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 Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 6:49 am
rmcdra you know he had me thinking about something. Does p***s size matter in a male homosexual relationship? I don't think it does but I honestly don't know. Would anyone with more information be willing to enlighten me about this? Unless you are watching those late night p***s size shows, you will probably get the vague answer of, "it only matters how you use it that counts".
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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 7:54 am
jaden kendam rmcdra you know he had me thinking about something. Does p***s size matter in a male homosexual relationship? I don't think it does but I honestly don't know. Would anyone with more information be willing to enlighten me about this? Unless you are watching those late night p***s size shows, you will probably get the vague answer of, "it only matters how you use it that counts". That's pretty much what I figured too but yeah I don't know. I know that if I were looking for a guy, p***s size might be nice but I would so much more I'd be looking for than just that. Besides sex toys are nice too XD.
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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 11:02 am
rmcdra jaden kendam rmcdra you know he had me thinking about something. Does p***s size matter in a male homosexual relationship? I don't think it does but I honestly don't know. Would anyone with more information be willing to enlighten me about this? Unless you are watching those late night p***s size shows, you will probably get the vague answer of, "it only matters how you use it that counts". That's pretty much what I figured too but yeah I don't know. I know that if I were looking for a guy, p***s size might be nice but I would so much more I'd be looking for than just that. Besides sex toys are nice too XD. I've noticed a bit more discrimination about that in regards to my homosexual friends versus hetereosexual friends, but everyone seems to agree that it's not the most important thing in regards to a relationship, even a sexual one. I think that's because, unless you are packing 8 inches, all guys end up getting a bit too self conscious about it. So natural they'd deflect that on potential partners as well. It's sad, because it REALLY DOESNT MATTER. Scientificly proven. 2_phatian Okay, first off I am not afraid of sex, nor have any negative views on it other than, with rape, child molestation, and similar acts. What drives a person to do those this is beyond me. But, my whole issue with it is, God hasn't really granted me the best of looks and to be honest, down there is a little.... um.... small, which is really embarrassing to even tell another about. I have been holding off, because I feel after the event, my partner will think even less of me. This has cost me a number of relationships, and a number of fights. At times I feel like I will never have that kind of relationship with another human. Possibly it is a self-confidence issue, I have no idea. any words of thought would be helpful. Alright, here's the thing- You've had relationships in the past- Clearly, you look good enough. Size? As I mentioned, it does not matter. People think it does, and unfortunately sometimes that causes strain, but it does not matter. Though I do think that you really need to start loving yourself more, if lack of confidence is killing relationships. I'm not exactly the pick of the litter myself. I'm overweight, and I have a back problem. I look at the mirror and I HATE that. But I also look in the mirror and see an awesome face, long, beautiful hair, and a goatee that would make Ivan the Terrible Jealous. I'm a passionate guy, about movies, about politics, and yes, about love. I also have eyes that change color based on my feelings. It's pretty awesome, I got mood ring eyes. Now, I'm not trying to go on about how awesome I am- I'm just saying that I haven't met any one person who doesn't have something worth gloating about. Or some defect that would make them feel unworthy. Point is knowing what you have.
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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 8:37 pm
Matt Pniewski rmcdra jaden kendam rmcdra you know he had me thinking about something. Does p***s size matter in a male homosexual relationship? I don't think it does but I honestly don't know. Would anyone with more information be willing to enlighten me about this? Unless you are watching those late night p***s size shows, you will probably get the vague answer of, "it only matters how you use it that counts". That's pretty much what I figured too but yeah I don't know. I know that if I were looking for a guy, p***s size might be nice but I would so much more I'd be looking for than just that. Besides sex toys are nice too XD. I've noticed a bit more discrimination about that in regards to my homosexual friends versus hetereosexual friends, but everyone seems to agree that it's not the most important thing in regards to a relationship, even a sexual one. I think that's because, unless you are packing 8 inches, all guys end up getting a bit too self conscious about it. So natural they'd deflect that on potential partners as well. It's sad, because it REALLY DOESNT MATTER. Scientificly proven. I think even the guys with bigger ones are a little self conscious. Like women with their breasts or v****a. I find many of the ones who arent, in my exerpiences, are actually very self conscious, but brag because theirs are smaller than average, for the males. Or they have small breasts for women. Even the few porno stars I have met are self coscious about their sizes, which is what leads many of them to getting surgery done to correct that. I also think that size does matter when you dont know how to use it. For guys who are longer or larger than average who just want to treat a woman or another male like a piece of a**, then thier larger or smaller than average size can cause great discomfort. I know a gay guy who prefers his lovers to be small because hes met larger guys and, well, im not going into detail and im not sure why they told me, so I will leave it to your imaginations.
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2011 1:10 pm
heart Sex, guns, and alcohol.... these can be used for very fine occasions indeed smile Take weddings for example. 3nodding But like any good thing, it can be very easy to use it for activities that generate a lot of negative behavior, IE: Alcoholism, sleeping around, shooting people for any number of wrong reasons, etc. That's why it's easy for me to buy the bit that God made everything good (on the premise that he exists) because I can look at just about anything with a, "Yup, that's good." and then look at how someone might use it, and then, "not so much."
Such is the extent of my logic, however limited it may be. ninja heart
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Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2011 11:09 pm
Splendid Sailor Venus heart Sex, guns, and alcohol.... these can be used for very fine occasions indeed smile Take weddings for example. 3nodding But like any good thing, it can be very easy to use it for activities that generate a lot of negative behavior, IE: Alcoholism, sleeping around, shooting people for any number of wrong reasons, etc. That's why it's easy for me to buy the bit that God made everything good (on the premise that he exists) because I can look at just about anything with a, "Yup, that's good." and then look at how someone might use it, and then, "not so much." Such is the extent of my logic, however limited it may be. ninja heart Moderation is good when it comes to these indeed biggrin .
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2011 12:17 pm
I heard of this on the radio and thought it may be helpful... I don't know how. Pornographic images, can easily ruin a relationship and get into someone's head how one should be... I seen it ruin my 2 older brothers relationships and sadly I see my younger brother walking the same road... I will be honest, I have seen them as well, but now I am trying to stay on the path, the son of God laid out for me.... I hope if anyone is going though this kind of addiction you get help... maybe this may help... http://leafoutreach.org/
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2011 12:27 pm
Southern_cross_nemesis I heard of this on the radio and thought it may be helpful... I don't know how. Pornographic images, can easily ruin a relationship and get into someone's head how one should be... I seen it ruin my 2 older brothers relationships and sadly I see my younger brother walking the same road... I will be honest, I have seen them as well, but now I am trying to stay on the path, the son of God laid out for me.... I hope if anyone is going though this kind of addiction you get help... maybe this may help... http://leafoutreach.org/ I'm not sure if I agree with porn being the ruiner of relationships. I know my fiancee and I will watch porn together. It gives ideas of how to make love that we wouldn't have thought of and it has helped her become more comfortable with her body image. If porn is being used as a substitute for relationships and being used as the "standard" for what a relationship is like then obviously there is a problem but such a sweeping comment is akin to saying D&D leads to devil worship.
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2011 12:41 pm
rmcdra I'm not sure if I agree with porn being the ruiner of relationships. I know my fiancee and I will watch porn together. It gives ideas of how to make love that we wouldn't have thought of and it has helped her become more comfortable with her body image. If porn is being used as a substitute for relationships and being used as the "standard" for what a relationship is like then obviously there is a problem but such a sweeping comment is akin to saying D&D leads to devil worship. Matthew 5:28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. I know, it goes back to what you said in relation to Venus' comment. If used as a tool. it can be useful. but if the mind and heart are not prepared, It may lead to lies, deceit, even withdraw from your partner. All are bad.... in short, like many things it can be a double-edged sword. If used unwisely it can do more harm than good... just a warning and help those that need it and want it And odd that you bring up DnD leading to devil worship... I am a dnd player XP
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2011 3:45 pm
Southern_cross_nemesis rmcdra I'm not sure if I agree with porn being the ruiner of relationships. I know my fiancee and I will watch porn together. It gives ideas of how to make love that we wouldn't have thought of and it has helped her become more comfortable with her body image. If porn is being used as a substitute for relationships and being used as the "standard" for what a relationship is like then obviously there is a problem but such a sweeping comment is akin to saying D&D leads to devil worship. Matthew 5:28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. I know, it goes back to what you said in relation to Venus' comment. If used as a tool. it can be useful. but if the mind and heart are not prepared, It may lead to lies, deceit, even withdraw from your partner. All are bad.... in short, like many things it can be a double-edged sword. If used unwisely it can do more harm than good... just a warning and help those that need it and want it And odd that you bring up DnD leading to devil worship... I am a dnd player XP Not sure what that verse has to do with this thread. I don't think any of are claiming to be "holier than thou" as the Pharisees did. Since porn is a double edged sword it would be to one's advantage to understand it then one can know what risks and benefits are involved. I don't think silence or over inflating the negative aspects are particularly helpful when dealing with a double edged sword. I play D&D too. You may be too young to remember this but there was campaigns in the 80's against D&D, that playing it would "over-fuel" the imagination and lead to devil worship or whatever baseless accusation those people made. These modern anti-porn arguments seem very similar to that debunked agenda.
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2011 5:10 pm
rmcdra Not sure what that verse has to do with this thread. I don't think any of are claiming to be "holier than thou" as the Pharisees did. Since porn is a double edged sword it would be to one's advantage to understand it then one can know what risks and benefits are involved. I don't think silence or over inflating the negative aspects are particularly helpful when dealing with a double edged sword. I play D&D too. You may be too young to remember this but there was campaigns in the 80's against D&D, that playing it would "over-fuel" the imagination and lead to devil worship or whatever baseless accusation those people made. These modern anti-porn arguments seem very similar to that debunked agenda. Would you just believe, I put the wrong verse... I wanted a different one for this... I can't remember it now. I wanted to put that one to another argument I was in. Sorry, I should have read the verse before placing it... I agree, but I also think, media plays to much of a light handedness of the topic. I mean, nearly every movie and program, has a scene or two suggesting or in the act. And even fewer, speak of the dangers or the negative side. Leaving teachers and parents to do that, and I still don't know a single kid who at that age listened to ether, most want to do what the cool kids or their heroes on those programs was doing. Like you said, I am too young to remember much of the 80's, as I am only 26 and only started to play the game a few years ago... but I have read all the hype. Eh, I didn't want to start an argument, I do value your option, I just speak on the thing no one spoke to me about. Or at least, no one I listened too.
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2011 6:43 pm
Southern_cross_nemesis Would you just believe, I put the wrong verse... I wanted a different one for this... I can't remember it now. I wanted to put that one to another argument I was in. Sorry, I should have read the verse before placing it... I agree, but I also think, media plays to much of a light handedness of the topic. I mean, nearly every movie and program, has a scene or two suggesting or in the act. And even fewer, speak of the dangers or the negative side. Leaving teachers and parents to do that, and I still don't know a single kid who at that age listened to ether, most want to do what the cool kids or their heroes on those programs was doing. Like you said, I am too young to remember much of the 80's, as I am only 26 and only started to play the game a few years ago... but I have read all the hype. Eh, I didn't want to start an argument, I do value your option, I just speak on the thing no one spoke to me about. Or at least, no one I listened too. It's okay we all to that from time to time. I understand that the media makes a down plays alot of the negative side of sex. But I don't believe the proper reaction is to play up all the negative side effects. Both are asking for problems. Also latest polls as of March 2011 show that fewer young people are having sex. Some say it's because modern life is too busy, which may be in part, but I think it has to do with better sex education. XD Dude you are the same age as me. I'm sorry for assuming you were younger than me. The main reason I know about the anti-DnD stuff is because I had a lot of older friends and the internet houses many of the anti-DnD tracts. That's what this thread is here for. I'm human just like the rest of you all. If I'm wrong on something I hope that I'm called on it. I don't have all the answers and I don't make such promises like some in the Christian community might do. Don't stay quiet for the sake of peace because that's not peace, that's complacency and that leads to spiritual stagnation and greater problems later on. Now there may come up topics that cannot be reconciled due to lack of information all around but this is not one of them. I'm glad you spoke up because it shows that you are thinking for yourself. It is through trails and discussions that better understandings can be fostered.
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Posted: Fri Jun 17, 2011 10:49 pm
Southern_cross_nemesis rmcdra I'm not sure if I agree with porn being the ruiner of relationships. I know my fiancee and I will watch porn together. It gives ideas of how to make love that we wouldn't have thought of and it has helped her become more comfortable with her body image. If porn is being used as a substitute for relationships and being used as the "standard" for what a relationship is like then obviously there is a problem but such a sweeping comment is akin to saying D&D leads to devil worship. Matthew 5:28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. I know, it goes back to what you said in relation to Venus' comment. If used as a tool. it can be useful. but if the mind and heart are not prepared, It may lead to lies, deceit, even withdraw from your partner. All are bad.... in short, like many things it can be a double-edged sword. If used unwisely it can do more harm than good... just a warning and help those that need it and want it Me and my girlfriend have an understanding. Porn is fine. Porn is dandy. Thing is, i don't have interest in girls who aren't Amber. I don't get into porn. At all. They are all pale comparisons to the beautiful woman at my side. That being said, if I had pornography, she'd be okay with it. On the condition that I did not have an obsession, or if I really needed it. I talk about this on a personal, not spiritual level. Human nature will always prevail, and our sexual attraction to others will always be there. I say "Why fight it?" Looking at somebody with lust is perfectly natural, because we are built to be attracted in that fashion. If not, our species wouldn't go on. However, we are also built with self control. We shouldn't obsess, we shouldn't overstep our bounds. It's one thing to accept our human failures, another all together to give in. Quote: And odd that you bring up DnD leading to devil worship... I am a dnd player XP We should start a Dungeon and Dragons group for all the people in this guild. I know how to run them online. No Evil Characters. Not because this is a Christian group, but because I can't run mixed alignments very well....
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Posted: Sun Jun 19, 2011 9:53 am
My husband won't run mixed campaigns either. stare
I love playing evil characters. LOL I don't feel bad when they die, and I can actually bring myself to put them in more compromising situations. I also have to admit that I love the outlet it gives me to do horrible things.
I have ran a couple of successful mixed campaigns myself, but there is definitely a delicate balance that must be maintained, and there is always a couple of characters that have been seriously compromised by the end of the thing (plus at least one character less). I am pretty lenient with the resurrections when it comes to mixed campaigns, I just don't let my table know it. xp
Yeah... none of that had anything to do with sex. rolleyes
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