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 Posted: Thu Aug 11, 2011 5:07 pm
CVUnderbite Very often, mostly because i only have about 3 rl gay friends that i'm not very close to, and there's a few straight male friends that i've fallen in love for. Fortunately i was the "best gay friend" to some and they felt comfortable enough to "experiment" with. Still, it doesn't feel all that great knowing that your feelings aren't returned. You said everything i was thinking! lol
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Posted: Thu Aug 11, 2011 5:09 pm
Shizen Inomori CVUnderbite Very often, mostly because i only have about 3 rl gay friends that i'm not very close to, and there's a few straight male friends that i've fallen in love for. Fortunately i was the "best gay friend" to some and they felt comfortable enough to "experiment" with. Still, it doesn't feel all that great knowing that your feelings aren't returned. You said everything i was thinking! lol lol. I WIN!!!!
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:45 pm
The Grand Inquisitor My film studies professor is astonishingly beautiful: Tall, olive complexion, well-groomed hair, and always well-dressed. I considered asking him out for a drink before finding out he was married to another professor. [b*****d should have worn his ring to class.] XD My dumb a** would have asked him out and been embarassed in front of them all.
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Posted: Sat Aug 13, 2011 12:50 pm
The first time I felt my pansexuality, was when i fell in love with a beautiful girl. She was bright, bubbly, had a gorgeous smile and was just to cute! But she was straight as a line, and avoided me when she found out.
What bothers me most is that, I had my chance to talk to her ripped away from me. I was going to tell her when I was ready how strongly I felt for her, and just hope that she would give me a chance, or at least let me down easy. But when i told someone that I liked her, suddenly everybody was saying that I thought she was so hot and just wanted to get in her pants. She avoided me from that moment on, and I never got a chance to tell her that I loved her.
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Posted: Sat Aug 13, 2011 4:00 pm
it seems to be a habit of mine. every guy i've crushed on has been undeniably straight, and i guess it's that characteristic i'm kinda attracted to. it's not like the area i live in isn't accepting, it's just that few people here actually would be willing....if they didn't already "outsource"
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Posted: Sat Aug 13, 2011 9:40 pm
Silver Sage-General The Grand Inquisitor My film studies professor is astonishingly beautiful: Tall, olive complexion, well-groomed hair, and always well-dressed. I considered asking him out for a drink before finding out he was married to another professor. [b*****d should have worn his ring to class.] XD My dumb a** would have asked him out and been embarassed in front of them all. I wouldn't dare ask in public; it probably would have decreased my chances, if I had any to begin with. biggrin
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Posted: Sat Aug 13, 2011 10:20 pm
The Grand Inquisitor Silver Sage-General The Grand Inquisitor My film studies professor is astonishingly beautiful: Tall, olive complexion, well-groomed hair, and always well-dressed. I considered asking him out for a drink before finding out he was married to another professor. [b*****d should have worn his ring to class.] XD My dumb a** would have asked him out and been embarassed in front of them all. I wouldn't dare ask in public; it probably would have decreased my chances, if I had any to begin with. biggrin Lol I'm stupid like that.
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Posted: Sat Aug 13, 2011 10:27 pm
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2011 3:38 am
Never. I'm straight myself, so I certainly hope that someone I fall for would be the same, lest I face heartbreak, but the truth of the matter is, I've never actually been in love before. I feel sort of heartless, but no one's ever given me that end-all, fireworks in my brain, exploding happiness and joy, expressive, impulsive, ever-lasting thrill that lets me know I'm in love. Sure, I can say I've met a few guys that I thought were attractive, but I just put myself into false crushes to feel normal.
If I ever feel love; which I'm on the fence about wanting, I hope the guy I like is straight. I've been on the other side of turning down love from female friends, and trust me, it's never as painful, but still very painful to turn them down. I feel for all of you, as well as the friends that had to break your hearts. I never want to have to do that ever again.
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2011 8:04 am
Silver Sage-General @Bixy: I kinda know how it feels. I never dated him but even though I have a boyfriend now I still feel like I need the straight guy around sometimes.
Yeah. I'm almost dependent on the damn girl. I mean, she was always my best friend, we've been through almost everything together. But now since that whole, "I'm sorry.. I'm just straight..." thing, there's a lot I don't tell her anymore...
~L
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2011 8:09 am
Yeah. I wish that she would try as well. But as of nearly two weeks, I've been dating this guy who is absolutely amazing. I hate to talk about him around her though, because I know she still thinks about it sometimes. As they say in the Wedding Singer (lol, which is actually our school musical this year c: ) Love Stinks!
~L
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2011 5:19 pm
Hasnt that happened to everyone?
Ive had a few, but they've never became anything serious.
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2011 5:29 pm
I dated a guy who ended up renouncing his homosexuality and leaving me for a female exchange student. Does that count? xd
Granted, when I fell for him, he wasn't straight.
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2011 11:11 pm
yes.......he was my first boyfriend. first relationship ever. still is. unforunately i recentantly had the epiphany that im lesbian...........painful knowing i love someone i cant have and then am going to have to dump him...........
ugh. i hate myself -_-
*goes back to hiding*
course i've fallen for strait girls too..........and one that is bi but is taken......
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Posted: Sun Aug 14, 2011 11:18 pm
RoxyChick2003 Never. I'm straight myself, so I certainly hope that someone I fall for would be the same, lest I face heartbreak, but the truth of the matter is, I've never actually been in love before. I feel sort of heartless, but no one's ever given me that end-all, fireworks in my brain, exploding happiness and joy, expressive, impulsive, ever-lasting thrill that lets me know I'm in love. Sure, I can say I've met a few guys that I thought were attractive, but I just put myself into false crushes to feel normal. i used to be in the same boat as you. at the moment, im wishing i never took shore leave xd anyways, im sure you will find that one guy. there is like........*does statistical anylistics* at least 2 billion guys on earth within 10 years of you (unless your over 50. then that number goes down xd )
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