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Ithaya
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 2:17 pm


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I told one of my friends and she said it was gross. D": What the hell? Absence of sex is gross now?


"Eww.... what are you doing?!!!"
"I'm just.... not having sex..."
"Stop that! Eww... I mean... start that... or something <_>"

Hehehe. Now that's amusing.

It's really terrible how many of you get these responses like you're some kind of a freak. It's beyond cruel.
Of the people I've told, most or all of them just accepted it; even if they didn't believe it. They didn't call me weird or anything.
I'm very open with my hate of homophobia. I'll challenge anyone who says it's wrong (well, most). So maybe they're just used to my aversion to prejudice or something...
Or maybe it's my lack of trust for most people...
I've yet to tell my parents. I'll wait a few years for that. Just to be sure.
PostPosted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 6:48 pm


My parents expect me to have children. I told them that I didn't want to, but my mom replied that I don't know what I'm saying, and that I don't really know for sure if I'll have kids.

Then my dad jokingly said that he wanted to be a grandfather, which launched me on a rant that the reason why parents want to become grandparents is for social status.

But they just shrugged it aside, and I continued to revise my short story.

Xumbra
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Ithaya
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 2:54 am


Xumbra
My parents expect me to have children. I told them that I didn't want to, but my mom replied that I don't know what I'm saying, and that I don't really know for sure if I'll have kids.

Then my dad jokingly said that he wanted to be a grandfather, which launched me on a rant that the reason why parents want to become grandparents is for social status.

But they just shrugged it aside, and I continued to revise my short story.

My parents were discussing the children thing again last night...I said I didn't want any and they told me I'd change my mind (at this point I believe them; I know I most likely will on a lot of matters). But I still stuck with the adoption thing (with no mention of asexuality whatsoever). They don't seem to mind if I have children or not, but they do seem to want it.
And then my mum was all like 'not yet, no, no' like she was scared we were gonna go out and get pregnant tomorrow. XP
PostPosted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 10:18 am


Grandparent-hood is mostly social status, but I also heard someone once say that grandkids show how well you raised your own kids. I thought it was very interesting.

Quite frankly, I hate kids. I mean, I don't know how anyone could've stood me. All kids just bug me incewsantly to no end. That's one main reason, besides the biggest of all (being my asexuality), I'll never have or adopt kids.

I, beign the youngest in our family, have 4 older bros and siss that are all married, one just had a kid, and the other is expecting one in about 2 months. Shouldn't they be happy with what they have.


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