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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2011 11:35 am
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BSPBleach Fears and Lies iLegoBlock Fears and Lies I as well did post something on facebook but i got messages telling me to take down the post.. so i did.... -teardrop- Thats terrible. Spite who ever said that and put up another message, and ignore those assholes. it was a while ago plus i hardly go on fb anymore you might not, but other people do. it'd be a good way to get it out there. especially if you dont get on much, cuz then if people start 'trolling' or harassing you about it, you wont be on to care right? might be worth a shot to not hide it anymore. *shrugs* but what does it matter what i say? i still havnt come out to anyone irl........
everything you says matters. it doesn't matter if its based on experience or just an idea everything everyone says matters
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2011 11:42 am
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2011 11:44 am
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Fears and Lies BSPBleach Fears and Lies iLegoBlock Fears and Lies I as well did post something on facebook but i got messages telling me to take down the post.. so i did.... -teardrop- Thats terrible. Spite who ever said that and put up another message, and ignore those assholes. it was a while ago plus i hardly go on fb anymore you might not, but other people do. it'd be a good way to get it out there. especially if you dont get on much, cuz then if people start 'trolling' or harassing you about it, you wont be on to care right? might be worth a shot to not hide it anymore. *shrugs* but what does it matter what i say? i still havnt come out to anyone irl........ everything you says matters. it doesn't matter if its based on experience or just an idea everything everyone says matters
lol well i appreciate the view point. as pessimistic as it sounds, such an....open view point seems to be dieing. hopefully thats changing....
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2011 7:52 pm
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Matasoga Oreo Panda16 But the thing is, you can't deny who you are just to please everyone else. If they think you're a freak or something, that's their problem. But it's not his problem. In cases of gay-bullying (which it's obvious there is plenty of at his school) it becomes his problem, when they don't like it. Don't you remember what high-school was like? @OP: Come out to your parents, by all means. They sound like good parents who will love you no less and treat you no differently. As for coming out in school... I guess that depends on how resilient you are to taunts and bullying. It breaks my heart to have to tell you this, but please, be careful. I can't tell you how sick it makes me to even begin to suggest that you deny and bury yourself under such a lie, but you may find that honesty (with people who have no business knowing in the first place) just isn't worth the consequences. Also, please remember... You can always tell them the truth later, but once they know, there is no going back. I hope that helps. I don't think I remember saying it was his fault? And yes, I do remember what high school was like, because I just graduated last month. It only becomes his business if he lets it affect him.
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2011 10:10 pm
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Oreo Panda16 Matasoga Oreo Panda16 But the thing is, you can't deny who you are just to please everyone else. If they think you're a freak or something, that's their problem. But it's not his problem. In cases of gay-bullying (which it's obvious there is plenty of at his school) it becomes his problem, when they don't like it. Don't you remember what high-school was like? @OP: Come out to your parents, by all means. They sound like good parents who will love you no less and treat you no differently. As for coming out in school... I guess that depends on how resilient you are to taunts and bullying. It breaks my heart to have to tell you this, but please, be careful. I can't tell you how sick it makes me to even begin to suggest that you deny and bury yourself under such a lie, but you may find that honesty (with people who have no business knowing in the first place) just isn't worth the consequences. Also, please remember... You can always tell them the truth later, but once they know, there is no going back. I hope that helps. I don't think I remember saying it was his fault? And yes, I do remember what high school was like, because I just graduated last month. It only becomes his business if he lets it affect him. Yeah, endless daily taunting and the occasional beating (depending on just how bad his school is) are only likely to affect the severely over-sensitive.
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2011 10:15 pm
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Matasoga Oreo Panda16 Matasoga Oreo Panda16 But the thing is, you can't deny who you are just to please everyone else. If they think you're a freak or something, that's their problem. But it's not his problem. In cases of gay-bullying (which it's obvious there is plenty of at his school) it becomes his problem, when they don't like it. Don't you remember what high-school was like? @OP: Come out to your parents, by all means. They sound like good parents who will love you no less and treat you no differently. As for coming out in school... I guess that depends on how resilient you are to taunts and bullying. It breaks my heart to have to tell you this, but please, be careful. I can't tell you how sick it makes me to even begin to suggest that you deny and bury yourself under such a lie, but you may find that honesty (with people who have no business knowing in the first place) just isn't worth the consequences. Also, please remember... You can always tell them the truth later, but once they know, there is no going back. I hope that helps. I don't think I remember saying it was his fault? And yes, I do remember what high school was like, because I just graduated last month. It only becomes his business if he lets it affect him. Yeah, endless daily taunting and the occasional beating (depending on just how bad his school is) are only likely to affect the severely over-sensitive. The key is to be ignorant of it. But I'm not in the mood to argue with someone, especially over the internet.
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2011 10:55 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 29, 2011 10:58 pm
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Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 12:14 am
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Matasoga BSPBleach Matasoga Yeah, endless daily taunting and the occasional beating (depending on just how bad his school is) are only likely to affect the severely over-sensitive. guess that makes me heartless mmm? If they had no affect on you at all, whatsoever, yeah. Either that or deaf and numb all over.
oh. okay then. guess someone forgot to inform me im heartless. good to know.
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Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 12:33 pm
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Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 1:52 pm
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Posted: Fri Jul 01, 2011 11:27 am
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Posted: Sat Jul 02, 2011 2:09 am
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Posted: Sat Jul 02, 2011 2:28 am
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