basically only support abort ( they seem to hate you if you decide to give it up or keep it if your still a student and single mom cause they will have a "bad" life). Maybe not all are but most seem that way to me anyways, probly cause they just want the sex without taking the reasponabities that comes with it. Very few people that I talked to that were pro-choice that weren't like that. Actually, I think that you mean -girls- can't be Pro-Life; They have no problem with the idea of a straight Pro-Life guy, because we are all obviously trying to subject women "beneath our barbed phalluses". sad
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 4:31 am
Admitably, I'm beginning to think sex is one of those things just better off not created.
I have never opened to much around here, but to be honest, it's a whole lotta nothing. I mean yeah, okay, sure, I've gotten sexually attracted to other people before. I've also had a staring contest with a bottle of alcohol, and the temptation to do a helluva lot more in life than what I do now, but you know something? I've used the better judgement in most cases.
It pisses me off some of the type of things we "accent" in today's society, one of them is sex. Like seriously. Remember the Family Guy ep. with the smoking controversy? It's more like: "Are ya f------ yet?", seriously. I get bored in the bathroom so I pick up our (mis-delivered, no clue why the hair salon isn't getting their magazines) one of my mother's magazines and every glamour or redbook is some rehashed article on people's sex life. If you religiously read them, you will find, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. There exists a pool of questions every sex article is bound to cover AGAIN. It's like, okay we've been through this topic before, how can we re-adjust the wording to make it sound fresh?
For a reference to the Bible, God wiped from the face of the Earth Sodom and Gomorah, and as one of my teacher's explained, the Angels were taken in by Lot because everyone in the town wanted to get some off the new visitors. Although we don't desire to rape every person staying at the local Mariott, it just seems everyone has sex on the brain. I think it's a character flaw. Yeah, I joke about it, but I just get so pissed.
It's also one of those dividing issues things, in any place where you are surrounded by many of your peers the question of things like where, who, when, how are going to come up. You can't always express your opinion and it just makes the subject harder.
I suppose I could say alot more but I won't. I just have qualms. But I'd never eradicate it, that'd be fighting a losing battle from the start. It just wouldn't be possible.
I'm not "anti-sex", I just don't enjoy the reprecussions (spelling?).
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 3:33 pm
Yeeah. I hate sex. I mean, look at my fanfic. Look around my computer. Look under my bed. Just.....no. Not even close.
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Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 1:46 pm
Broorel Apparantly the prolife movement has one underlying goal. We nefariously wish to "create a society in which the only acceptable reason for sex is procreation." We find sex "disturbing" and wish to go back to the "good ol days when no one had sex for any reason other than to make babies!" http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/files/portal/webzine/artsculture/art-060217-christina-page.xml Oh and also we are all a "few energized crusaders hellbent on imposing their views on how we all ought to live." I dont know about you guys but I dont remember ever telling anyone that "sex is icky!"...perhaps I've said that the original purpose of sex is reproducion and as such it is foolish to not see reproduction as a probable outcome of sex. But I have never said "sex is bad" because *gasp* I don't think that. I guess I'm not a very good brainwashed anti-choicer am I? it is not that i hate sex- i agree completely- you put my thoughts very well- sex is originally inteded for procreation, and thus, if you do it.... you might get pregnant. a simple enough concept for most people. some choicers though... anyway, knowing that sex leads to pregnancy, i will wait until marraige, until i am in a good enough place to have a child, and until we are both ready.
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Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 4:50 pm
I hate sex. A lot. It's just so icky, how can anyone enjoy such a thing? Just... Eww... [/sarcasm]
Actually, I love sex. It's a way of showing my loved one how much I care and love him. It's not driven by pure lust (as today's world seems to be). If I would get pregnant now, tomorrow, any day, I know I could take care of it, and I know Ville would stay by my side. And even if he didnt. We are not trying to have a baby, ofcourse it would be best to have a job and our own house etc. But if it was to happen, it would.
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2006 3:40 pm
kp606 Admitably, I'm beginning to think sex is one of those things just better off not created. I have never opened to much around here, but to be honest, it's a whole lotta nothing. I mean yeah, okay, sure, I've gotten sexually attracted to other people before. I've also had a staring contest with a bottle of alcohol, and the temptation to do a helluva lot more in life than what I do now, but you know something? I've used the better judgement in most cases. It pisses me off some of the type of things we "accent" in today's society, one of them is sex. Like seriously. Remember the Family Guy ep. with the smoking controversy? It's more like: "Are ya f------ yet?", seriously. I get bored in the bathroom so I pick up our (mis-delivered, no clue why the hair salon isn't getting their magazines) one of my mother's magazines and every glamour or redbook is some rehashed article on people's sex life. If you religiously read them, you will find, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. There exists a pool of questions every sex article is bound to cover AGAIN. It's like, okay we've been through this topic before, how can we re-adjust the wording to make it sound fresh? For a reference to the Bible, God wiped from the face of the Earth Sodom and Gomorah, and as one of my teacher's explained, the Angels were taken in by Lot because everyone in the town wanted to get some off the new visitors. Although we don't desire to rape every person staying at the local Mariott, it just seems everyone has sex on the brain. I think it's a character flaw. Yeah, I joke about it, but I just get so pissed. It's also one of those dividing issues things, in any place where you are surrounded by many of your peers the question of things like where, who, when, how are going to come up. You can't always express your opinion and it just makes the subject harder. I suppose I could say alot more but I won't. I just have qualms. But I'd never eradicate it, that'd be fighting a losing battle from the start. It just wouldn't be possible. I'm not "anti-sex", I just don't enjoy the reprecussions (spelling?). wow, you rule. way to go. sex is a choice, it is avoidable, it is not something that just happens... thus, pregnancy does not just happen. were sex to be just a pleasurable act, no abortion, no unwanted children, then what would i care if people did it? but that is not the case, and that is why i get pissed when people promote or revel in sex.
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2006 4:20 pm
kp606 Admitably, I'm beginning to think sex is one of those things just better off not created. I have never opened to much around here, but to be honest, it's a whole lotta nothing. I mean yeah, okay, sure, I've gotten sexually attracted to other people before. I've also had a staring contest with a bottle of alcohol, and the temptation to do a helluva lot more in life than what I do now, but you know something? I've used the better judgement in most cases. It pisses me off some of the type of things we "accent" in today's society, one of them is sex. Like seriously. Remember the Family Guy ep. with the smoking controversy? It's more like: "Are ya f------ yet?", seriously. I get bored in the bathroom so I pick up our (mis-delivered, no clue why the hair salon isn't getting their magazines) one of my mother's magazines and every glamour or redbook is some rehashed article on people's sex life. If you religiously read them, you will find, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. There exists a pool of questions every sex article is bound to cover AGAIN. It's like, okay we've been through this topic before, how can we re-adjust the wording to make it sound fresh? For a reference to the Bible, God wiped from the face of the Earth Sodom and Gomorah, and as one of my teacher's explained, the Angels were taken in by Lot because everyone in the town wanted to get some off the new visitors. Although we don't desire to rape every person staying at the local Mariott, it just seems everyone has sex on the brain. I think it's a character flaw. Yeah, I joke about it, but I just get so pissed. It's also one of those dividing issues things, in any place where you are surrounded by many of your peers the question of things like where, who, when, how are going to come up. You can't always express your opinion and it just makes the subject harder. I suppose I could say alot more but I won't. I just have qualms. But I'd never eradicate it, that'd be fighting a losing battle from the start. It just wouldn't be possible. I'm not "anti-sex", I just don't enjoy the reprecussions (spelling?). Your speech kinda reminds me of a quote from "Dogma." Bethany: Sex is a joke in Heaven? Metatron: The way I understand it, it's mostly a joke down here, too.
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2006 4:51 pm
Cyanna kp606 Admitably, I'm beginning to think sex is one of those things just better off not created. I have never opened to much around here, but to be honest, it's a whole lotta nothing. I mean yeah, okay, sure, I've gotten sexually attracted to other people before. I've also had a staring contest with a bottle of alcohol, and the temptation to do a helluva lot more in life than what I do now, but you know something? I've used the better judgement in most cases. It pisses me off some of the type of things we "accent" in today's society, one of them is sex. Like seriously. Remember the Family Guy ep. with the smoking controversy? It's more like: "Are ya f------ yet?", seriously. I get bored in the bathroom so I pick up our (mis-delivered, no clue why the hair salon isn't getting their magazines) one of my mother's magazines and every glamour or redbook is some rehashed article on people's sex life. If you religiously read them, you will find, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. There exists a pool of questions every sex article is bound to cover AGAIN. It's like, okay we've been through this topic before, how can we re-adjust the wording to make it sound fresh? For a reference to the Bible, God wiped from the face of the Earth Sodom and Gomorah, and as one of my teacher's explained, the Angels were taken in by Lot because everyone in the town wanted to get some off the new visitors. Although we don't desire to rape every person staying at the local Mariott, it just seems everyone has sex on the brain. I think it's a character flaw. Yeah, I joke about it, but I just get so pissed. It's also one of those dividing issues things, in any place where you are surrounded by many of your peers the question of things like where, who, when, how are going to come up. You can't always express your opinion and it just makes the subject harder. I suppose I could say alot more but I won't. I just have qualms. But I'd never eradicate it, that'd be fighting a losing battle from the start. It just wouldn't be possible. I'm not "anti-sex", I just don't enjoy the reprecussions (spelling?). Your speech kinda reminds me of a quote from "Dogma." Bethany: Sex is a joke in Heaven? Metatron: The way I understand it, it's mostly a joke down here, too. I really want to see that movie; I saw a tiny part of it and it sounds a bit like a story I'm writing, so I wanna see if I can make sure it's not too much alike. whee That and it looked really good. Obviously, since I haven't seen it, I can't really be plagiarizing, but that doesn't stop people from accusing. sad
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Posted: Thu Feb 23, 2006 6:47 am
I.Am Cyanna kp606 Admitably, I'm beginning to think sex is one of those things just better off not created. I have never opened to much around here, but to be honest, it's a whole lotta nothing. I mean yeah, okay, sure, I've gotten sexually attracted to other people before. I've also had a staring contest with a bottle of alcohol, and the temptation to do a helluva lot more in life than what I do now, but you know something? I've used the better judgement in most cases. It pisses me off some of the type of things we "accent" in today's society, one of them is sex. Like seriously. Remember the Family Guy ep. with the smoking controversy? It's more like: "Are ya f------ yet?", seriously. I get bored in the bathroom so I pick up our (mis-delivered, no clue why the hair salon isn't getting their magazines) one of my mother's magazines and every glamour or redbook is some rehashed article on people's sex life. If you religiously read them, you will find, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. There exists a pool of questions every sex article is bound to cover AGAIN. It's like, okay we've been through this topic before, how can we re-adjust the wording to make it sound fresh? For a reference to the Bible, God wiped from the face of the Earth Sodom and Gomorah, and as one of my teacher's explained, the Angels were taken in by Lot because everyone in the town wanted to get some off the new visitors. Although we don't desire to rape every person staying at the local Mariott, it just seems everyone has sex on the brain. I think it's a character flaw. Yeah, I joke about it, but I just get so pissed. It's also one of those dividing issues things, in any place where you are surrounded by many of your peers the question of things like where, who, when, how are going to come up. You can't always express your opinion and it just makes the subject harder. I suppose I could say alot more but I won't. I just have qualms. But I'd never eradicate it, that'd be fighting a losing battle from the start. It just wouldn't be possible. I'm not "anti-sex", I just don't enjoy the reprecussions (spelling?). Your speech kinda reminds me of a quote from "Dogma." Bethany: Sex is a joke in Heaven? Metatron: The way I understand it, it's mostly a joke down here, too. I really want to see that movie; I saw a tiny part of it and it sounds a bit like a story I'm writing, so I wanna see if I can make sure it's not too much alike. whee That and it looked really good. Obviously, since I haven't seen it, I can't really be plagiarizing, but that doesn't stop people from accusing. sad it's actually one of my favorite movies... angel- there's only one thing to do... let's kill people. woman-*gasps* angel- not you, not you!
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Posted: Thu Feb 23, 2006 4:00 pm
I am asexual!!! eek sweatdrop juuusstt kidding!
I don't believe in abortions or birth control, and not just because I was raised Catholic (and believe me, a Catholic pro-lifer is the worst rolleyes ) but because other speices have sex to reproduce. What are we but animals anyway? But we're also a bit above the animals because we have what's called willpower. This is what helps us to abstain. I'm not saying premarital sex is bad, especially in a loving, monogomous relationship, but you are able to say "No, I don't want to sleep with you tonight, sweetheart," whereas a cat in heat has practically no choice in who ties with her. And I also believe that if you're ready to have sex, you're ready to deal with the consequences of it; baby, STD, or whatever else comes your way. (That's why I'm still a virgin ... that and there's a bunch of @$$es where I live). wink
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Posted: Thu Feb 23, 2006 4:14 pm
goddess_elppy I am asexual!!! eek sweatdrop juuusstt kidding! I don't believe in abortions or birth control, and not just because I was raised Catholic (and believe me, a Catholic pro-lifer is the worst rolleyes ) but because other speices have sex to reproduce. What are we but animals anyway? But we're also a bit above the animals because we have what's called willpower. This is what helps us to abstain. I'm not saying premarital sex is bad, especially in a loving, monogomous relationship, but you are able to say "No, I don't want to sleep with you tonight, sweetheart," whereas a cat in heat has practically no choice in who ties with her. And I also believe that if you're ready to have sex, you're ready to deal with the consequences of it; baby, STD, or whatever else comes your way. (That's why I'm still a virgin ... that and there's a bunch of @$$es where I live). wink i may actually be asexual... i mean, i am attracted to females, but not for sex. it's for a feeling inside, for love. i have pretty much no interest in sex- i mean, i'd like to do it when i'm ready, but it's really not that big of a deal for me. i'd be more content cuddling.
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Posted: Sun Feb 26, 2006 10:53 am
I don't hate sex and stuff. But I'm not one to tell someone to get an abortion. >_< Makes me cry (sometimes, not all the time, but yeah.. a good deal of the time. And I probably won't be getting anyone pregnant ever, unless it is a surrogant mommy. o.o)
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