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 Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2005 12:30 pm
I've only told some people that i was bi, except somehow it got around....i know who probably did it tho
but for me, i have no consience, so it's easy for me to tell people, and to see their reacitons is funny. i've only made one friendship a tiny bit awkward, but everyone accepts it.
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2005 12:50 pm
I try to make it a point to only tell people I really trust about my sexuality
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 12:24 am
I'm very shy about telling people I'm bi too, 'cuz I have lost some friends after telling it to them. But our friends must know how we are, including the fact that we are bi, and if they can't understand that or hate us because of that, well, then are they really our friends?
So I guess we should talk about it when the moment comes 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 8:23 am
I'm semi-shy about telling people i'm bi. I started to tell some close friends at the end of my 8th grade year, and now most of them know. I have this one friend who thinks it funny to cause akwardness infront of groups of people and once inside a practice room announced to everyone one in the room that i was bisexual. LUCKILY for me i was close to everyone in the room and they all already knew, but they all acted surprised to he would get the attention he so depratly wanted and left. My parents don't know, and i'm not that excited about having to tell them...but if they were ever to ask, i'd of course admit to it..untill them it'll be my little secret i guess.. wink
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 10:34 am
Well at first I was ashamed, then I was proud and wanted to tell everyone but my parents, so one day my sister tells my mom and she screamed at me for it, for hours actually...called a slut and a whore said i was damning myself to hell...so i've kinda quieted down since then
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 12:10 pm
My close friends know. I never lie about it to anyone when they ask, but it's not like i go around wearing a sign that says "Let's get something straight.... I'm not" Like i've seen some people wear to get reactions out of people. I haven't told my mother though. She would totally flip out on me.
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 12:19 pm
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 1:30 pm
Never been afraid to say it, known it since I was young. Lesbian through and through. Unless you think people will give a damn...why tell them at all...they'll just think that you're being friendly. ^^
Told my parents years ago...they aren't bothered with not having grandbabys some day.
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 2:07 pm
hell nooo im not shy about it..it just comes out in everyday conversations lol
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 2:33 pm
i used to be really shy but now i don't mind ^ ^
wanna know? sure... if it comes up, i'll tell ya. lol
whee
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 3:14 pm
I'm not..I see no shame in being the way I am
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 3:16 pm
Korn_Disturbed I'm not..I see no shame in being the way I am Embarassment is not the same as shame.
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 3:18 pm
S.R.Osuna Korn_Disturbed I'm not..I see no shame in being the way I am Embarassment is not the same as shame. not the same...but very similar if you think about it...
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 3:26 pm
Similar and often related, but when you use them interchangably you'll will find cases where it changes the meaning.
The distinction must be made for relavence.
I'm embarassed about talking to my parents about my sexuality, but I'm not ashamed of it.
It's just an akward subject for me. There are many such cases in which the words are not interchangable.
I bring this up because you are making it sound as though those of us who are shy are ashamed of our sexuality which is not true.
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2005 3:29 pm
S.R.Osuna Similar and often related, but when you use them interchangably you'll will find cases where it changes the meaning. The distinction must be made for relavence. I'm embarassed about talking to my parents about my sexuality, but I'm not ashamed of it. It's just an akward subject for me. There are many such cases in which the words are not interchangable. I bring this up because you are making it sound as though those of us who are shy are ashamed of our sexuality which is not true. I wasnt trying to make ones who are shy sound ashamed..I just saying how I feel about it..So excuse me
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