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 Posted: Tue Aug 11, 2009 11:45 am
how old are you???
I also misscarried. But nobody knew i was pregnant....I was only 5 weeks in and i had been raped...Its only been a month since it happened...and i cant get over it.
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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 5:55 am
Mighty Selkie_girl how old are you??? I also misscarried. But nobody knew i was pregnant....I was only 5 weeks in and i had been raped...Its only been a month since it happened...and i cant get over it. Selkie, as painful as that was- did you report it? Its very important to do. The rapist was in the wrong. I hope you get counseling to deal with this. It's still fresh in your mind but that may be the only way you can get closure and heal from it. Good luck.
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Posted: Tue Oct 19, 2010 12:18 pm
I found out I miscarried at 8 weeks. It hurt a lot but I chose not to have the D&C but instead let it pass naturally. It didn't pass until nearly 4 weeks. The hardest part was carrying around my baby knowing that it was no longer alive. I don't even no how to handle it. To be honest, I don't even want to acknowledge that it did happen.
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Posted: Wed Oct 20, 2010 11:01 am
Fallen_Angel_Eyes21 I found out I miscarried at 8 weeks. It hurt a lot but I chose not to have the D&C but instead let it pass naturally. It didn't pass until nearly 4 weeks. The hardest part was carrying around my baby knowing that it was no longer alive. I don't even no how to handle it. To be honest, I don't even want to acknowledge that it did happen. *hug* Do you have an option of finding someone to talk to, like a counsellor or psychologist? Or even a school counsellor?
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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 11:40 am
Nikolita Fallen_Angel_Eyes21 I found out I miscarried at 8 weeks. It hurt a lot but I chose not to have the D&C but instead let it pass naturally. It didn't pass until nearly 4 weeks. The hardest part was carrying around my baby knowing that it was no longer alive. I don't even no how to handle it. To be honest, I don't even want to acknowledge that it did happen. *hug* Do you have an option of finding someone to talk to, like a counsellor or psychologist? Or even a school counsellor? I spent a lot of time talking with my best friend, my husband was a big help over all. I think he took it just as hard. As sad as it was, going through that loss really bonded us together.
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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 2:13 pm
Fallen_Angel_Eyes21 Nikolita Fallen_Angel_Eyes21 I found out I miscarried at 8 weeks. It hurt a lot but I chose not to have the D&C but instead let it pass naturally. It didn't pass until nearly 4 weeks. The hardest part was carrying around my baby knowing that it was no longer alive. I don't even no how to handle it. To be honest, I don't even want to acknowledge that it did happen. *hug* Do you have an option of finding someone to talk to, like a counsellor or psychologist? Or even a school counsellor? I spent a lot of time talking with my best friend, my husband was a big help over all. I think he took it just as hard. As sad as it was, going through that loss really bonded us together. It was a sad situation, but at least you were able to be there and be supportive for each other. heart Not everyone can say that. And while the loss of your baby was sad, nothing says you guys can't try again in the future.
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Posted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 11:02 pm
Yeah, he wants to try again. He has twin girls from his previous marriage so we hope for a boy.
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