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Foam-Dome

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2011 11:19 pm


I only do if they're really talkative and I don't know what to talk about with them. D: It's not because I don't like them, but because I don't like the immensely awkward situations that it puts me in.

And even then, I won't ignore them if they talk to me. I'll just go invisible on AIM or something. XD
PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 11:04 pm


I'm concerned. At what point do people actually force you into tears? Or get you to the point of hatred, anger, etc? Why does it bother you so much?

I am the last person you would think to take sides, but at the same point, they could be thinking the same about you. The fact that people get to you in that way is your own issue. Yes, it is a human condition to feel a dislike for someone, based on how they act, think, dress, talk, walk, etc. But if you think about it, you are no better than those people who do those things that you dislike. You sit there and complain about them doing it, as if you are without fault. No point in arguing the fact. No point in stating that you dislike something based on your own opinions as opinions are very common. Everyone has them. Everyone will always have an opinion of you, even if it isn't right.

The point is don't sit and bicker about the way someone does something, and expect them not to retaliate, or think that you are better than say a homophobe for being who they are. It isn't a choice to be gay, right? Ok, so it isn't a choice to be narrow minded either.

(Before you begin to comment, I am a Gay male, so I do believe I have justification for my last remark).  

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Suelita_M

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 2:57 am


I don't think it takes a lot for me to shut someone out. Usually though the people I ignore or write off are perverts and/or stalkers. D8 Okay, on gaia most of the time my avvy attracts those types but in real life I'm never that exposed. I usually wear dress shirts, pants and heels. And in real life, I wish I had the option of an ignore button for those types. The ones who are almost every time you look at them, they're looking staring. .__. It doesn't happen often, and some people have told me I should be flattered by it, but really it's creepy.. >>; Also this means that I don't often shut people out.

When someone I'm supposed to trust lies to me repeatedly, I also cut ties with them and move on.
PostPosted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 5:17 am


everyone gets a little pervy everynow and then though rofl what if you caught them during their pervy time?

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Suelita_M

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 3:54 pm


AstralStorm
everyone gets a little pervy everynow and then though rofl what if you caught them during their pervy time?
If I'm only catching them during their pervy times, then they have some serious bad luck! XD;
PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2011 7:09 pm


It takes /a lot/ for me to shut people out. I'm more the type to shut my self off from people, because i'm incredibly upset, even if they had nothing to do with it.
but things that make me shut people out : offending people i care about, making me want to bash them in the face(more for their own safety than mine), racism/homophobic..ism stuff like that, or just being a complete douche, which i can take a lot of, as I've proven time and time again.
But I'm the kind of person who gives a million chances. just in case.

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